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The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age by Rubyjade: 7:40am On Jun 10, 2023
The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age are boldly listed below…

1: Warn your Girl Child Never to sit on anyone’s laps no matter the situation including uncles.

2: Avoid Getting Dressed in front of your child once she is 2 years old. Learn to excuse them or yourself.

3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as ‘my wife’

4. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now s#xually abuse themselves.

5. Never force your child to visit any adult she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.

6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child.

7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values of s#x. If you don’t, the society will teach them the wrong values.

8: It is always advisable you go through any new Material like cartoons you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves.

9. Ensure you activate parental controls on your cable networks and advice your friends especially those your child visit(s) often.

10. Teach your 3 year old how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that includes you (remember, charity begins from home and with you).

11: Blacklist some materials/associates you think could threaten the sanity of your child (this includes music, movies and even friends and families).

12. Let your child understand the value of standing out of the
crowd.

13: Once your child complains about a particular person, don’t keep quiet about it.

Take up the case and show them you can defend them.

Remember, we are either parents or parents-to-be. “THE PAIN LASTS A LIFETIME”

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Re: The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age by TemplarLandry: 7:40am On Jun 10, 2023
cool

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Re: The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age by Candidlady: 7:44am On Jun 10, 2023
Most importantly teach her never ever to trust any man

When they say left she should go left

When they say up she should go down

They are all spawn of the devil 👿

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Re: The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age by Sablexxxtoons: 7:52am On Jun 10, 2023
And all these should apply to boys too.. there are many male and female sexual predators of boys too

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Re: The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age by Westerhoffe(m): 7:58am On Jun 10, 2023
Front page material.

These are for careless parents who thinks their children are safe around anyone and everyone.

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Re: The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age by lavylilly: 1:03pm On Jun 10, 2023
Westerhoffe:
Front page material.

These are for careless parents who thinks their children are safe around anyone and everyone.
Nkan be

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Re: The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age by Meerahbel: 1:07pm On Jun 10, 2023
Do not sexualize your daughter, wear her age appropriate clothes, she's too young to be a slay mama or a slay queen, allow kids act their age.

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Re: The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age by Meerahbel: 9:09am On Jun 11, 2023
Sablexxxtoons:
And all these should apply to boys too.. there are many male and female sexual predators of boys too
Yes
Re: The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age by Rubyjade: 2:18pm On Jun 12, 2023
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Meerahbel:

Do not sexualize your daughter, wear her age appropriate clothes, she's too young to be a slay mama or a slay queen, allow kids act their age.

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Re: The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age by Evestar200(f): 6:50pm On Jun 12, 2023
Both boys and girls not only girls.

Boys also face sexual harassment from older women too

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Re: The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age by Belafonte(m): 7:28pm On Jun 12, 2023
Candidlady:



Most importantly teach her never ever to trust any man

When they say left she should go left

When they say up she should go down

They are all spawn of the devil 👿

grin
Re: The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age by ahnie: 7:41pm On Jun 12, 2023
I take number 3 very serious,I have once had serious issues with someone because of this same nasty comments.

And he stopped that nonsense.


An incident played out today and I was proud of how my daughter handled it,the lady was vexed,my daughter told her she was panned out running errands for her,that she needed a break,the lady was offended,and wanted spanking her,my geh told her not to dare spank her that she has right to object to whatever she is not comfy with.
Then she excused the lady.

Me I was just watching the free episode cheesy

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Re: The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age by Rubyjade: 1:50pm On Jun 13, 2023
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ahnie:
I take number 3 very serious,I have once had serious issues with someone because of this same nasty comments.

And he stopped that nonsense.


An incident played out today and I was proud of how my daughter handled it,the lady was vexed,my daughter told her she was panned out running errands for her,that she needed a break,the lady was offended,and wanted spanking her,my geh told her not to dare spank her that she has right to object to whatever she is not comfy with.
Then she excused the lady.

Me I was just watching the free episode cheesy
Re: The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age by Nobody: 1:50pm On Jun 13, 2023
I'll need to be unemployed or be a stay at home mother in order for me to teach her all of those things.

And some children are just stubborn even if you teach them all of those things from a young age.

Let me give an example about me, my sim card had parental control from when I started owning my own phone till this day... But that didn't stop me from buying another sim card from the black market and use it to access some porn sites as a teenager because I saw some students in class having porn in their phones and I became curious... I used my eldest sister's ID to have the Sim card registered... grin grin grin

I only threw the Sim card away when I finally got satisfied with what I saw in those porn sites and no one at home ever found out about it because I was very good in hiding it... grin grin grin

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Re: The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age by descarado: 2:05pm On Jun 13, 2023
Samantha124:
I'll need to be unemployed or be a stay at home mother in order for me to teach her all of those things.

And some children are just stubborn even if you teach them all of those things from a young age.

Let me give an example about me, my sim card had parental control from when I started owning my own phone till this day... But that didn't stop me from buying another sim card from the black market and use it to access some porn sites as a teenager because I saw some students in class having porn in their phones and I became curious... I used my eldest sister's ID to have the Sim card registered... grin grin grin

I only threw the Sim card away when I finally got satisfied with what I saw in those porn sites and no one at home ever found out about it because I was very good in hiding it... grin grin grin
Baaad girl cheesy
My kids can hack your phone within minutes. I don't know one can access tiktok through YouTube. I never owned an account. Noticed one watching something on the TV and when asked he said since last yr.

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Re: The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age by descarado: 2:07pm On Jun 13, 2023
The most important is take your daughter to fight class to learn self defence. That's all. You see all these small Chinese kids, try touch them and you will see your butt on the ground within seconds.

Not crying damsel in distress that need to be rescued.

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Re: The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age by backtovillage: 2:10pm On Jun 13, 2023
Samantha124:
I'll need to be unemployed or be a stay at home mother in order for me to teach her all of those things.

And some children are just stubborn even if you teach them all of those things from a young age.

Let me give an example about me, my sim card had parental control from when I started owning my own phone till this day... But that didn't stop me from buying another sim card from the black market and use it to access some porn sites as a teenager because I saw some students in class having porn in their phones and I became curious... I used my eldest sister's ID to have the Sim card registered... grin grin grin

I only threw the Sim card away when I finally got satisfied with what I saw in those porn sites and no one at home ever found out about it because I was very good in hiding it... grin grin grin
Nice move.
Re: The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age by Nobody: 2:32pm On Jun 13, 2023
And the funny part is that I was not allowed to have security codes or passwords on my phone, and I was also not allowed to take my phone to school because my family monitored it almost everyday.

But I was always three steps ahead of them... grin grin grin

Even in varsity I was able to get access to the university staff members' WiFi password and these other guys also taught me how to bypass the university firewall just so I could watch movies during my free time.. grin grin grin.. I asked them to teach me how to use the dark web, but they refused and told me that I could end up losing my law license one day if I get caught.

Some students later got caught bypassing the university firewall, I started panicking thinking that I was next... I kept logging on to the internet to check if I was blocked from having access to the university's students WiFi and I was afraid that one day they'll call me to come for an interrogation, but I was never blocked and I never did received any call, meaning the university never did found out about me... grin grin grin
descarado:

Baaad girl cheesy
My kids can hack your phone within minutes. I don't know one can access tiktok through YouTube. I never owned an account. Noticed one watching something on the TV and when asked he said since last yr.

Re: The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age by Rubyjade: 2:42pm On Jun 13, 2023
This kids are super smart, my cousin is less than 2ys and he can operate an android phone
descarado:

Baaad girl cheesy
My kids can hack your phone within minutes. I don't know one can access tiktok through YouTube. I never owned an account. Noticed one watching something on the TV and when asked he said since last yr.

Re: The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age by ezugegere(m): 10:48pm On Jun 13, 2023
A three year old cannot wash her private parts properly. You'll be dealing with infection...
Well, when you become a parent, you will understand the differences between theory and practical...

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Re: The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age by cococandy(f): 1:03am On Jun 14, 2023
These aren’t gender specific though

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Re: The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age by wazzub: 12:29pm On Jun 14, 2023
Samantha124:
And the funny part is that I was not allowed to have security codes or passwords on my phone, and I was also not allowed to take my phone to school because my family monitored it almost everyday.

But I was always three steps ahead of them... grin grin grin

Even in varsity I was able to get access to the university staff members' WiFi password and these other guys also taught me how to bypass the university firewall just so I could watch movies during my free time.. grin grin grin.. I asked them to teach me how to use the dark web, but they refused and told me that I could end up losing my law license one day if I get caught.

Some students later got caught bypassing the university firewall, I started panicking thinking that I was next... I kept logging on to the internet to check if I was blocked from having access to the university's students WiFi and I was afraid that one day they'll call me to come for an interrogation, but I was never blocked and I never did received any call, meaning the university never did found out about me... grin grin grin

How is law practice in SA?

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Re: The List Of Things You Need To Teach Your Girl Child At An Early Age by Rubyjade: 7:13pm On Jun 14, 2023
shocked
ezugegere:
A three year old cannot wash her private parts properly. You'll be dealing with infection...
Well, when you become a parent, you will understand the differences between theory and practical...

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