Ask Dino Melaiye

Hardwork money don't make noise
DANGOTE,OTEDOLA, BILL GATE and co
BUT BUT BUT
Rituals, kidnappers,thief,drug and prostitution
NOISE everywhere.

Tinubu never see Dem by the time he put taxes on them,like the richer u are the more tax u pay,u will see them run from Instagram Paul okoye said everybody rich for Instagram poorman no dey for Instagram

iLoveYouToo:



Online?

Ino dey talk about all those people wey dey snap raw cash dey post online.... That's unnecessary.... People flaunt cash in different ways u neva attend event and they'll call for donations and you'll see people fighting to be d highest donor ? Na part of wetin make my village develop bdat... Someone rehabilitated d community secondary sch and some group rehabilitated d whole borehole water system in d community....

duro4chang:
Ask Dino Melaiye

POlITICIANS thief

It is called looking for a dopamine high.

There's a chemical in the brain called dopamine which is linked to self esteem.

It doesn't just apply to only people who flaunt wealth, it also applies to the young women who flaunt their half nude bodies online.

All the attention and admiration they receive from strangers, causes their brains to produce more and more dopamine which in turn makes them feel over confident and inflates their fragile ego to the point of delusion.

If you really want to make those type of people suffer, just ignore them. Treat them as if they don’t exist and the moment they can see that nobody cares about their flaunting, majority of them will reach for the nearest bottle of sniper or locate their new home at the bottom of the lagoon.

Lexzeey:
What exactly do people aim to achieve when they come online to front how successful Thier life is?

Most of them will claim they're motivating people, motivating people to feel bad?

Or look down on themselves for not trying hard enough in life, if you are really motivating people you'd show them how to make something of their lives too, your motivation is even doing the opposite, its inciting people to become desperate to make same money or force it by going into crime or fraud.

Go to Instagram you'll see many of them clout chasing, even on nairaland dairy section them plenty, what exactly are you doing, people wey no Sabi you, they're not your family you're seeking validation under the guise of motivation.

The UAE spender that was arrested earlier sweet my belle, such laws should be enacted in Nigeria because we have the biggest number of clout chasers in this country, you'll see many people tapping in to grace under their post.

Anyone who is successful have one story to tell about how they suffered for their money, you think I'd tell you the dirty things I did to make money if I'll become successful?

Let us stop glorifying this clout chasing, tapping into grace on social media won't change your life, the way people react to the posts from this clout chasers is the reason they keep posting, if you abandon thier post and don't interact they'll slow down, move at your own pace no allow anybody give you high BP or make you feel you're not doing enough, they don't care about you, they're only posting the riches so you can validate to make them feel good and make you feel like you're not serious with your life.

I know many of you will call me jealous and say no one owes me anything, yes but constituting a nuisance affects my sanity, and everyone needs thier sanity, can't you celebrate your wealth by buying nice things and treating yourself well?

Must you flaunt it online?

How many people you dey help with your flaunting?

Icrave4u:
Why should you be jealous when i say i own a houses in banana island, is it your money ?i dont understand your write up if you feel oppressed you click the next button or work hard to met up. Those things are not to ridicule you but to motivate you to work hard. But you people with your negative mindset will feel is oppression or someone is trying to show off.

The popluar ola of lagos you know started as a cleaner and with a just a palaser phone he was using to do his video back then , he even struggle to get the phone which took him almost two months , but look at him and what he has achieved , dude his grace and hard work also if you see him dispalying his cars and houses on social media you will feel there are oppressing you. Oga when people tell you thier story you will be motivated to work harder. Abeg rest and increase your hussle.No hate!

You have missed the whole point.




What do they hope to achieve by flaunting their wealth?




Motivating people with a few generic stories and hundreds of pictures of exotic cars?




Well, the only motivation I see is a motivation to our youth to be extremely money conscious.




Recently, my cousin was telling me that "money must be made by fire by force." This is someone who is still in SS2 o. I was curious. So, I asked him why he felt that making money was a priority for someone like him who does not even have any need for it, as he doesn't have any responsibilities.




He told me "If you no get money, boys can intimidate you."




And that is true. Intimidation everywhere all in the name of motivating people.




And the most painful thing is that most of this wealth do not even have clean sources. If it is not proceeds of fraud, it would be through some other illegitimate means.

It's poverty mentality, it's not their fault. They've been so poor and broke for too long. So whenever they eventually manage to make it, they will have to flaunt it, cos wealth ain't a normal thing to them, they are not used to it.

FacilitatorLekk:
It's shallow minded people, that's how they get their gratification.

It's not shallow mind. It's called validation. Even Abraham Maslow's hierarchy of needs mentioned that everyone wants to get a point where they are respected and admired.

Trying to impress people is natural because we all seek validation in life. Just that some people take steps to control it because that validation is totally needless.

They flaunt their wealth to pepper their 'enem!es.'

Person wey dey pepper me dey waste him time and money because I go give mama Jacinta the pepper to make peppersoup for me

marlow1962:
Broke niggas doings, na them they showcase pass.
Rich dope nigga no get time to they showcase himself, say them wn they empress you abi wertin.
Men dy pull up GLE, dy ball on a stead, but you no go know them or even see them for internet they chop money.
But olaniyi and emeka go manage collect $20k, all the hype men for every club go cry him name, social media status go dy cry na.

Kids wer no know wertin God do for am.
Let's forget the money o, you see this davido guy. God bless the nigga with everything were him need for life. My vex na say, with everything were him get, davido is still living a bitch nigga life, and that's bleeped up. Davido dy leave life like boys wer just cash out from hk.

No na reason am, that's bleeped up.

davido is a celebrity, that is a way of life for them. Davido no dey even show off self.

People like to see, so for business people, it's good for business.

Even the so called success pictures they flaunt on social media is fake. Have u ever seen dangote posing with his car on social media? People with low self esteem does that.

Lexzeey:
What exactly do people aim to achieve when they come online to front how successful Thier life is?

Most of them will claim they're motivating people, motivating people to feel bad?

Or look down on themselves for not trying hard enough in life, if you are really motivating people you'd show them how to make something of their lives too, your motivation is even doing the opposite, its inciting people to become desperate to make same money or force it by going into crime or fraud.

Go to Instagram you'll see many of them clout chasing, even on nairaland dairy section them plenty, what exactly are you doing, people wey no Sabi you, they're not your family you're seeking validation under the guise of motivation.

The UAE spender that was arrested earlier sweet my belle, such laws should be enacted in Nigeria because we have the biggest number of clout chasers in this country, you'll see many people tapping in to grace under their post.

Anyone who is successful have one story to tell about how they suffered for their money, you think I'd tell you the dirty things I did to make money if I'll become successful?

Let us stop glorifying this clout chasing, tapping into grace on social media won't change your life, the way people react to the posts from this clout chasers is the reason they keep posting, if you abandon thier post and don't interact they'll slow down, move at your own pace no allow anybody give you high BP or make you feel you're not doing enough, they don't care about you, they're only posting the riches so you can validate to make them feel good and make you feel like you're not serious with your life.

I know many of you will call me jealous and say no one owes me anything, yes but constituting a nuisance affects my sanity, and everyone needs thier sanity, can't you celebrate your wealth by buying nice things and treating yourself well?

Must you flaunt it online?

How many people you dey help with your flaunting?

Someone dan dey oppress you abi

SayNo2SmallPrik:

Na paragraph we go chop?

I chop am very well.

Broke people trying to look rich to oppress other broke people.

Lexzeey:
What exactly do people aim to achieve when they come online to front how successful Thier life is?

Most of them will claim they're motivating people, motivating people to feel bad?

Or look down on themselves for not trying hard enough in life, if you are really motivating people you'd show them how to make something of their lives too, your motivation is even doing the opposite, its inciting people to become desperate to make same money or force it by going into crime or fraud.

Go to Instagram you'll see many of them clout chasing, even on nairaland dairy section them plenty, what exactly are you doing, people wey no Sabi you, they're not your family you're seeking validation under the guise of motivation.

The UAE spender that was arrested earlier sweet my belle, such laws should be enacted in Nigeria because we have the biggest number of clout chasers in this country, you'll see many people tapping in to grace under their post.

Anyone who is successful have one story to tell about how they suffered for their money, you think I'd tell you the dirty things I did to make money if I'll become successful?

Let us stop glorifying this clout chasing, tapping into grace on social media won't change your life, the way people react to the posts from this clout chasers is the reason they keep posting, if you abandon thier post and don't interact they'll slow down, move at your own pace no allow anybody give you high BP or make you feel you're not doing enough, they don't care about you, they're only posting the riches so you can validate to make them feel good and make you feel like you're not serious with your life.

I know many of you will call me jealous and say no one owes me anything, yes but constituting a nuisance affects my sanity, and everyone needs thier sanity, can't you celebrate your wealth by buying nice things and treating yourself well?

Must you flaunt it online?

How many people you dey help with your flaunting?

We do not need such a law in Nigreria. What we need is for FIRS to be alive to its responsibilities and go after those flaunting their wealth and make them do the needful.

I've said it repeatedly, when an average Nigerian makes money, they have either of these two option in mind, to impress or to oppress.
Very bad attitude I must say.

Lexzeey:
What exactly do people aim to achieve when they come online to front how successful Thier life is?

Most of them will claim they're motivating people, motivating people to feel bad?

Or look down on themselves for not trying hard enough in life, if you are really motivating people you'd show them how to make something of their lives too, your motivation is even doing the opposite, its inciting people to become desperate to make same money or force it by going into crime or fraud.

Go to Instagram you'll see many of them clout chasing, even on nairaland dairy section them plenty, what exactly are you doing, people wey no Sabi you, they're not your family you're seeking validation under the guise of motivation.

The UAE spender that was arrested earlier sweet my belle, such laws should be enacted in Nigeria because we have the biggest number of clout chasers in this country, you'll see many people tapping in to grace under their post.

Anyone who is successful have one story to tell about how they suffered for their money, you think I'd tell you the dirty things I did to make money if I'll become successful?

Let us stop glorifying this clout chasing, tapping into grace on social media won't change your life, the way people react to the posts from this clout chasers is the reason they keep posting, if you abandon thier post and don't interact they'll slow down, move at your own pace no allow anybody give you high BP or make you feel you're not doing enough, they don't care about you, they're only posting the riches so you can validate to make them feel good and make you feel like you're not serious with your life.

I know many of you will call me jealous and say no one owes me anything, yes but constituting a nuisance affects my sanity, and everyone needs thier sanity, can't you celebrate your wealth by buying nice things and treating yourself well?

Must you flaunt it online?

How many people you dey help with your flaunting?

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Self-esteem cannot be bought in the market.

Rarely do materialsm fill the void in someone's personal life.

Most often than not, it is a psychological call for help.

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Some people are just like that. While some people are quiet type some are just lousy type.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=87VCAqgchoE

It is not everyone who flaunt wealth online that is doing something illegal. There are people all over the world flaunting their wealth online and it is fun to flaunt wealth.

It is okay to intimidate others. It is okay to make the poor to cry and work hard.

Please flaunt your wealth. Povery is bad.

Lexzeey:
What exactly do people aim to achieve when they come online to front how successful Thier life is?

Most of them will claim they're motivating people, motivating people to feel bad?

Or look down on themselves for not trying hard enough in life, if you are really motivating people you'd show them how to make something of their lives too, your motivation is even doing the opposite, its inciting people to become desperate to make same money or force it by going into crime or fraud.

Go to Instagram you'll see many of them clout chasing, even on nairaland dairy section them plenty, what exactly are you doing, people wey no Sabi you, they're not your family you're seeking validation under the guise of motivation.

The UAE spender that was arrested earlier sweet my belle, such laws should be enacted in Nigeria because we have the biggest number of clout chasers in this country, you'll see many people tapping in to grace under their post.

Anyone who is successful have one story to tell about how they suffered for their money, you think I'd tell you the dirty things I did to make money if I'll become successful?

Let us stop glorifying this clout chasing, tapping into grace on social media won't change your life, the way people react to the posts from this clout chasers is the reason they keep posting, if you abandon thier post and don't interact they'll slow down, move at your own pace no allow anybody give you high BP or make you feel you're not doing enough, they don't care about you, they're only posting the riches so you can validate to make them feel good and make you feel like you're not serious with your life.

I know many of you will call me jealous and say no one owes me anything, yes but constituting a nuisance affects my sanity, and everyone needs thier sanity, can't you celebrate your wealth by buying nice things and treating yourself well?

Must you flaunt it online?

How many people you dey help with your flaunting?

You are probably flaunting your iPhone and the little you have too

those who evangelize publicly and intentionally, what do you hope to achieve?

SmartPolician:


It's not shallow mind. It's called validation. Even Abraham Maslow's hierarchy of needs mentioned that everyone wants to get a point where they are respected and admired.

Trying to impress people is natural because we all seek validation in life. Just that some people take steps to control it because that validation is totally needless.

Not everyone actually, not everyone get their kicks from validation from others, or by showing off, some people actually hide from social media and showing off. Being admired or respected naturally is different from craving or going all out to do things just for validation, reeks of an inferior mind and thinking.

eepeepook:
No paragraphs. I'm out.

Update: The people do it from a point of low self esteem. Watch The Great Gatsby and you’ll understand. They made money one way or the other. Due to formerly living in poverty, they want to loudly announce that they made it. People born into money see wealth as a standard already. They are comfortable dealing with huge sums. Give a person from poverty all the money in the world, he/she will still want more — going as far as cheating the next man out of his meagre funds.

You have a point, if you have been living the life since being a kid, you will get tired of showing off as an adult, it will tire you...but a poor minded man from poverty sees money as heaven, he can cheat, steal and die for it.

They do it for the likes, comments and to get more Followers

SmartPolician:


It's not shallow mind. It's called validation. Even Abraham Maslow's hierarchy of needs mentioned that everyone wants to get a point where they are respected and admired.

Trying to impress people is natural because we all seek validation in life. Just that some people take steps to control it because that validation is totally needless.

who told you that we all seek validation in life? You will say some people. People are different o, trying to impress people, strangers who don't even know them from Adam, or who doesn't care. Some people have already reached a stage in their life, where they don't seek any validation, opinion from others, they just live their lives, rich people don't seek validation from others, they do whatever they like, either right or wrong in the face of the society, They have it all, they are already made, it's poorer people that'll be looking up to them.

The real wealthy guys don't have time to flunt, the fakies do the flunting mostly on borrowed or hired stuff, you will see a billionaire flunting luxury stuffs on his page and in the end ask you to pay him 20 bucks, to tell you how he is making money, abeg, who don see dangote, otedola, Elon musk, bill gates etc, those real billionaires ever asking for one membership or mentorship sub or another?

Adewale1603:
who told you that we all seek validation in life? You will say some people. People are different o, trying to impress people, strangers who don't even know them from Adam, or who doesn't care. Some people have already reached a stage in their life, where they don't seek any validation, opinion from others, they just live their lives, rich people don't seek validation from others, they do whatever they like, either right or wrong in the face of the society, They have it all, they are already made, it's poorer people that'll be looking up to them.

Did you know that writing exams and passing them is seeking validation?

Listen, you cannot divorce validation from living.

This is something most people don't know.

HeartlessMan:
Someone flaunted to oppress them too.

Naso bro

SmartPolician:


Did you know that writing exams and passing them is seeking validation?

Listen, you cannot divorce validation from living.

This is something most people don't know.

test and exams are meant to be passed not to be failed. How is that seeking validation. Who will pray to fail an exam ? Same thing as been successful in life, how is that being seeking validation. Everyone wants to be successful not a failure, it's a general thing everybody wants. It's not being seeking validation. Seeking validation is flaunting your wealth, relationship, tours online, posting your pics, your personal life into the public place to receive comments, sometimes oppress the less privileged, to prove levels.

Vanity upon vanity all is vanity!