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What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by tewoayo(m): 7:02pm On Sep 03, 2011 |
Hi House, please I want to know the secret to successful relationships. Thanks. |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by Roland17(m): 7:40pm On Sep 03, 2011 |
It depends on the foundation of the relationship, what it is built on and its purpose. |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by horny4u(f): 9:01am On Sep 04, 2011 |
Complimenting each other and being old fashioned about it. Let your hubby lead and wifey be supportive of his dreams. Hubby cherish your wifey and realise that she is not logical when it comes to shoes. Wife submit to your man but tenderly point him in the right direction but let his decision be final on any matter. Hubby guide, provide and protect for your madam and her kids Wife let the world know what a masculine treasure you got who takes good care of you. I am a closet feminist but if wifey earns more than hubby try to keep this a secret or on the downlow. Hubby take sound decisions for the family by asking your creator first for wisdom. Wifey know that it ain't easy bringing in a pay check no matter how small so shower your man with sincere praise for being such a muscular strength for the family and make sure the kids appreciate him too. Hubby logical gifts like range rover may be nice but never nicer than a delicate tiffany necklace or any nice gold jewellery you can afford, .women are emotional Wifey no need to be akilapa if hubby is around ask for his help to change the bulb let him know that you are lucky to have such a manly man around the house. Hubby do not bother knowing the prices of brazillian hair, designer shoes and jewellery , your health is more important and we donot need you having a heart attack. Wifey be thrifty and learn to manage money in such a way that your family lacks nothing yet you are able to invest and still get girly treats like brazillian hair and well cut clothes. Hubby your being in a position to guide, provide and protect your family is more sexy than a six pack. Wifey be a gym buddy tighten those muscles and love handles, get a manicure, pedicure ( u can do it yourself) have a regular wash and dress to the T . Men are visual. Hubby no need to buy a growing flower plant since it wil last longer than a single rose, we are not logical pls we are emotional, so single rose. Wifey praise your husband sincerely an often , praise his provision, praise his muscles, praise his success and intelligence let him head swell out of proportion. Be his little girl, his babe ( u and I know you are a grown woman but na monkey we wan catch o so cooperate ) Men drill and kneed yourself in the bedroom, kitchen , park , in the car , public toilet , infact anywhere police no dey as it will be embarrasing when you get caught so use sense abeg. ( even when she is objecting continue till u bring out her inner slut , yep i said it .BITE ME) Women do small shakara when he wants to get crazy freaky but go for it , you and I know its one of your fantasies just be girly about it before he starts thinking you grew up at ayilara bus stop. Men show leadership by leading your family in praying and praising the Almighty , nothing i repeat nothing is more sexy than a man who loves the Almighty , a woman automatically feels she can trust him and wants to bed him, Last but not least please husbands get on your knees and use your tongues skillfully abi kilode , can you survive with a marriage where you donot get a BJ or do you think women are wood, pls behave yourselves. , this will save 80% of the marriages that are heading to dissolution. |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by ifyalways(f): 4:58pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
Respect for self and each other,every other thing fits in automatically. |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by MissyB3(f): 5:02pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
Tolerance/Endurance tops the list. |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by PA1982(f): 6:01pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
I'd vote for respect and self respect. Along with a HUGE dose of tolerance. |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by Ladyjide(f): 7:09pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
GOD, SEX, Finance and communication! |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by Nobody: 12:31am On Sep 05, 2011 |
Ladyjide:^^gbam, this is all u need if it were a marriage r/ship or union. But if it were a courtship or dating then u need tolerance and this advise below|| Roland17: |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by dabrake(m): 12:54am On Sep 05, 2011 |
PA1982:end of discussion Ladyjide:thatz a realistic babe speaking |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by MMM2(m): 5:34am On Sep 05, 2011 |
ask a guy just, money & long thing is ok |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by Kanimoe(m): 7:02am On Sep 05, 2011 |
Trust, understanding & communication |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by dplordx(m): 7:11am On Sep 05, 2011 |
love and lots of cash! without love, the cash is useless. without cash, the love is useless. you need those firewood and fuel |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by God2man(m): 7:20am On Sep 05, 2011 |
Purpose before marriage, what is the foundation of your marriage. is it honourable? Is it lust? Is it sex? Why do you want to marry? Is your foundation built on God?. Also,Tolerance is the key for a long lasting relationship. God bless you. God2man. |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by God2man(m): 7:20am On Sep 05, 2011 |
Purpose before marriage, what is the foundation of your marriage. is it honourable? Is it lust? Is it sex? Why do you want to marry? Is your foundation built on God?. Also,Tolerance is the key for a long lasting relationship. God bless you. God2man. |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by egberipops(m): 7:33am On Sep 05, 2011 |
Ladyjide: please are you married |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by Johndoe100(m): 7:39am On Sep 05, 2011 |
horny4u: This is very good advise. |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by frenchman2: 8:00am On Sep 05, 2011 |
Johndoe100:put this stuff in ebook. it will surely sell |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by frenchman2: 8:03am On Sep 05, 2011 |
horny4u:put this stuff in ebook. it will surely sell. |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by sylve11: 10:26am On Sep 05, 2011 |
horny4u: so u r this intelligent!? horny4u: funny, but some true |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by badmrkt(m): 10:28am On Sep 05, 2011 |
abstract factors:respect,tolerance,ignoring wrong advise from folks,obedience,faithfulness,consistent in prayers ect. |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by Rbaby: 10:39am On Sep 05, 2011 |
I believe it is T.L.C + GOD. T=Trust, L=Love, C=Committment and GOD=GOD |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by ebecode(m): 10:54am On Sep 05, 2011 |
U'll be suprised to know that the key to a successful relationship in Naija today is money,money & more money.U're gonna av to blv me.IMHO! |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by Dgunnerz(m): 11:03am On Sep 05, 2011 |
[.]Complete Trust in each other and God. [.]Prayer and Fasting(thrice in a week). [.]Undying Love. [.]Obedient and Respect. [.]Taking good advice from Parents and the Elders. |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by hadg33(m): 11:16am On Sep 05, 2011 |
Rbaby: [/blue] TLC,shit talk,though GODÂ is it [/blue] ebecode: guy,i feel you die,na bar,to them if you no get money,you be monkey |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by Rbaby: 11:30am On Sep 05, 2011 |
Money never really makes a succesful rtp, it just gives the facade of one. But under the facade, the wife is getting the love she wants from another guy cos her husband or bf is just her atm and the guy has multiple mistresses outside who give him what he really wants. His wife is just, well, a painting on the wall to show off. The people in a rtp are the ones that can make it work, the most money can do is to aid a successful rtp, it can't make it! |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by fxtopedia(m): 1:24pm On Sep 05, 2011 |
Love, I mean real Love not lust! |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by zikclassiq(m): 2:22pm On Sep 05, 2011 |
1.ACTIVE LOVE between the two of u(doing things for both yourselvs to show your love) 2.HUMOUR.(U should tease one another a lot. eg 'yabbing', joking etc) 3.SURPRISE.(do things that will always surprise him or her. always hide your next moves!) 4.HUMILITY.(none of you should claim the 'adult'. See yourselves as children trying to learn) 5.FORGIVEIMMEDIATELY. Talk talk talk whenever one offends the other and FORGIVE!) |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by Nayah(f): 2:59pm On Sep 05, 2011 |
Hi poster, I'd say there none secret but clues: Respect Communication Concession Honesty And of course feelings |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by ponana(m): 5:51pm On Sep 05, 2011 |
First of it all is GOd's favour, cos you might have the perfect plan and it would all still fall to pieces, then every other suggestion follows |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by Galaxy7: 10:42pm On Sep 05, 2011 |
Here comes the power of the previous post {PRIVACY} 1 } Don't try to encroach his/her privacy @ 1st 2} Tell him/her whom you are without addition 3} praise his/her physique on daily bases 4} Don't be over stingy but don't spend more than u earn NOTE:If u must beat her,make sure u disfigure her so that she lean the stuff u are made of |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by tewoayo(m): 1:13pm On Sep 26, 2011 |
Hello house, I just want to thank everybody that contributed to this very interesting and serious in the family. Also, I want to bring it to your notice that all your suggestion as been compiled into an Ebook plus from a great resources. The ebook tilted:WAYS TO BUILD HAPPY, LASTING RELATIONSHIP. If you are interested, pls send mail to tewoayo2@gmail.com Thanks again. |
Re: What's The Secret To Long-lasting And Fulfilling Relationships? by kinsoko(m): 4:13pm On Sep 26, 2011 |
Have you ever been in a conversation where it was obvious the other person couldn't wait for you to finish talking in order to say something? We all have I'm sure, and it's not a great feeling. You see, relationships are like lengthy conversations. There is a back-and-forth quality that needs to be there. If you focus only on what's in it for you rather than what you can contribute, it'll fall flat or end uncomfortably. For any relationship to flourish and for personal growth to occur for both parties, you need to put some effort into understanding and meeting the other person's wants and needs. Often we hear what's said, but we make sense of it from our own subjective reality. For example, the phrase, "I'll call you soon," may mean tomorrow for one person, but could mean sometime in the next month for another. People interpret their experiences differently and draw radically different conclusions from the same set of circumstances. It's for this reason that misunderstandings and communication failures often spell doom for developing relationships and resentments for established ones. Real success in life comes from the ability to understand differing perceptions and from understanding and accepting that others perceive the world differently than you do. It's important to learn how to decipher the other person's code and respond in kind. First you need to be aware that not all people use the same code. Then, you have to be interested in learning what the other person's code is. And finally, you'll want to practice using good communications skills - attentive listening, asking questions and checking for clarification. TAKE ACTION: Think about the last time you got into a disagreement with someone important to you. Did you feel heard? Were they (or maybe you) busy trying to make a point, or were they actively trying to listen to what you were saying? Next time you catch yourself butting heads with someone, stop trying to make your case. Make a point of pulling back and actually hearing the other person's point of view. Ask questions to help you get clear, stay engaged and then take your turn to share your point of view. Stretching your understanding of different points of view is key to improving communication, limiting conflict with others, and building strong relationships. Limiting conflict with others will give you more time for constructive interaction, enjoyable relationships, and will decrease the stress in you life. |
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