Ireportlive:




Growing up in the city , living in developed countries, I used to think village was all about what was shown in Nollywood

But I was wrong, a couple of years back I had a project in Kogi, Isanlu and this changed my perception how was your stay in isanlu ,hope you enjoyed hot pounded yam. I am from Egbe,not far from isanlu


If he is going to the village, make sure it's for Agriculture or sales of agro commodity

This villagers live extremely cheap life, they use solar panels, eat cheap bush meat, buy fresh products, stay in cheap rented apartment, very serene quite almost dead environment, watch free to air Satellite TV



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jeff1607:


Are you married?

Pacesetter2021:
Peace of mind is priceless. If you go to the village you will have peace of mind.

Secondly people are still making it in that village.

Go to the village with your husband.

Your children will be fine.

Ireportlive:




Growing up in the city , living in developed countries, I used to think village was all about what was shown in Nollywood

But I was wrong, a couple of years back I had a project in Kogi, Isanlu and this changed my perception

If he is going to the village, make sure it's for Agriculture or sales of agro commodity

This villagers live extremely cheap life, they use solar panels, eat cheap bush meat, buy fresh products, stay in cheap rented apartment, very serene quite almost dead environment, watch free to air Satellite TV



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Kobojunkie:
Example?

Please indicated Village Name, Local Government Area, and State, so we can investigate for ourselves the standard of education there abeg!

MisterBanny:
Instead of relocating to the Village due to your inability to pay the rent of 250k, why not move out from the current apartment to a lesser one?
Pls don't go to the village else witches will destroy your children. The witchcraft in the village are terrible and bloodthirsty.
The major concern now should be to get a new job, though I understand that you're still nursing your baby. Sadly, if ur husband wants u to follow him and relocate to the village, u don't have any alternative because if u disobey and decide to stay apart, meanings and different interpretations would be read into that decision of yours. His family members will start accusing u of doing prostitution now since your husband is no longer without a job

Dracular226:

You're not making sense!

maasoap:


Her own happiness comes first before anything else, people can say whatever they like. That's why I like Oyinbos, they don't really give a fvck about anyone's opinion.
Definitely, she can't be happy In the village, she's scared. And her kids, city kids. God helps the kids with mosquitoes and malaria most especially if the kids are AA.

care4you:
■ Are you living in a cave? Come to Anambra, all the schools in our villages are almost perfect!
Good structures! Well educated teachers! Serene environments! Perfect laboratories! Etc I don't know why you guys underrates village so much. Well, I don't know about your own village. When it comes to education Anambra villages are the best...Please come and verify... ....

maasoap:

Really, this is what we vomit when we are not ready to hear the truth.


How would any sensible person be able to give an informed advice when they don't have detailed information? Swerve!

Ireportlive:

Growing up in the city , living in developed countries, I used to think village was all about what was shown in Nollywood

But I was wrong, a couple of years back I had a project in Kogi, Isanlu and this changed my perception

If he is going to the village, make sure it's for Agriculture or sales of agro commodity

This villagers live extremely cheap life, they use solar panels, eat cheap bush meat, buy fresh products, stay in cheap rented apartment, very serene quite almost dead environment, watch free to air Satellite TV

Kobojunkie:
Example?

Please indicated Village Name, Local Government Area, and State, so we can investigate for ourselves the standard of education there abeg!

dapadawee:


Saying you're the one feeding your husband is wrong. Go to the villagers.

Blackman101:
My suggestion
1. Pray and get some one to pray with you, cos your husband loosing two job in a row and you loosing your need to be investigated, if it
carelessness or witch-hunting. (we are Africans and we have seen things)
2. if the above is clear, them consider how to pay the next House rent, I believe a job will come before the next rent is due ((12 months time )
3. while I am against family leaving apart, let him go ahead to the village for like six months, have corps in the farming and a little business
(like riding Okada ) on the side, before you and the children join him. In the village now nobody will give you and your children free food
oh. very best of luck

MisterBanny:


Oga, there's no such thing like Happiness matters in this case o. Madam must no disobey oga. Na oga marry madam and not the other way round

maasoap:

They married each other, her opinions matter too, that's how modern marriage works. Personally, I think there is nothing there for them.

Kizzygentle:
For a minute I thought it was relocating abroad.
Anyways it seems your husband is a very lazy man... My dear nothing dey village, honestly if u go to the village at a young age, people that stay in village are all rascals and irresponsible.cultist and gossipers... Village wey uncle dey sleep with aunty, na village adultery dey happen pass because of joblessness. Na for village wey I see cousins dey knack theirs elves and if elders talk, him go collect, na village wey I see young boys dey knack elderly man wife and if the husband talk, him go collect, the wife self go dey defend the young boy.. Wetin my eyes see for village that year, God forbid bad thing.. Infact never ever bring up a child in village.. Allow your lazy husband to go alone... No sha follow am...

highoctane:
■ Uturu in Isiukwuato LGA of Abia State. Home to two universities namely Abia State University
Gregory University. Abia State international secondary school. Marist Brothers juniorate Academy and a host of other private primary and secondary schools. The 7 major villages have state primary schools each. Home to Crossed Rock quarry Home to Masterenergy industries . Home to 3 stars Uturu Cave group of Hotels and Resorts. Solar powered home are common. Home to multi millionaires and some billionaires
That my home, my village where we troup to most weekends. I sometimes take retreat to energies my body and mental health
Verify

MisterBanny:


They married each other? I no blame you.

ChybuzzDD:


There are villages that have good private schools.

momsloved:
Good afternoon everyone, pls I urgently need your advice and suggestions on this.

My husband has been out of job since towards the end of last year. Almost the same time I had my second baby. The truth is, the same me nursing my baby has been the same person struggling to provide for the home.

Knowing that he contributed to his lost of job. He goes to work late, different excuses, doing the job anyhow that the management had to fire him. This is the second job he's losing due to carelessness.
He wasn't still meeting up with responsibilities even when he had those jobs. He was always complaining of TP expenses, deduction due to late coming, his salaries was not benefiting us.

Our present accomodation of 250k, one bedroom apartment is expiring ending of next month and I don't know how we're going to pay for the rent. The previous rent I have always contributed when I had the money.
Presently I have no job. I left my job during delivery, but I'm hoping to start looking for job very soon. Yet, I'm not idle. I'm still trying with little business to cartar for the house.

The issue now is, he has arranged his stuffs preparing to relocate to the village and he wants us to go together because he can't afford to renew the rent.
I told him I can't go to the village with him, we are too young to start retiring to the village. What about good school for the children especially my first child? But he has decided to go without us, leaving us with the whole responsibilities.
I'm afraid, I can't afford everything here either. But going with him to the village is also very scary. A man who ignore us when there's nothing in the house, waiting for me to fix, how can I trust him and relocate with my two children to his village? I can't speak their language and it's an interior village, How do we survive there?
He's not even considering all these.
Pls, advice me on what to do. I'm really fed up.