BRATISLAVA:
I will keep saying it. Each time I read some of your responses, that's what comes to mind.

Thou, Magnolia, art a lawyer. Color this place with your thoughts. It's why I logged in today.

And yes, you did encounter the vulcanizer on that thread.

Naira20:
If it's up to you alone, Avoid it.
Except there's a clear Divine instruction or she hates living that life.

Most times, it affects them negatively and they'd take it out on you.

Be wise

pleasureosondu:
1. You can't give what you don't have. There's are reasons why parents are considered as a child's best teacher. You're definitely not a parent,so you won't understand.
2. Life has stages. The experiences and challenges you currently have, you never had them 10 years and more are incoming as you grow older. If you don't address your current issues, you can't move forward to the next stage. Marriage is a stage for those who are prepared, not for some Hot folk.

pleasureosondu:
■The saying "Once bitten, twice shy" isn't an irrational statement but factual and only a few wise individuals can see through it.
■I'd have expected you to have debunked my statements with fact since you already admitted that I may have been a victim. So, Tell us why we shouldn't be careful with a girl from a seperated home since she's mostly likely, not gonna have the necessary qualities needed to keep a marriage which makes her vulnerable to walk away from a marriage if there's crisis as is the norm today. After all, that's what her parents did. So, debunk that statement with facts.

Romanoff:


People like you are the reason women like Osinachi die in abusive marriages.

That woman stayed and also damaged her kids in the process. Her husband made her children also beat her. You think those children will still be normal?

It will take the grace of God for her son's to not be wife beaters.

It's easy to spew things like this when you've never experienced the situation or had people who have.

It's best to choose life and peace of mind over what people like you will say or think about them or their children.

CHoccolaTE:


Honestly, the mindset of males on this forum makes me pity Nigerian women. These are the men they are married or have to tolerate at the office, compound etc.

I wish I can stand my ground when arguing with them but I have a short temper and I am likely to start using rude words when they spout nonsense, which always ruins the debate.

Emaprince:
Very very risky to marry a girl raised by a single mother.

Most girls raised by single mum tend to be wayward cos their is no male presence in their life to call them to order. Some of them will end up being too bitter and hate men because their mom already poisoned their hearts.

I dont blame people who divorced for whatever reason. Its their choice. But I can't advice any man to marry a woman raised by a single mum.

Be wise!!!

Exceed15:


Shut up jare...Were you there when she made the children beat their mother? Is it even rational ..una too dey add salt to pepper..Osinachi autopsy says otherwise by national hospital. Only God knows what's hidden.

pleasureosondu:
I pray you meet the good ones but if you're outta luck, you go see shege

Romanoff:


Are you daft or you don't read I'm the news where it was reported that her kids said so?

You better be kind before such a fate befalls you or someone close to you.

Insult me again and watch me give you the home training you lacked in your two parent household.

Exceed15:


Oh na so e dey pinch .
Obviously you have symptoms of bitterness. It's glaring in your outburst. I pity the man in your life.

Romanoff:


You are the one with attributes of a wife beater.

I pity any woman who is married to you or who will marry you.

Aklee4994:
off the mic � bruh � you’re a YOGA MAN

Exceed15:


I m happily married with two kids.
Na u go find ur bearing.... Useless frustrated derailed specie . I pity the man in your life.. na like ds u go dey insult am... Oniranu .. ko shi kuro... Tuehhh God forbid bad thing.

Romanoff:


I pity that woman. She never see husband o. She no just know yet.



I pray for your son(s), may they be more kind than you are and may they never be wife beaters.

Exceed15:


I showed my wife this and we dey laugh u together ...madam Abi old cargo go look for a man u can molest with ur toxic character..

Romanoff:


Yinmu.

You showed your wife.

Rotfl.

Kobojunkie:
1. That saying actually implies that experience is a great teacher as far as wisdom is concerned. That saying does not mean you are to let your experiences decide your future for you. They are meant to help you make wiser choices and decisions in life.

2. Debunk statements made of what seems anxiety in your life? Victims go over to overcome their pasts, and in great ways too. The world is filled with people who have done exactly that. That a man was raised by a drunk as a father does not mean he too will end up a drunk. That a woman was raised by a mother who had to prostitute herself in order to feed her kids does not mean the same kids will turn tricks for a living. That is a fact of life we live in. You on the other hand seem to think that your personal delusions chart the way for all and that is your major problem to deal with.

Exceed15:


Go marry her , u go hear am. Love isn't enough. Ask questions why they are separated.

deebrownneymar:


I guess you don’t understand my statement. Why didn’t it also ask whether one should marry a man from a broken home

pleasureosondu:
■Understand statements before making arguements. I said, with no pun intended, Ladies from seperated homes lack certain basic qualities that helps in building a marriage. A child from a prostitute mom may or may not engage in adulthood but that child will definitely lack basic qualities that strengthens marriage even if she/he is not a prostitute. Those kids could be billionaires but they lack basic home training. This is the basics of my argument, so debunk it. Simple.

pleasureosondu:
Agreed but if we go this way, the point of this thread will be diverted. So, let's stay on the topic which is, it's quite difficult to wife a lady from a separated home. The challenges they created is completely different and tougher from ladies that has both parents living together.

Kobojunkie:
1. Here's the reality of life. What your parents don't give you, you can always get for yourself this since you have the ability to learn throughout your life, even if on your own. And that ability to learn remains with you until your death. So, that idea you cling to is born of ignorance on your own part.

There are many people out there who didn't have parents growing up but today sit as advisors and trainers to help teach many who grew up with parents what they need to succeed as individuals in life. Stop fooling yourself by clinging to what are archaic ideas that are not founded on reality, and start seeing reality as it presents itself to you each day.

Magnoliaa:


Except for a few of them like Gadafii that are perenially irredeemable, lmao.



A national treasure that should be preserved and protected at all costs.

Aklee4994:
Weed will indulge you from so weirdness as a guy sometimes

mylove4God:

The opinion I aired is still within the thread. A man who decide to marry a lady because she is not from a seperated family, will not prevent their union from breaking if they don't put effort into it.

Gadafii:
I live rent free in your head right, aww

You will be fine

pleasureosondu:
■ And you think it's easy as you pointed out? If it was, then it will reflect in the number of divorce we see around but no, people don't want to learn and boom, they opt for divorce.
■ Even to learn something new requires humility. Ask yourself, how many of these ladies from seperated homes are humble, ready to learn? Guys from such homes are more open to learn than the ladies. The facts are there.
■ See, I specifically mentioned a societal cliche- ladies from seperated homes. No other category falls under them such as kids who lose a parent. It's a different case cos these kids(now adults) know that that parent isn't coming back, so it's easier to move on. Not when you Know you're parents are alive but seperated for reasons that isn't your fault. It a mental torment, my friend. We may not agree on points but make sure your replies is devoid of insults and we can a meaning convo

Magnoliaa:


You say whaaaaaaaaaaaaaat?

LMAO.

You logged in because of my comments?

Awwnn.
Awwnnn.
Awwwnnnnn.

M blorshing.

Kobojunkie:
1. It is actually attainable. I have seen people from damaged backgrounds turn out to be better people than even those from non-damaged backgrounds. Your background means nothing unless you want it to be.

The number of divorces has absolutely nothing to do with the background of people. In life, you make choices based on what you have at that point. If Osinachi had chosen to divorce her husband while she was alive, it would not have changed the facts of her background but instead revealed she had finally wised up to the fact that she as a human being deserved better than to live as a punching bag to another human. Sadly, she foolishly held on and is food for worms today.

2. You are silly! You think they are meant to learn from you, isn't it? The moment you believe it is your place to teach another adult how to live, that is the moment you reveal you are nothing but a fool[/b]uou Learning has nothing to do with the kind of foolish humility you attempt to assert here. Learning is easy. Pick up a book on the subject and practice. That is all it takes these days!

3. [b]What I state here applies as far to every human being out there regardless of background or past. Every one of us, regardless of our pasts and what we have had to endure, can change for the better. So you singling out a specific group for your baseless attacks only reveals that you are yourself disconnected from reality as it is.

pleasureosondu:
■You see how contradictory and stupid you are. You generalized your view and another can't. ■Shey you be Osinachi husband to know how she behaved when she was alive ni abi or was she killed for doing nothing
■ You just talk nonsense since. Complete nitwit you are.