I have been married for 14 YEARS and 'we' have 3kids(all boys) but none of them belongs to me.

5years before I met my wife, I was involved in a car accident together with two of my friends. We were traveling from Lagos to Abuja and our car skidded off the road.
I was the only survivor of that accident, my friends died. I spent about 11months at the hospital and that left me with a condition that says I can't have children.

I gave my life to Jesus Christ and became a committed Christian after the incident.
In summary I became a pastor in a local church in my community 5years later and met my wife in the process.

I did not tell her about my condition because I was hopeful that God will heal me.

6 years into our marriage, my wife got pregnant and had 'our' first child.
To be sure, I secretly went for a DNA and it was clear I wasn't the father. I repeated the test for all 3 children and they are all not mine.

I have been living with this situation for the past 8 years and I am beginning to get irritated by both the children and my wife.
My wife pretends to be a good wife. She goes around preaching to women in the church about the need to remain faithful to their partners but she has had 3 children by another man or men I don't know.

I want to confront her, but I am confused as to how to go about the situation.
I am just angry and irritated by everyone in my house lately. I feel like a total stranger in my own home.

If you don't have any meaningful things to say, please don't comment

Fake post

Nah fam...i call bullshit

I smell lies

You have no right oga

Such marriage was built on deceit
Which u did first

I guess two can play the game

Your God who you believed would cure your impotency why not pray to him to change your kids DNA

You had such condition and you chose not to tell your wife.. wicked thing

Anyways


Idont believe anything iread on here again.. anything from your gender nothing but pure lies

Help you to do what?

Simps will always learn the hard way

Even if you want to tell lies, at least let it be sensible.... Too many fouls in the write up

Real cock and bull shit!

Donkogbe:
I have been married for 14 YEARS and 'we' have 3kids(all boys) but none of them belongs to me. 5years before I met my wife, I was involved in a car accident together with two of my friends. We were traveling from Lagos to Abuja and our car skidded off the road.
I was the only survivor of that accident, my friends died. I spent about 11months at the hospital and that left me with a condition that says I can't have children.
I gave my life to Jesus Christ and became a committed Christian after the incident. In summary I became a pastor in a local church in my community 5years later and met my wife in the process. I did not tell her about my condition because I was hopeful that God will heal me. 6 years into our marriage, my wife got pregnant and had 'our' first child. To be sure, I secretly went for a DNA and it was clear I wasn't the father. I repeated the test for all 3 children and they are all not mine. I have been living with this situation for the past 8 years and I am beginning to get irritated by both the children and my wife. My wife pretends to be a good wife. She goes around preaching to women in the church about the need to remain faithful to their partners but she has had 3 children by another man or men I don't know. I want to confront her, but I am confused as to how to go about the situation. I am just angry and irritated by everyone in my house lately. I feel like a total stranger in my own home. If you don't have any meaningful things to say, please don't comment

Before you decide to confront or not confront your woman, I suggest you seek professional mental therapy so you do not end up completely ruining what you yourself had a hand in creating.

Hahaha, this case tie wrapper carry baby for back too.

You willfully deceived someone's daughter into marriage when you were fully aware you couldn't father a child.

Your silly reason being that heaven would heal you by miracle, what nonsense!

Well the same miracle you were secretly hoping on has happened to your wife first. She got pregnant by miracle too, fit be immaculate conceptions.

Case closed, mek every rest and mek the angel wey dey dish out miracles rest for una case too.

:oYou are the real definition of a "very weak "man

You are the real definition of a "very weak "man

Klass99:


Funny you OP. I've seen this story on nairaland before, about two or three years ago, now you are claiming it like it is yours and acting like it is your reality. You better be careful what you wish upon yourself.

Anything to bash women.

Klass99:


Funny you OP. I've seen this story on nairaland before, about two or three years ago, now you are claiming it like it is yours and acting like it is your reality. You better be careful what you wish upon yourself.

Anything to bash women oo.
They are always sounding like broken clocks

Fake post.


Death on arrival.
Anything to bash women

Why didn't you keep trusting in God that the children were yours? Why did you opt for science and do a DNA test? Yeye.

Kobojunkie:
Before you decide to confront or not confront your woman, I suggest you seek professional mental therapy so you do not end up completely ruining what you yourself had a hand in creating.

Bother yourself not dear ...it's a fake post.

Cheers.

1Sharon:
Why didn't you keep trusting in God that the children were yours? Why did you opt for science and do a DNA test? Yeye.

Babe....it's a fake post targetted at bashing women.

Go for a memory flash.....

This isn't your story.
It happened to a man who lives in the US.
You just twisted it.
Be careful what you wish for...

Donkogbe:
I have been married for 14 YEARS and 'we' have 3kids(all boys) but none of them belongs to me.

5years before I met my wife, I was involved in a car accident together with two of my friends. We were traveling from Lagos to Abuja and our car skidded off the road.
I was the only survivor of that accident, my friends died. I spent about 11months at the hospital and that left me with a condition that says I can't have children.

I gave my life to Jesus Christ and became a committed Christian after the incident.
In summary I became a pastor in a local church in my community 5years later and met my wife in the process.

I did not tell her about my condition because I was hopeful that God will heal me.

6 years into our marriage, my wife got pregnant and had 'our' first child.
To be sure, I secretly went for a DNA and it was clear I wasn't the father. I repeated the test for all 3 children and they are all not mine.

I have been living with this situation for the past 8 years and I am beginning to get irritated by both the children and my wife.
My wife pretends to be a good wife. She goes around preaching to women in the church about the need to remain faithful to their partners but she has had 3 children by another man or men I don't know.

I want to confront her, but I am confused as to how to go about the situation.
I am just angry and irritated by everyone in my house lately. I feel like a total stranger in my own home.

If you don't have any meaningful things to say, please don't comment

Another episode of things that never happened

Op, in March 2023, you were single and your ex girlfriend was begging for a reconciliation.

https://www.nairaland.com/7623488/girlfriend-badluck-now-happening

Four months later, you have been married for 14 years and have 3 sons.
This magic is one of its kind.
On a serious note, you goofed by resorting to lying just to bash women. Cha!

Op, don't worry. You are not even your father's.

Donkogbe

Cunning man die, cunning man bury am.

You knew you were sterile and you did not open up to your wife to be? That is just wickedness! Now, you're blaming her for having your 'kids' outside. I would have felt sorry for you if you informed her.

For six years, you knew you were at fault and you did not open up. You know how society treats "barren" women, don't you?

The real mistake you made was that you did not open up.

Now is the time to tell her the truth! Afterwards, plan the way forward. She'll want to cut your head off first, so better wear a helmet.

The story is not true, because if it is true, you are supposed to be happy that your wife gave you children. You didn't have to pay heavily for adoption. Maybe you don't want peace, you want to be thrown' out of that house. By the time you are thrown out, you will start looking for another innocent woman to deceive into marriage while hiding your medical condition.

If you check well, the devil go get big breast and yansh.

You're a very wicked person and even your repentance is not enough to stop you. How can you subject someone's daughter to such a life where she will be mocked as barren woman.


Divorce her so she can at least go with her kids and be true to herself for once

Dis one is just mad
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