I’m 5”5, I’ll be 23 yrs this July and I think I’m a little over 50kg, I think around 53 or so. I feel very awkward, I’m good looking but then most people see me like one small boy.

Anytime I go somewhere some will give me that small boy look. Also I can’t stand among my mates cause I look smaller.

This has made me an introvert kind of, can’t relate with people very well especially female genders cause they look so big.

Even at my place of work, some just look at me like this small boy, but some of those guys my age are bigger with beards that you will think they are 26.

It’s not easy really. I’m been looking for ways to gain weight fast and work out so I can build muscle, too bad I can’t do anything about my height as I heard one can’t grow taller much at my age again.

Any idea to look more bigger?

lajid:
I’m 5”5, I’ll be 23 yrs this July and I think I’m a little over 50kg, I think around 53 or so. I feel very awkward, I’m good looking but then most people see me like one small boy.

Anytime I go somewhere some will give me that small boy look. Also I can’t stand among my mates cause I look smaller.

This has made me an introvert kind of, can’t relate with people very well especially female genders cause they look so big.

Even at my place of work, some just look at me like this small boy, but some of those guys my age are bigger with beards that you will think they are 26.

It’s not easy really. I’m been looking for ways to gain weight fast and work out so I can build muscle, too bad I can’t do anything about my height as I heard one can’t grow taller much at my age again.

Any idea to look more bigger?

Eat healthy and work out. Drink protein shakes, fortified milk or even complan to gain weight. But you must work out

KidDarkness:

Eat healthy and work out. Drink protein shakes, fortified milk or even complain to gain weight. But you must work out

I’ll try

lajid:


I’ll try

Okay. I meant complan

lajid:
I’m 5”5, I’ll be 23 yrs this July and I think I’m a little over 50kg, I think around 53 or so. I feel very awkward, I’m good looking but then most people see me like one small boy.

Anytime I go somewhere some will give me that small boy look. Also I can’t stand among my mates cause I look smaller.

This has made me an introvert kind of, can’t relate with people very well especially female genders cause they look so big.

Even at my place of work, some just look at me like this small boy, but some of those guys my age are bigger with beards that you will think they are 26.

It’s not easy really. I’m been looking for ways to gain weight fast and work out so I can build muscle, too bad I can’t do anything about my height as I heard one can’t grow taller much at my age again.

Any idea to look more bigger?

Don't wish you look bigger. Maintain your small boy look, it will take you far. I am older by you by almost a decade, 5'10 and weight bout 97Kg. I look like 40.

Self-hate and self -love are related to wanting to be proud.

Pride is a cardinal sin.

Accept who you are and you shall find peace from God.

Make wizkid as your mentor and motivation, he’s been looking like a teenager since time immortal but his self confidence and swag make him stand taller among other men far taller and bigger in size than him.

Self confidence is key.

lajid:
I’m 5”5, I’ll be 23 yrs this July and I think I’m a little over 50kg, I think around 53 or so. I feel very awkward, I’m good looking but then most people see me like one small boy.

Anytime I go somewhere some will give me that small boy look. Also I can’t stand among my mates cause I look smaller.

This has made me an introvert kind of, can’t relate with people very well especially female genders cause they look so big.

Even at my place of work, some just look at me like this small boy, but some of those guys my age are bigger with beards that you will think they are 26.

It’s not easy really. I’m been looking for ways to gain weight fast and work out so I can build muscle, too bad I can’t do anything about my height as I heard one can’t grow taller much at my age again.

Any idea to look more bigger?

Nothing you can do about it. Just learn to love and accept yourself the way you are and avoid anyone or group that will make you feel less of yourself for now until you're more confident.

Go after girls that fancy tiny men and don't try to do anything outside your league otherwise you'll cry.

Eat a lot of fufu and pap. They may help a little with weight gain.

Good luck.

HarunaWest:
Don't wish you look bigger. Maintain your small boy look, it will take you far. I am older by you by almost a decade, 5'10 and weight bout 97Kg. I look like 40.

OP, please listen to this man.

xavuv:


OP, please listen to this man.

Sure thanks

lajid:
I’m 5”5, I’ll be 23 yrs this July and I think I’m a little over 50kg, I think around 53 or so. I feel very awkward, I’m good looking but then most people see me like one small boy.

Anytime I go somewhere some will give me that small boy look. Also I can’t stand among my mates cause I look smaller.

This has made me an introvert kind of, can’t relate with people very well especially female genders cause they look so big.

Even at my place of work, some just look at me like this small boy, but some of those guys my age are bigger with beards that you will think they are 26.

It’s not easy really. I’m been looking for ways to gain weight fast and work out so I can build muscle, too bad I can’t do anything about my height as I heard one can’t grow taller much at my age again.

Any idea to look more bigger?

Please, try your best to accept and love who you are. I once wrote a story which I called "The fear of getting old". In our younger years, we rush to look old, and gain "acceptance " and "respect ". But when aging comes, we do everything to reverse it.
I had a video call few days ago with a student I thought 18yrs ago, he confessed that I look younger than him. I love and cherish my youthful looks. No one has ever disrespected me because of my looks.
About your peers and girls? Overlook them, build wealth instead.

Curiouscity:


Please, try your best to accept and love who you are. I once wrote a story which I called "The fear of getting old". In our younger years, we rush to look old, and gain "acceptance " and "respect ". But when aging comes, we do everything to reverse it.
I had a video call few days ago with a student I thought 18yrs ago, he confessed that I look younger than him. I love and cherish my youthful looks. No one has ever disrespected me because of my looks.
About your peers and girls? Overlook them, build wealth instead.

Noted, thank you

If you like yourself. Every other person will like you the way you are

Turn your weakness to strength by being very creative at one or two things

Learn to be contented with who you are

I bet you, even when you become 100 years old, you'll be looking like 50, ask El Rufai.

Lastly, never wish to be anybody because you are the best version of yourself