if u are an idle person is going to be hard o, me like this hardly u meet me at home, get busy if he come and do not see u, he will stop coming

Jennyclay:
Nigerians and their pako English. Shior!

From your headline down to your post is giving me headache already.

Well, May God Help you struggling men oo!

Biko, sha... Stay away from relationship, don't come and put someone's daughter in abject poverty.

Wow! Some of your mates are already studying for their Ph.D.'s. I know several of them in the US. Nigerian girls like you. But look at you. Chai!

KeyEndurance:

The Truth Is That Anytime he borrow Me Money We must Still Spend It Together Again because At Time I Use The Borrow I borrowed From Him to Buy Food stuff and If i Cook The Food we Will Still Finish It Together

drink small liquor so you can have liver to confront him about his attitude. So he has money to borrow you and can't use his money cook food for his own house? Invite girl come around always ,he will comfort himself whenever a girl is in your house and won't behave like glutton.

Just explain the situation to him in a amicable way, everyone understand. He need to understand both of you need to contribute to feed otherwise he should cook in his house before coming.

if na real friend he just look at u like say u just dey joke

mariobalotelli09:
Tell him to borrow you some money, that it's very urgent and u wouldn't mind a transfer. Try to touch his pocket if possible! He will never visit you again!!!

If you don't have where to go which warrants him always meeting you at home then you should reciprocate the kind gesture by going to meet in first in wherever he calls home.

Don't shut your friend out because of food. This phase will pass.

KeyEndurance:
I have this friend of mine who likes visiting my house every blessed day. Before that things were moving well, whenever he visited, he must demand for food and I usually make him happy by given him his needs.

But now, everybody knows how Nigeria is. Since last week, this my friend never stopped coming to my house and I am the kind of guy that's struggling to survive and he Is Coming To my House to add His Problem To My Own Again.

The Things Is Disturbing my Mind But I Don't know What To Tell Him to Stop coming For Now.

Don't tell him to stop...

Help him to get engaged. Discuss on how he can get something doing that can give him food. Try all your best to secure a job for him if you can...

Be his friend as much as you can and allow God to help you both

Jennyclay:
Nigerians and their pako English. Shior!

From your headline down to your post is giving me headache already.

Well, May God Help you struggling men oo!

Biko, sha... Stay away from relationship, don't come and put someone's daughter in abject poverty.

What has this got to do with relationship?

You don't have to exhibit your asinine sense of reasoning to the world, do you?

Issh! I'm allergic to deliberate stupidity.

that kin guy dey later travel out..

KeyEndurance:
I have this friend of mine who likes visiting my house every blessed day. Before that things were moving well, whenever he visited, he must demand for food and I usually make him happy by given him his needs.

Do not inconvenience yourself to please any friend o. If u have, u can give, but if u don't have, do not stress yourself. Do u know the funny thing about this, once this ur friend start making it, he will not even remember ur good deeds towards him or help u. He will only help his wife & kids. Help friends only when it is convenient! You can go out of your way to help family members, but not friends, do not stress yourself to help friends, It is not worth it.

Dont stop your friend coming to your house. A popular saying Ä giver never lack". As he keep coming to your house it means he is going through top time. Ask him bros what is happening, you dont have a job or what? let me see how we can go about it. He will then explain better.

dawnomike:
Start by stop offering him food...

He is no longer a guest... No more entertainment, he should be helping around.

You should visit him too at his own place often unannounced

Medianna:
First of all you need to understand his intentions,
Is he genuinely in need of a friend or is he trying to take advantage of you kindness.
When you answer that question within yourself then you will know what to do.
To me if he genuinely needs you, don't hesitate to help out. Its not forever.

lol

Medianna:
First of all you need to understand his intentions,
Is he genuinely in need of a friend or is he trying to take advantage of you kindness.
When you answer that question within yourself then you will know what to do.
To me if he genuinely needs you, don't hesitate to help out. Its not forever.

God bless you for that

KeyEndurance:
I have this friend of mine who likes visiting my house every blessed day. Before that things were moving well, whenever he visited, he must demand for food and I usually make him happy by given him his needs.

But now, everybody knows how Nigeria is. Since last week, this my friend never stopped coming to my house and I am the kind of guy that's struggling to survive and he Is Coming To my House to add His Problem To My Own Again.

The Things Is Disturbing my Mind But I Don't know What To Tell Him to Stop coming For Now.

Before I hastily judge him it might be due to his personal situation bt that is no reason to put his problems on u. If he's coming just to take stuff and not adding value tell him to reduce his coming or else he will drag u down with him.

He's being selfish and insensitive.

The best thing is you should be going out every, whenever you notice he is coming to your house, you have to be going out too, don't allow him to meet you in the house, know exactly the time he normally come, go out before his arrival.

mmaha:
Dont stop your friend coming to your house. A popular saying Ä giver never lack". As he keep coming to your house it means he is going through top time. Ask him bros what is happening, you dont have a job or what? let me see how we can go about it. He will then explain better.

Are there no beggars in your area?
Why are u not giving to them all, so u won't lack? If u don't give with sense in this life, u will suffer & those u helped won't help u, even if they are in position to, na then your eyes go clear!

Oga Endurance, just endure, this too, shall pass

I don't know if you will see yhis reply, but I hope you do.

You said he comes to eat daily in your house? Reduce how often you cook. Let's say you normally cook what you will eat for 2-3 days... Try to cook noodles that will only last a meal. Don't cook stew, rice, soup, etc... Just a daily food portion at a time.

If he asks what's up that there's no food, tell him that things are a bit rough for you right now. Give him #150 to buy his owm noodles to cook.

Tomorrow, eat out before returning home. You could buy noodles to be cooked late in the night (when he has gone back to his place). By the time you do this for like a week, he will reduce the way he comes to your house (if he is a fake friend or if he just wants to leach on you).

Thirdly, you should also go to his house (before he comes to yours, behave the exact same way he behaves in your house. Listen to what he says, watch his body language, see what he does, etc... And act accordingly.

Finally, call him in advance and tell him you're expecting a visitor, that you will need some privacy this period... Invite your gf ar a trusted female friend to come stay with you all day. Bring different chics for like 3-5 days. He'll find another hobby and leave your house alone.

However, if after telling him you have some financial difficulty he keeps coming to see you, support you to buy food or brings food from his place (no matter how poor the food is), encourage you and tell you say e go better, etc (you know those things good friends say and do), please feed him and feed him well. He's a true friend

KeyEndurance:
I have this friend of mine who likes visiting my house every blessed day. Before that things were moving well, whenever he visited, he must demand for food and I usually make him happy by given him his needs.

But now, everybody knows how Nigeria is. Since last week, this my friend never stopped coming to my house and I am the kind of guy that's struggling to survive and he Is Coming To my House to add His Problem To My Own Again.

The Things Is Disturbing my Mind But I Don't know What To Tell Him to Stop coming For Now.

Thank God you have to give.
Pray to have more so you can continue to give.

Know that it is possible that it would have been the other way round.

According to your usename, endure. This time will pass and you will be fine.

It’s easy..
start complaining to him on how things are hard, ask start borrowing money from him without returning it.
Also start visiting him often too.

KomonSense:


Olosho don drop quote of the Day...

Nonsense and ingredients

don't mistake her for your miserable mother and cheap sisters 😂

mariobalotelli09:
Tell him to borrow you some money, that it's very urgent and u wouldn't mind a transfer. Try to touch his pocket if possible! He will never visit you again!!!

Omo this your sense na follow come o

Be blunt with him, no need trying to please him and displease yourself .

Jennyclay:
Nigerians and their pako English. Shior!

From your headline down to your post is giving me headache already.

Well, May God Help you struggling men oo!

Biko, sha... Stay away from relationship, don't come and put someone's daughter in abject poverty.

I don't get, first you attacked his grammar, next you attacked his pocket, I don't think you even read the guy's post, was he talking about relationship or his friend. Bia, everybody is struggling these days, don't accuse an innocent person.

Country hard

You kuku look for somewhere to be going too! You’re always available at home that’s why he always comes calling. Next time he catches you at home, dress up and tell him you’re going out. He’ll get the message after you’ve done it to him more than once. But pray the roles don’t get reversed someday, because all it takes is one hurtful word to wipe away years of friendship.

Medianna:
First of all you need to understand his intentions,
Is he genuinely in need of a friend or is he trying to take advantage of you kindness.
When you answer that question within yourself then you will know what to do.
To me if he genuinely needs you, don't hesitate to help out. Its not forever.

Some things are forever until you stop them

Wisdom is profitable to direct, Do not make any mistake to stop him from coming to your house the wisdom here is that advice him to get a job or regret your action later in the future.

Rubbiish:

Are there no beggars in your area?
Why are u not giving to them all, so u won't lack? If u don't give with sense in this life, u will suffer & those u helped won't help u, even if they are in position to, na then your eyes go clear!

wotowoto😂😂