I have this friend. She's hardworking, decent and down to earth. She had an operation to remove a benign growth from her womb shortly before her wedding. This growth was causing serious pains for her, thus, it had to be removed.
Before the wedding, she never hid her health issues from her husband and he didn't seem bothered with the fact that she was having an invasive surgery that involved her reproductive system. In fact, she always used to praise him that he stood by her when he could have walked away. BTW this growth was no fault of hers. She never went through indiscriminate abortions, neither was she the type to hop from one bed to another.

A few months after the wedding, she is yet to get pregnant. Her husband is angry and irritated with her and has threatened to impregnate another girl if she doesn't get a solution to her problem. He claims their childlessness is due to the operation she had. (Her gynaecologist has checked her postOP, he says she's OK).

Also, it seems she has a short cycle and can only get pregnant at the end of her monthly flow. Her husband loathes blood with a passion and doesn't even want a menstruating woman standing near him, talk less of them being intimate. . . .
Please NLs, what do you advise??

hmmmm!!!!!, men!!!!!!

Just months after the wedding?

Was the man enticed into the marriage or he's just being difficult?

What can she do than to ignore the man's threat and concentrate on herself and been a good wife too.If the man goes ahead to get a lady outside preggars she knows what to do ni.

She shouldnt tell the husband the next time of her flow and entice him to bed surinjg that time, Make him merry and let him pour inside wella like 4 gallons

You would start popping babies every 9 months I guarantee

I will be right back.

Let him go and marry someone else.

Tough spot to be in. She should find out what exactly her reproductive health status is and try to workout why and when she is likely to get pregnant. She should explain this to her husband when he is a little bit calm.

As for her husband's threat. External forces are amplifying his fear that his wife may be barren and he cannot handle the pressure. The only way he will become calmer is if he is sure that she can conceive and then by the grace of God does so (I know it is a little bit childish but if he is that way, deal with it!).

I suspect that the OP's friend needs the services of a gynecologist.