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Re: Is It A Sin To Masturbate While Doing A Video Call With Your Spouse? by SledgeHammerer: 3:54pm On Apr 09, 2023
Esortigress:
Masturbation in any form, with anyone is a sin. God punished Onan in the bible for not releasing into his brother's wife.Sperm are not meant to be wasted whatsoever, So stop it.


If it's just about releasing inside that means fornication and adultery are no big deals?
Re: Is It A Sin To Masturbate While Doing A Video Call With Your Spouse? by SledgeHammerer: 3:55pm On Apr 09, 2023
thesicilian:

God did not punish him for masturbation. He was punished for his disobedience and wickedness. Instead of getting his dead brother's wife pregnant as he was instructed, he decided to pour the sperm on the floor, because he knew if he got her pregnant, the child would technically be his brother's, and not his (Onan's) own, according to old testament. (Genesis 38: 3-10)


This makes more sense to me.

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Re: Is It A Sin To Masturbate While Doing A Video Call With Your Spouse? by Nonywendy(m): 3:56pm On Apr 09, 2023
Esortigress:
Masturbation in any form, with anyone is a sin. God punished Onan in the bible for not releasing into his brother's wife.Sperm are not meant to be wasted whatsoever, So stop it.
so birth control too is a sin
Re: Is It A Sin To Masturbate While Doing A Video Call With Your Spouse? by ikorodureporta: 3:58pm On Apr 09, 2023
Mademan7:
As a Christian whose spouse is in far away country or city is it a sin to masturbate while having a video call with your spouse??
Explain it well.... Having phone ssexx with your spouse
Re: Is It A Sin To Masturbate While Doing A Video Call With Your Spouse? by ZIMDRILL(m): 3:58pm On Apr 09, 2023
3xwellbeing:
Lol, whether masturbation is a sin or not, It has a lot of subtle effects on you, especially when you become addicted (If you know how addictive it is, you will run from it), it leaves subconscious programs on your mind, such that you gradually lose control and act compulsively when triggered. It drains mental energies and affects your actual sexual performance.

When supplemented with porn, it becomes extremely detrimental to mental well-being, productivity and others. It creates certain neurological pathways in the brain and messes up your dopamine system.

Say No to masturbation
Say No to Porn

Even if ​you must masturbate, let it be rare. Avoid PORN, avoid sexual fantasies.
Don't be an addict.

God created Man and Woman, and even the institution of marriage to satisfy their sexual needs, Not to masturbate or watch porn, fill your brain with fantasies and like a zombie.

you are right in your view

but lets stick to the question asked, is it a sin to masturbate with your wise our a phone ?

Lets look it from this point, is ok to talk about sex with your wife over the phone ? the most answer is Yes so what different does it make when you masturbate with your wife ?

Remember the main reason masturbation is a sin is simply because you would be thinking of someone who is not your wife hence its a sin to sexually admire someone

In this case he is touching himeself live on video with his wife is that sin --- i choose not to use the word masturbating because its his wife
Re: Is It A Sin To Masturbate While Doing A Video Call With Your Spouse? by H20nogetenemy: 4:12pm On Apr 09, 2023
Dumbass question.
Re: Is It A Sin To Masturbate While Doing A Video Call With Your Spouse? by yungbillionaire(m): 4:16pm On Apr 09, 2023
thesicilian:

God did not punish him for masturbation. He was punished for his disobedience and wickedness. Instead of getting his dead brother's wife pregnant as he was instructed, he decided to pour the sperm on the floor, because he knew if he got her pregnant, the child would technically be his brother's, and not his (Onan's) own, according to old testament. (Genesis 38: 3-10)


I won't support masturbation but I quite glad that someone has put this passage in context... because I see some people always quoting that scripture out of context when it comes to masturbation

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Re: Is It A Sin To Masturbate While Doing A Video Call With Your Spouse? by lereinter(m): 4:21pm On Apr 09, 2023
MoneySEASON:


It doesn't matter who you do it with, we're talking about the "Act" here. The act is unholy, so It's a sin.



The act of masturbation, 🤣
Re: Is It A Sin To Masturbate While Doing A Video Call With Your Spouse? by lereinter(m): 4:25pm On Apr 09, 2023
For me it's not a sin.

Cos as husband and wife in bed, it's not everytime you penetrate for fun but still you release doing other forms of pre-intimacy.
Re: Is It A Sin To Masturbate While Doing A Video Call With Your Spouse? by jaxxy(m): 4:57pm On Apr 09, 2023
Esortigress:
Get the message clearly. Sperm are not meant to be wasted and as such masturbation in any form with anyone is a sin .

who told u that? then child planning should be a sin, if u sleep with ur wife 100 times u should have 100 children or 50 children.
Re: Is It A Sin To Masturbate While Doing A Video Call With Your Spouse? by lilhoodie(m): 5:58pm On Apr 09, 2023
Pay a sex worker instead
Re: Is It A Sin To Masturbate While Doing A Video Call With Your Spouse? by deleo16(m): 6:14pm On Apr 09, 2023
Mademan7:
As a Christian whose spouse is in far away country or city is it a sin to masturbate while having a video call with your spouse??
it a sin and you attract negative spirits
Re: Is It A Sin To Masturbate While Doing A Video Call With Your Spouse? by ComputerOperato: 6:30pm On Apr 09, 2023
Esortigress:
Masturbation in any form, with anyone is a sin. God punished Onan in the bible for not releasing into his brother's wife.Sperm are not meant to be wasted whatsoever, So stop it.

I'm not supporting masturbation but you people don't really understand that part of the Holy Bible.
I won't be able to explain now coz of time but you may read any Bible commentary on that area.
Gracias.
Re: Is It A Sin To Masturbate While Doing A Video Call With Your Spouse? by Fantazy(m): 7:42pm On Apr 09, 2023
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Re: Is It A Sin To Masturbate While Doing A Video Call With Your Spouse? by Brush1: 7:46pm On Apr 09, 2023
Is not a sin if you are married. He’s fat and you both decided to have fun through a video call. What’s very very very sinful however, is cheating on each other. Masturbate if you both have to.
Re: Is It A Sin To Masturbate While Doing A Video Call With Your Spouse? by Autobot05: 7:49pm On Apr 09, 2023
this is a very stupid question in the first place grin
Re: Is It A Sin To Masturbate While Doing A Video Call With Your Spouse? by Oesophagus99(m): 10:12pm On Apr 09, 2023
it's not a sin to be masturbated by your spouse and even if they're using a intimacy gadget on you. ref:songs of Solomon
Re: Is It A Sin To Masturbate While Doing A Video Call With Your Spouse? by Emola12(m): 10:47pm On Apr 09, 2023
Esortigress:
Masturbation in any form, with anyone is a sin. God punished Onan in the bible for not releasing into his brother's wife.Sperm are not meant to be wasted whatsoever, So stop it.
keferi
Re: Is It A Sin To Masturbate While Doing A Video Call With Your Spouse? by Drparts: 11:40pm On Apr 09, 2023
I think everything is a Sin in Africa. If is a sun that means everyone had sins
Re: Is It A Sin To Masturbate While Doing A Video Call With Your Spouse? by nedzuby: 3:56am On Apr 10, 2023
diplomat058:
Hmm. Masturbation itself is perceived as a sin because of what Jesus said - that having lustful thoughts towards someone who is not your spouse, counts as adultery. However, your wife is your spouse, and definitely having sex with her isn't adultery; why should having lustful thoughts towards her be? I believe masturbating over your wife isn't a sin. The only downside is that there is a possibility of the flash image of another woman appearing in your thought during that sexually imaginative process. That's the spoiler!

And do you think that some men don't have imagines of another woman when having sex with their wives?

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Re: Is It A Sin To Masturbate While Doing A Video Call With Your Spouse? by Hifeylove: 10:15am On Apr 10, 2023
thesicilian:

God did not punish him for masturbation. He was punished for his disobedience and wickedness. Instead of getting his dead brother's wife pregnant as he was instructed, he decided to pour the sperm on the floor, because he knew if he got her pregnant, the child would technically be his brother's, and not his (Onan's) own, according to old testament. (Genesis 38: 3-10)


Chaiiii God bless you on this.. read the whole chapter and understood that… so billing Men for kpekus don Dey ever since and she gave birth to twins.. awesome..

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Re: Is It A Sin To Masturbate While Doing A Video Call With Your Spouse? by Lovelydaisies: 10:27am On Apr 10, 2023
How can and why should you even touch yourself, to the extent of arousal?

Masturbation is evil, a sin and very unnatural. There's no justification for it, whether married or not, with your spouse or not.

Sexual immorality has no justification in all its forms.

Stay clean.
Re: Is It A Sin To Masturbate While Doing A Video Call With Your Spouse? by caesymore(m): 11:03am On Apr 10, 2023
thesicilian:

God did not punish him for masturbation. He was punished for his disobedience and wickedness. Instead of getting his dead brother's wife pregnant as he was instructed, he decided to pour the sperm on the floor, because he knew if he got her pregnant, the child would technically be his brother's, and not his (Onan's) own, according to old testament. (Genesis 38: 3-10)

Simple, He was missioned to pour in, not waste, a big difference, I wonder want some of them that can't understand the Bible say, as if every sex by husband and Wife is majorly for procreation.

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Re: Is It A Sin To Masturbate While Doing A Video Call With Your Spouse? by Blue86(m): 12:56pm On Apr 10, 2023
It is wrong.
And how much na flight ticket+ return, to come from that far country over to where you at, in a festive period?
Re: Is It A Sin To Masturbate While Doing A Video Call With Your Spouse? by Emeka71(m): 2:04pm On Apr 10, 2023
Nwodosis:
The fact remains that you are vulnerable to Knacking any available knackable at that moment.
So right.
Re: Is It A Sin To Masturbate While Doing A Video Call With Your Spouse? by 3xwellbeing: 10:38pm On Apr 10, 2023
ZIMDRILL:


you are right in your view

but lets stick to the question asked, is it a sin to masturbate with your wise our a phone ?

Lets look it from this point, is ok to talk about sex with your wife over the phone ? the most answer is Yes so what different does it make when you masturbate with your wife ?

Remember the main reason masturbation is a sin is simply because you would be thinking of someone who is not your wife hence its a sin to sexually admire someone

In this case he is touching himeself live on video with his wife is that sin --- i choose not to use the word masturbating because its his wife

Well I'm not in the position to say it's a sin or not.
But from point you raised "thinking of someone who is not your wife hence its a sin to sexually fantastic someone". It will eventually lead to sin on the man's part. He will become used to masturbation especially when the wife is not around, he will easily or start fantasizing and masturbating to the mental image of other women he finds attractive. (It's inevitable). Unknowingly he will also induct his wife into the ability of masturbating.
The story won't end well for married couples.
Re: Is It A Sin To Masturbate While Doing A Video Call With Your Spouse? by Hotwest: 9:50pm On Jun 03, 2023
Johnson225:


The person who quoted you was right. Truly your earlier comment reek of stupidity . No hating
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