Love is beautiful, however, it can be challenging to manage.

How can one look past the partners' flaws and love them regardless?

Flaws in this context is when a partner lacks common sense.

Chironks:
Love is beautiful, however, it can be challenging to manage.

How can one look past the partners' flaws and love them regardless?

Flaws in this context is when a partner lacks common sense.

Love is uncondional abi? Na you love somebody that lacks common sense. Love the person that way.

Chironks:
Love is beautiful, however, it can be challenging to manage. How can one look past the partners' flaws and love them regardless? Flaws in this context is when a partner lacks common sense.

Depends on what you mean by love and what you call flaws. Also, are you married to this person or still considering it?

Jazmine10:
Love is uncondional abi? Na you love somebody that lacks common sense. Love the person that way.

There is no such thing as unconditional love since love is conditional.

Understanding your partner makes the relationship heavenly....
Know what they like and what makes them happy and try as much as you can to do those things...
Know what they dislike and try to avoid those things ....

If you can't avoid them, or you can't do things to make them smile, then leave the relationship..

Kobojunkiee:
There is no such thing as unconditional love since love.

You have a misunderstanding of that statement. We can say Love is Truth,we can say love is kind, we also can say love is unconditional etc. Hence that statement. Love is the embodiment of all that and more.

Jazmine10:
■ You have a misunderstanding of that statement. We can say Love is Truth,we can say love is kind, we also can say love is unconditional etc. Hence that statement.
■ Love is the embodiment of all that and more.

That love is unconditional is a myth!

2. That only happens in our imaginations though and not reality.

Kobojunkiee:
That love is unconditional is a myth!

2. That only happens in our imaginations though and not reality.

Love is not a myth. It is like saying Truth or Light is a myth.

Jazmine10:
Love is not a myth. It is like saying Truth or Light is a myth.

Again, what is a myth is Unconditional love. Love itself is not a myth.

Kobojunkiee:
Again, what is a myth is Unconditional love. Love itself is not a myth.

Unconditional would be metaphorical in describing Love, yeah? as in shining light so is unconditional love. Unconditional is more like a characteristic of love. And yes, Love is Love and in itself unconditional.

Jazmine10:
Unconditional would be metaphorical in describing Love, yeah? as in shining light so is unconditional love. Unconditional is more like a characteristic of love. And yes, Love is Love and in itself unconditional.

Unconditional can not be a characteristic of love given that love in and of itself is not unconditional.

Kobojunkiee:
Unconditional can not be a characteristic of love given that love in and of itself is not unconditional.

Jazmine10:

Love is very much conditional in all forms of it.

Kobojunkiee:
Love is very much conditional in all forms of it.

no, it is not. GOD is Love. The Love of GOD is unconditional.

Jazmine10:
no, it is not. GOD is Love. The Love of GOD is unconditional.

No, God's love is not unconditional at all as it is conditioned upon not just your acceptance but also your obedience to His teachings and commandments, aka His Law. So, when God demands that His love is for those who trust and obey Him, He means that is the condition upon which His love would be revealed to one.

Kobojunkiee:
No, God's love is not unconditional at all as it is conditioned upon not just your acceptance but also your obedience to His teachings and commandments, aka His Law.

The scripture says while we were yet sinners CHRIST died for Us. "For GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whosoever believes in HIM should not perish but have eternal life. There, in these scriptures elucidates the unconditionalness of GOD's love. Now, it all is dependent on your acceptance of GOD's Love or not by the sacrifice of the cross, hence free moral agency expressed. GOD is not telling you do this, i'd love you. GOD loves you inspite of you doing or not because LOVE is who GOD is and that in itself has no conditions because truth be told, no mortal can meet up with GOD's laws and Precepts but by HIS Grace and Mercy, HE gave Us HIS HOLY SPIRIT which is the fulfilment of the righteous requirements of the law; hence in HIM we live and move and walk and have our being. Love my dear is unconditional. For emphasis, i am not talking about the love fellow Nigerians are quick to throw around or violate others misusing.

Jazmine10:
■ The scripture says while we were yet sinners CHRIST died for Us. "For GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whosoever believes in HIM should not perish but have eternal life. There, in these scripture elucidates the unconditionalness of GOD's love. Now, it all is dependent on your acceptance of GOD's Love or not by the sacrifice of the cross, hence free moral agency expressed. GOD is not telling you do this, i'd love you. GOD loves you inspite of you doing or not because LOVE is who GOD is and that in itself has no conditions because truth be told, no mortal can meet up with GOD's laws and Precepts but by HIS Grace and Mercy, HE gave Us HIS HOLY SPIRIT which is the fulfilment of the righteous requirements of the law; hence in HIM we live and move and walk and have our being. Love my dear is unconditional.

In John 13 vs 1 and John 15 vs 1 - 14, the same Jesus Christ carefully explained to you those to whom His love really belongs. He carefully explained how it is only those who love him - John 14 vs 15 - 26 - that will not only receive the Holy Spirit from the Father, but they are also those whom He will do everything they ask for - John 15 vs 5 - 8. So, as you can see, God's Love, as explained by Jesus Christ, has always been conditional.

Kobojunkiee:
In John 13 vs 1 and John 15 vs 1 - 14, the same Jesus Christ carefully explained to you those to whom His love really belongs. He carefully explained how it is only those who love him - John 14 vs 15 - 26 - that will not only receive the Holy Spirit from the Father, but they are also those whom He will do everything they ask for - John 15 vs 5 - 8. So, as you can see, God's Love, as explained by Jesus Christ, has always been conditional.

Can we continue this conversation some other time by GOD's Grace if you may? I gotta run along now.

Jazmine10:
Can we continue this conversation some other time by GOD's Grace if you may? I gotta run along now.

Sure!

just love them. its not too hard

This is not a question, because the answer is in it

Chironks:
Love is beautiful, however, it can be challenging to manage.

How can one look past the partners' flaws and love them regardless?

Flaws in this context is when a partner lacks common sense.

Lol.. Lack common sense ke?

It's difficult but I have discovered that if you want peace then you must learn to understand and tolerate your spouse.

Love is subjective. Your survival and right to inner peace comes first.

Jazmine10:
Can we continue this conversation some other time by GOD's Grace if you may? I gotta run along now.

see them

Lol,
I believe there are people who would overlook what you consider a major flaw and still love their partner regardless.
There are also those who see things you overlook as flaws.

Advice: If a particular flaw doesn't work for and may never work for you in the nearest future, You can walk now, if u never go far.
No go stress yourself and person pikin. You cannot teach anyone common sense!!

Chironks:
Love is beautiful, however, it can be challenging to manage.

How can one look past the partners' flaws and love them regardless?

Flaws in this context is when a partner lacks common sense.

Once you truly love the person, you won't see those flaws as flaws. That the dangerous thing about love.

Otilor.. E don be
Loving a sane person is quite difficult talk more of a senseless one.
Na God hand the relationship dey now

You unloved the difficult partner. Simple!

By leaving them!

If u know u can't handle it
..leave now.... anything that's difficult during relationship is worse when u get to marriage

Only way is to learn to overlook the faults & focus on the positives.
This learning may come by renewing/reprogramming/brainwashing your mind - one good way being through religion.