Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

Talk to her and hear her out. Some women lose interest in their man when the kids start coming. 2/3 kids can make your wife lose interest in you.

Check your finances, if there is a dip, some women lose interest in their man.

If you want her attention back, (since your Faith doesn't allow for a 2nd wife) pretend to lose interest in her too.

Try acting as if some ladies are after you too. Answer phantom phone calls and do fake Whatsapp chats.

pocohantas:
Marry a second wife.

The same you that vilified Yul for marrying a 2nd wife.

Get a side chick and leave her alone, when her brain reset she will come begging then you'll be the boss in control. Give her a little competition

bizhop01:
Sex again in this 2023?

And so?

Even the Bible and Koran advices married couples to have regular sex so the union remains strong.

Seat your wife down and tell her your feelings and let her know you're not comfortable initiating the move everytime. Let her know you know what guys do outside that they won't even bother to touch their wives again, that she should not push you to the level of cheating on her. But please don't cheat on her, you will regret it in the end, it won't give you peace of mind at the end, you may even lose everything you're trying to build now.

Guyman01:
Na new year be this, put that energy of thinking about sex into a money making venture and self improvement. Go to the gym, learn a new skill, get a new professional certificate and vote Peter Obi and na she go dey beg you like Fancy is doing to Alexx Ekubo

he no dey easy like that for people wey dey sex starved especially when they are being denied by their spouse in marriage...

i say if you dey sex starved for marriage ...he go be like say dem lose one bolt for your head....

the person no go normal again until he get sex...

so sometimes no be about the money .....

even though money is important to every one...you see sex is importanter to him as it stands.

Make sure you talk about sex before marriage. If she doesnt want to talk about sex before marriage, then you know she will give you issues eventually when you both get married.

Best believe she’s not starving someone else of Sex if you know you know

Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

For asking this question, you be Mumu

billyG:

The same you that vilified Yul for marrying a 2nd wife.

So? Why exactly do you think my suggestion is for his betterment or you think I have strength to argue with you?

Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

This is why it's very important to talk about sex during courtship no matter how 'holy' you think you are.

You can tell her you like sex and ask her if she likes it too.

Infact sex shouldn't be less than 5 times in a week o.

If she doesn't agree, move on to another.

What one ignored during courtship comes up during marriage.
You knew you loved sex, why didn't you discuss it

benson4u:
I have the following questions for you, answer honestly please.
1) Was she sexualy molested earlier in her life?
2) Is she the shy type or an introvert?
3) Did you met her a virgin?
4) Has she given birth before?
5) Do you know if she's pregnant?
6) Is she working for someone or she has her own business?
7) Is the work or business stressful or giving her time for you?
Was she like this while you guys were dating?

Forget all these, some women are just mean and wicked. She might be starving her husband with sex without any tangible reason.
One thing about Christian marriages, the wives believe that divorce isn't an option most especially when the guy is a devoted Christian or Pastor.
A lot of Pastors are suffering in silence.

Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

since it's against your Christian faith, then remain sexstarve then. Tho we need to ear your wife side of the story, if your accusation is true then the Bible tell you to divorce such woman immediately and marry a new one, you people are just blind Christians you don't even know what Bible says, you believe in what a pastor says than what God says. God even place a curse on any woman who deny her husband of sex. Bible says her body belong to her husband, so explain how someone will be denying you what belong to you? Your wife understand you are less of a man that's why she is messing up with you. As a man, you suppose to have done away with such Woman long ago. You have right to fvk your wife 3times a day for 1year.

She no dey give you sex and you sef no go carry sidechick fucck because say you dey go church. Which yeye church? No be the same church give una license to be fuccking anyhow? Well continue enduring, na you dick go dey pain every morning, no be me.

Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

Dont cheat on your wife. Stop acting desperate. Don't disturb her, act like you can do without sex then. The woman is bored.

Game your wife, take her out to a nice dinner, only 2 of you. Drink some alchohol together and i promise you, she will give you sex when you are back.

You should learn game, always game her

If she used to give you and she stopped, it is either she has a new man or is a lesbian.
Do your investigation. if she no dey give you, she dey give another person.

Mykelslim:
Sons, always marry a woman who you loves you more than you love her.
That way she will always fly around you like bee to honey.

some no Dey hear word them think say when babe dey Form hard to get she dey special

It’s time we need to discuss polygamy in Christianity.

metaluterus:
First, Happy Birthday to me!


Back to the topic; @OP...My weird advic. She's got no iota of love for you anymore, but only interested in keeping the marriage and having your cash, please move on with your life. Tell her you are going for a second wife. Watch her drama display in 3D.

Better days lie ahead of you and your family...Peace

Happy birthday, fellow Capricorn. We rock.
Celebrating mine on the 4th.

We are life's special...

Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

Dear future wife,
Don't you ever deny me sex for any reason except you're sick or something similar which i will understand because my Dic.. won't even stand up then. If you do, na only you go regret amoooo

Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

Maybe she is fully or almost fully circumcised that is why, generally they have low libido for trusting sex, I would advice you to to do more of pre-intimacy suck her boobs and nipples, her ear lobes and back of her ear,
during sex engagement, and some other parts which I cannot say here this way she would be in the mood.

There are so many things to keep your partner interested in sex without forcefully doing it as a Christian, watch YouTube videos.

Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

you need to go and get bleeped asap.

benson4u:
I have the following questions for you, answer honestly please.
1) Was she sexualy molested earlier in her life?
2) Is she the shy type or an introvert?
3) Did you met her a virgin?
4) Has she given birth before?
5) Do you know if she's pregnant?
6) Is she working for someone or she has her own business?
7) Is the work or business stressful or giving her time for you?
Was she like this while you guys were dating?

Stillwhitrs

Nonexisting1:
She no dey give you sex and you sef no go carry sidechick fucck because say you dey go church. Which yeye church? No be the same church give una license to be fuccking anyhow? Well continue enduring, na you dick go dey pain every morning, no be me.

he doesn’t know that he should charge her for that because she’s withholding her body from him which is frowned upon in the Christian religion

HeartlessMan:
Married men are simps

says the 'very heartless man'...that mods morphed from a 'very wicked goat'. Could it be they all gave up on you? Everyone?!

pocohantas:
Marry a second wife.

Seriously?

Can you take this medicine?

benson4u:
I have the following questions for you, answer honestly please.
1) Was she sexualy molested earlier in her life?
2) Is she the shy type or an introvert?
3) Did you met her a virgin?
4) Has she given birth before?
5) Do you know if she's pregnant?
6) Is she working for someone or she has her own business?
7) Is the work or business stressful or giving her time for you?
Was she like this while you guys were dating?

all this na jamb question - if she has too much going on in her life that’s preventing her from performing her marital obligations- them
make she march break and quietly leave the marriage make others wey their pant dey hot take over - this 2023, no time to check time o

imagine if a man was starving his wife of intimacy- she for don cut chain since bigin nack gateman or driver - i hate nansense

Your wife is right. You probably like sex a bit too much if you're here singing about it for just a week of inactivity.

Have a heart to heart talk with her. Don't be like those wicked men that would just assume without getting to the root of why their women might be behaving the way she behaves.

Maybe you offended her in the past that she's yet to open up to you about. Maybe it's work or business related. Maybe the way you go about everything doesn't make her wet or make her desire sex with you, etc.

A lot of relationship/marriage issues would be half solved if only, both partners are willing to sincerely open up to each other about their fears, dislikes, and what have you. Instead of pretending all is Well, or forming alpha male/female. While putting their relationship/marriage under harm's way !

TypicallyBrunt:
Your wife is right. You probably like sex a bit too much if you're here singing about it for just a week of inactivity.

Lazy nairalanders that never take the time to read a post completely.

The op said it's been a year now of no sex and not a week like you said.

HeartlessMan:
Married men are simps

Zukwanuike!