IyaebeTheGreat:
Mine goes thus: I can never forgive a husband for having illegitimate kid/kids outside our matrimonial home, taking a second wife and going physical on me(even if I hit him which I won’t ever do, he should choose the option of silent treatment and not hit me back) . These three things are what I can’t ever forgive a husband for and I would hold him in my heart for the rest of my life. Share yours

I will not hit you but if you dare hit and it becomes a norm, the day i slap you, your head will reset.

chatinent:


Domestic violence isn't about the men alone.

No one has the monopoly to hit the other.

So you go about hitting men cos you want them all to key into the tradition of not retaliating? Like a mantra giving you solitary rights to abuse men and never abused? Continue then, dem go beat four years commot your age one day.

While I may not hit back, I can legitly give you a break. I'm very anti-toxic. Cos if I hit back, I fit kee you.

I never said it’s ok to hit a man, I said if that eventually happens by mistake then the husband should be wise enough not to hit her back. Hitting her back will cause so much damage to the marriage. A wise man will leave the scene and deal with her in so many other ways. No condition ever permits a man to hit his wife, the same body that satisfy your urges, there’s a spiritual implication to that( a man hitting his wife)

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

Shey you follow dey with dem inside the marriage to know every detail.



You are more foolish than I thought

IyaebeTheGreat:
I never said it’s ok to hit a man, I said if that eventually happens by mistake then the husband should be wise enough not to hit her back. Hitting her back will cause so much damage to the marriage. A wise man will leave the scene and deal with her in so many other ways. No condition ever permits a man to hit his wife, the same body that satisfy your urges, there’s a spiritual implication to that( a man hitting his wife)

Chief, I don't support nonsense. How can you mistakenly hit a person? And why is it that if he mistakenly hits her back, his is a crime?


I support no Domestic Violence irrespective of gender! If you dey hit, expect you'll get hit too!

cedricksly:
even if you hit him, can u even listen to yourself?? I personally I am against a man hitting a woman, but any woman that choose to physically abuse any man, I say it boldly the man should defend himself using any means necessary... If u get mind slap man, you urself should be Liberal enough to collect same slap.. You don't physically abuse a man and expect him to be silent, he must defend himself which I support...

Hi Becareful . Many times women do something that when you take it easy with her, she will deeply regret doing it. But when you react as she has done, you give no room for her regret and apology.

chatinent:


Chief, I don't support nonsense. How can you mistakenly hit a person? And why is it that if he mistakenly hits her back, his is a crime?


I support no Domestic Violence irrespective of gender! If you dey hit, expect you'll get hit too!

Smh something is definitely wrong with the mindset of young men of these days. I wish you well

This bịtch just came online to dump her bitterness and bad manners on NL

Forgive your husband.lol
Does he require your forgiveness' should be the question.
I take another wife,you dont like it pack and go,second becomes first.women dont marry Men,it is the other way round
Second I bath a child outside,once again,it is not you who would tell me if I need more children,you dont like it pack and go, baby mama would take your place.
In all if you behave yourself,then life is always fair but those with many issues are the once who do not want a way out for there victims and usually they think they hold powers over the persons life,like I will never forgive him,the question Is,who your forgiveness help.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Mine goes thus: I can never forgive a husband for having illegitimate kid/kids outside our matrimonial home, taking a second wife and going physical on me(even if I hit him which I won’t ever do, he should choose the option of silent treatment and not hit me back) . These three things are what I can’t ever forgive a husband for and I would hold him in my heart for the rest of my life. Share yours

RedPilChurchBoy:
This bịtch just came online to dump her bitterness and bad manners on NL

You are the one bittered. Did I say it’s ok to hit a man? Why do you guys like twisting posts on this forum. Sad

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

How do u yul Edochie's was respectful , loyal n submissive? U r living with dem abi? Alot of women changes when dey get married.Alot of married men dnt go to church today because of behavior of their wives at home. Dey can't reconcile d Jezebel at home n saint mary in church.

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

How do u know yul Edochie's was respectful , loyal n submissive? U r living with dem abi? Alot of women changes when dey get married.Alot of married men dnt go to church today because of behavior of their wives at home. Dey can't reconcile d Jezebel at home n saint mary in church.

casualobserver:


I don’t sanction or advocate violence of any sort but if you hit a man and he responds and hits you back, you asked for it. How can you be violent to someone and be resentful they retaliated? What kind of nonsense is that?

As for the others, if your man is successful you will have to share him whether you like it or not. Many wives who once they marry won’t accept second wives or bastard children were themselves once sided chicks to married men.

Whether or not sharing leads to him marrying another woman or having another children outside the home depends. If you do your job as a wife, he won’t have the need to marry another wife in the 1st place. Woman wahala is much, one wife is a problem already. Men do not marry second wives because they want to.

If he is a responsible man he won’t have children outside the home. Again it is your fault for marrying an irresponsible man or not fully vetting the man you married.

Long and short.
If you are not violent, you have reason to be resentful of violence..in fact you should walk away. If you are you have no leg to stand on.

If you do your job as a wife, your husband will have no need for a second wife.

Vet the kind of man you marry before you marry. Look at his family and his friends. If a man’s father, close family members/ friends has children outside or married multiple wives…it is easier for him to do same. Same reason you don’t marry from divorced or single mother homes.


With due respect, your post sounds like an entitlement mentality the type of woman who feels once you are married your job is done…..it isn’t!!!! A man doesn’t stop working or providing because he has married and has had children.

If to say I get plenty money, I for dadersh you some.

Omo Luwabi

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

Too much peace = no peace but violence

Pakwel:


You'll want equality. But you don't want what cames with it.. if you hit me as your husband. Guaranty no jokes oh . I'll hit you back to reset your sense.. one thing for sure I'll never hit you first..mumu talk say make him give you silent treatment. You don turn am to boy boy now

LoL, bros is like you have her at mind before, you really hit it.

IyaebeTheGreat:
I didn’t say it’s right to hit a man but maybe mistakenly. I only said a wise man wouldn’t hit bad, rather he’ll pick the silent treatment option

You hit a man and then choose a response for him! That is only possible in another planet.

IyaebeTheGreat:
I don’t support equality, there’s nothing like equality in marriage. Any man that hits a woman no matter the provocation has taken away the glory of that home. You know nothing and please erase this thought of yours , it causes damage beyond repair

So a woman that hit her husband has brought glory

IyaebeTheGreat:
going physical on me(even if I hit him which I won’t ever do, he should choose the option of silent treatment and not hit me back) .

Silent treatment in deed, that demon whay use that moment will leave you that same moment

VenExchangee:

Silent treatment in deed, that demon whay use that moment will leave you that same moment

Violent men everywhere, that’s why we record no progress in this country. Toxic set of people

IyaebeTheGreat:
You are known for twisting posts, did I say it’s ok for a woman to hit a man? I was talking about the reaction of the man if eventually it mistakenly happened.

You're a dumb ass woman and I can sense that all isn't well in your home. How can you 'mistakenly' hit a man and still assume it's ok as long as you're a woman? Madam feminist.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Violent men everywhere, that’s why we record no progress in this country. Toxic set of people

Simp, so it's okay for a woman to hit man first?

gaskiyamagana:

Hi Becareful . Many times women do something that when you take it easy with her, she will deeply regret doing it. But when you react as she has done, you give no room for her regret and apology.

only animals should fight or abuse people physical.... I'm trying to correct that notion she has in her head that she can hit a man and doesn't expect to be hit back.. Where is the equality they ladies has been Protesting for?? Equality isn't only when it favours a lady.... Of a lady slaps u today and u ignore, she come and beg, tomorrow she will punch u, she comes and beg, next tomorrow she might use a weapon on you..

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

Did you live with them to know his wife is submissive?

getting another girl pregnant. that is heart wrenching

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

You never know what's going on in their home. However if things decide to go south, the law has given the freedom to become free again. No more control or abuse by any man.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Mine goes thus: I can never forgive a husband for having illegitimate kid/kids outside our matrimonial home, taking a second wife and going physical on me(even if I hit him which I won’t ever do, he should choose the option of silent treatment and not hit me back) . These three things are what I can’t ever forgive a husband for and I would hold him in my heart for the rest of my life. Share yours

Na wah sha, you’ll never forgive him if he hits you back even after you hit him? You don’t want to be served with the cup you served your husband? Well done hanty

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

Do you live with them? Ode.

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

How do you know his wife is submissive to him, do you leave with them??

gaskiyamagana:

Hi Becareful . Many times women do something that when you take it easy with her, she will deeply regret doing it. But when you react as she has done, you give no room for her regret and apology.

wow I like this, a complete gentleman who perfectly understands the angle I’m coming from, and I never said it’s ok for a woman to hit a man. You are so right

IyaebeTheGreat:
I don’t support equality, there’s nothing like equality in marriage. Any man that hits a woman no matter the provocation has taken away the glory of that home. You know nothing and please erase this thought of yours , it causes damage beyond repair

Another Ode spotted. That's how your mum hits your Daddy and you copied it. You don't want a man to raise his hands on you but you will raise yours on him. Street girls everywhere..

IyaebeTheGreat:
Mine goes thus: I can never forgive a husband for having illegitimate kid/kids outside our matrimonial home, taking a second wife and going physical on me(even if I hit him which I won’t ever do, he should choose the option of silent treatment and not hit me back) . These three things are what I can’t ever forgive a husband for and I would hold him in my heart for the rest of my life. Share yours

You dont want him to hit you even if you hit him first, hmmmm.


This one is looking for a man she will control.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Mine goes thus: I can never forgive a husband for having illegitimate kid/kids outside our matrimonial home, taking a second wife and going physical on me(even if I hit him which I won’t ever do, he should choose the option of silent treatment and not hit me back) . These three things are what I can’t ever forgive a husband for and I would hold him in my heart for the rest of my life. Share yours

foolish fool.
try go uk and live that stupid life there.

shantti:


Receive small sense

You sounds so bias,so a woman is free to hit a man but when a man hits a woman the glory leaves the home.are you the head of the home.
You are a joker