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Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by AntiWailer: 11:01am On Sep 08, 2023 |
You will get caught some day. Just enjoy it while it last. |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by Belleful: 11:01am On Sep 08, 2023 |
Those of u advising him to stop is just wasting ur time. My advise to him is he should continue doing it. The day u are caught, u face d consequences. That's how we row in Nigeria. Some even said he should pay back the ones he have embezzle. From which money? Oga enjoy why it last.... 4 Likes |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by Silentgroper(m): 11:04am On Sep 08, 2023 |
Like someone said , ask for salary increment.. you cannot be doing the jobs of other people 1 Like |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by tonicyril: 11:04am On Sep 08, 2023 |
Treepower2000:U understand the tide bro, not that they don't know, just that they can keep up with ur excesses since it's not affecting the company 1 Like |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by Danidinho4: 11:05am On Sep 08, 2023 |
They'll SURELY catch u one day. Stop it once and for all its detrimental. 1 Like |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by Myer(m): 11:07am On Sep 08, 2023 |
Leggodeals: I admire your train of thought. It is restitution for past sins. However it is not always required in all cases. This is why one needs the counsel and leading of the Holy Spirit. God does not always use the method for everyone. To pick from some brains/thoughts here; 1. He certainly needs to stop now and ask for forgiveness and determine never to be fraudulent again. His conscience probing him is a good sign that there is still hope for his salvation. So many don't even have conscience again, it has been seered with hot iron. Lol 2. He needs to find a way of demanding for a salary increment officially and professionally, knowing in his heart that he is ready to resign if need be. He can do this when he has found another option or even now, his choice. 3. He needs to stop keeping up with the jones'es. He should as soon as possible separate from those contacts/friends/colleagues he's is competing or comparing himself to. And be willing to live a solo life for a while before meeting like minds. 4. He should really start surrounding himself with things and people that help him do and live right. The church is God's establishment for this- a non-competitive Church whose passion is for knowing God through bible study and soul winning. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by cedricksly: 11:09am On Sep 08, 2023 |
Imagine what going to prison for even 3 years without seeing your boys or wife would be? It is not impossible to catch you, all that is needed is external auditor.. Better stop that nonsense now before you cause your own downfall yourself. 2 Likes |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by stagger: 11:12am On Sep 08, 2023 |
Put a total stop to it now! 1 Like |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by DestinyNigga: 11:12am On Sep 08, 2023 |
Meerahbel: Dey wan use work kill you? Abeg dey settle urself. Those guys are freskly rich. Just try to dey invest am on something reasonable |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by blesdman(m): 11:14am On Sep 08, 2023 |
Belleful:Nigeria way. Cover Ur tracks just make sure the company is profitable and very profitable. 1 Like |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by ojeshola: 11:17am On Sep 08, 2023 |
Kingray10: Honestly speaking 1 Like |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by pocom35: 11:17am On Sep 08, 2023 |
Kingray10: All these ones saying...he should stop ..how can a family man live comfortably with just around 120k.. They will do worse if they are in his shoes and go to Church to thank God 2 Likes |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by ispreloaded(m): 11:21am On Sep 08, 2023 |
Oga continue jare na where man Dy work e Dy chop.... The company is milking u out by overloading u with task... 30mins for a break LMAO 🤣 na jackey u b? ....ok oya calculate the cost of production to ur salary+200k ur eye go open 1 Like |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by Stevenbright(m): 11:22am On Sep 08, 2023 |
Meerahbel: You are not confused. You are just a bad person like most average Nigerians. I won't be surprised if you are one of those overzealous people that pretends to hate corruption and supports one of the current political gladiators against the other! See, you better change and stop trying to blame the very company you are fleecing by saying that they refused to hire an auditor. Your change will come from within and the earlier the better before you are caught. 1 Like |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by tfelicityk(m): 11:22am On Sep 08, 2023 |
A man with conscience. God is with you. Don't you think He is passing a message to you. Use whatever proceed you had gotten for that 48months and nearest months to establish yourself (family) somewhere else please. So that you have prepared yourself if in case things fall apart as you presumed. You better leave this life of being a big boy and focus on your family wellbeing. May God forgive us all... 1 Like |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by SeriouslySense(m): 11:22am On Sep 08, 2023 |
Stop it now, never do it again, for the sake of your Son. If you are caught, it will damage your image, you will be branded as a crimminal which you have become, and what happens to your family and child. You can be digging a very big hole, that you cannot stop digging, stop now, it is for your good. 2 Likes |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by ispreloaded(m): 11:23am On Sep 08, 2023 |
pocom35:exactly u speak my mind.... Our politicians wey Dy pocket billions without look back nko? 1 Like |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by SeriouslySense(m): 11:23am On Sep 08, 2023 |
Exactly who is he trying to impress. tfelicityk: |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by SeriouslySense(m): 11:27am On Sep 08, 2023 |
Stevenbright: |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by Osanoghodua1: 11:29am On Sep 08, 2023 |
Today is the day of salvation, stop it, go to God in prayers and repent, if you attend a bible believing church, confess your sin to your pastor. Stop taking anything again, vow before God never to steal anymore. It has a repercussion in the future outside being at variance with God and laws of the Land. May God give you understanding. |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by ACCACENCONSULTS: 11:33am On Sep 08, 2023 |
My candid advise is to stop doing that from henceforth. Don't confess to anybody but only to God in prayer. Then make conscious effort to resist the temptation. Then you shall be free. Remember, don't confess to anybody. Stop the act, and move on. |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by Fearyourcreator: 11:41am On Sep 08, 2023 |
Leggodeals:Na politicians them Sabi abuse |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by greypencils: 11:44am On Sep 08, 2023 |
Meerahbel:You beans go done soon. Continue |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by Stoicful(m): 11:46am On Sep 08, 2023 |
OP, don't report yourself and don't mind anyone who give you such stupid advise. There is no work in Nigeria like before. Even with my experience, when I took a career break, it took me 6 month before I was able to secure another company with a multinational. Trust me, during that time, I blamed myself for that decision not until I was able to secure another, I felt good. I'm doing my Masters and it can't even cross my mind to resign so as to perform well in school because there isn't much job outside. Way forward... Stop the stealing act, and start reminding the manager or management the reason why they need to take in more people to assist with the job. If you have saved enough from your past deeds, invest in it on something productive, be it bettering your chances of securing a better job, maybe further more or do some professional courses or even raise your child. God will help you, don't feel guilty, you yourself said you alone do the work of more than one for your current role, the management feel no remorse, so you shouldn't either but for future deed, try and be transparent. |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by manmade(m): 11:48am On Sep 08, 2023 |
iammo:Lucifer doesn't need a deputy with someone like you around, see planning? |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by shedy03(m): 11:49am On Sep 08, 2023 |
Stop now now, then ask for salary increase. |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by ify84(m): 11:49am On Sep 08, 2023 |
Request for pay rise. If they pay you 120k... Let them take it to 150k. The extra 30k, use for repayment on your own monthly. Because one day they will find out and throw u into prison. If u are repaying, keep evidence in case. |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by Acybunii: 11:49am On Sep 08, 2023 |
Yoooo
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Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by occfx: 11:49am On Sep 08, 2023 |
Meerahbel: They know.. They considered employing extra hand for 100 or 200k... Why not allow the guy take it instead of employing who we don't know? So the 200k you steal is not a problem to them but don't steal more if not start reducing it |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by pongwa(m): 11:54am On Sep 08, 2023 |
Meerahbel:you be small thief relax |
Re: Deep Down Inside Me, I Feel Guilt And Hated Myself For What I Have Been Doing by Danja: 11:57am On Sep 08, 2023 |
Tell your boss that you have been taking their money fraudulently and that you want to stop but require a salary increase. Ask for forgiveness for the money taken thus far. |
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