This definitely can’t be an Igbo family🤣

Hmm

Bros your mama na gangster

efelicity:
I live with my mother, a single mother, since I lost my dad over a year ago and we haven't been having issues until recently
The problem with my mother is that she wants to remarry but I never wanted that because she planned to move in to the house my father built.

After a heated argument, she claimed the house as hers but I rejected! I didn't stop her from marrying any man but what I am against is moving the man into my father's house. More to that, she planned to open a business for her husband to be on my father's land. I know the consequence of allowing that to happen: he will later claim the land.

Since my mom met this man she stopped treating me like a son. One of her sisters told me that the man was disturbing my mom to send me out of the house so he can move in asap.

When I approached my mom with this, she cursed me because she believes I'm against her will.

How do I prevent this man from taking what belongs to me?

Why have you behaved so immaturely?

1. Your mother owns the house since your father is dead.
2. Since your father hasn't willed the house and property to you, go build your own fortune
3. Your mum has the right to remarry anyone she chooses and bring the man into her house and set her up in her own house.
4. You could however speak to your mum in a Civil and respectful manner while requesting for the document of the house or for the document to be given in trust to your siblings
a. This is also for her protection in case the new husband decides to sell the property behind her back
b. She would guarantee that her own biological children will inherit her properties if things go south.

But let your mama breathe o!
The house belongs to her 100% as your father is dead!
Unless your mum gives you the house, it isn't yours!

Your mum deserves the right to be happy and to remarry if she chooses

efelicity:
I live with my mother, a single mother, since I lost my dad over a year ago and we haven't been having issues until recently
The problem with my mother is that she wants to remarry but I never wanted that because she planned to move in to the house my father built.

After a heated argument, she claimed the house as hers but I rejected! I didn't stop her from marrying any man but what I am against is moving the man into my father's house. More to that, she planned to open a business for her husband to be on my father's land. I know the consequence of allowing that to happen: he will later claim the land.

Since my mom met this man she stopped treating me like a son. One of her sisters told me that the man was disturbing my mom to send me out of the house so he can move in asap.

When I approached my mom with this, she cursed me because she believes I'm against her will.

How do I prevent this man from taking what belongs to me?

that is Ur property ooo. If She wants to follow and claim it they U guys should sell off and share the money equally. Don't allow Her have monopoly over the properties

The battle line has been drawn already that’s why every married man should learn from this. Men write will and next of king in respect to the children otherwise a woman has a tendency of forgetting her own children that she carried for 9month because of gbola.
My advice is, take your stand as the first child uphold everything that belongs your father intact. If she’s getting married let her leave the house and everything behind and never look back. Involved your close and trusted uncles, even your mentor pastor if you have one. She’s wrong by all standards to bring another man into her marital house built by another man when the children are still young and much alive. If she cursed you then you should disown her too so that first half will be 1:1. At least goal goal don enter

There's nothing GBOLA cannot do

Sow not sew

Mhizzard:
Why are some man so mannerless,you don't want work but you want to eat from where you didn't sew

efelicity:
I live with my mother, a single mother, since I lost my dad over a year ago and we haven't been having issues until recently
The problem with my mother is that she wants to remarry but I never wanted that because she planned to move in to the house my father built.

After a heated argument, she claimed the house as hers but I rejected! I didn't stop her from marrying any man but what I am against is moving the man into my father's house. More to that, she planned to open a business for her husband to be on my father's land. I know the consequence of allowing that to happen: he will later claim the land.

Since my mom met this man she stopped treating me like a son. One of her sisters told me that the man was disturbing my mom to send me out of the house so he can move in asap.

When I approached my mom with this, she cursed me because she believes I'm against her will.

How do I prevent this man from taking what belongs to me?

Report her to your paternal family

This stupid troll from Jalingo, Victor. Your madness still continues even till today?

My God!

I pity anybody that believes your fictional tale.

Start by accusing the man of conniving with your mum to kill your dad.

Find proof along the way.

If not na you be next o.

Fake story, you're very stupid..

You had better focus on your studies boy...

OP,

Endeavour to sort issues with your mum. Let her go ahead with her matrimonial choices. Nurse no bad blood with the man in question. Try to be a very significant figure during the ceremony, if there'll be one. When the man subsequently moves in, try to keep a decent relationship with him but be extra careful in the house and around him. Then after about 4 months when he must have settled into your father's house, put him to sleep with weed in his food and suffocate him with a pillow. No autopsy in Nigeria can be detailed enough to prove he died from asphyxiation. They'll rather find traces of the weed in his system and assume he overdosed on cannabis sativa. The rest is history.

This mother might end up loosing both Man and son if she's not careful.

You are right, she should move into his house. Not being him into hers. Speak to your fathers relative and genuine friends that you know, however look well before you tell them because the heart of Man is one kind.

If your mother has an elder Sis tell her to speak to her.

efelicity:
I live with my mother, a single mother, since I lost my dad over a year ago and we haven't been having issues until recently
The problem with my mother is that she wants to remarry but I never wanted that because she planned to move in to the house my father built.

After a heated argument, she claimed the house as hers but I rejected! I didn't stop her from marrying any man but what I am against is moving the man into my father's house. More to that, she planned to open a business for her husband to be on my father's land. I know the consequence of allowing that to happen: he will later claim the land.

Since my mom met this man she stopped treating me like a son. One of her sisters told me that the man was disturbing my mom to send me out of the house so he can move in asap.

When I approached my mom with this, she cursed me because she believes I'm against her will.

How do I prevent this man from taking what belongs to me?

JUJU AT WORK

She can marry him and move her things to the new husband house. Not the other way round.
River don't flow backwards.

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

This case is way beyond your power. Your mom won't listen to you, because currently she can do anything for that man. I would advice you to report this case to your dad brother somebody that you know is not selfish so that he can talk sense into her head. If you are the first born then the land and the house belong to you, your siblings and your mom.

Irresponsible men irritate me. All this cut and nail husbands marrying widows eh. That was how my mom sis did and this children she birthed for the man became hell while growing thank God they later changed.

Abeg blame the woman joor .. which kind thing she dey do ...

Bring the matter before those she respects so much, so that they will make her see reasons with you. If she still insist, then she might be a victim of love charm. Why do you think the man is asking her to push you out of the house?

Mystery9:
Who did your late dad will the house and land to? I think you should approach your late father's relatives on the issue before it's too late.

So that the relatives too can claim the land? Young man approach a lawyer. Secure all entitlement legally.

Are you from Akwaibom or Calabar?

Where are the land papers, where is the lawyer, where are the elders...

Abi u be stray boy?!

iammo:



Get the man's number on your mother's phone, and call him man to man for a meeting with one of your father's relatives

Tell him you have no issue with his relationship with your mother but you don't support her bringing any man to your father's house or property

Tell him you are willing to go to any length on the property belonging to your father, if it means involving your father's family or the lawyers

Am very sorry to say this but some women are just not emotionally intelligent to manage inheritance and family asset that's why many are skeptical in having them administer an estate

Sir Luis Ojuckwu was a billionaire

He married Ojuckwu's mother and Ojuckwu inherited his wealth

Ojuckwu wasted the wealth on Civil War and married a new young wife Bianca

Upon death, Bianca didn't let any of Ojuckwu's Old son or Brothers, not even cousins to access any of Sir Ojuckwu's Asset





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your Ojukwu narrative is false. Stop looking for likes

Beremx:
your Ojukwu narrative is false. Stop looking for likes

Tell us the truthful one then, nobody stops you from getting your own likes or hate

After all matters is in court and also all over the Media

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Exodus15v11:
Just over a year ago and she's already trying to move another man into the house? Wow

The man himself must be shameless, trying to reap where he didn't sow.

You better find someone to talk sense into her, if she won't listen to you. Or do whatever you can to secure all your Father's properties before he takes over everything your Father worked for and what rightfully belongs to you since you're the son. But make sure you make your moves quietly. Now is not the time to be a mumu.

Just a year ago!
The man has been sleeping with that woman before the husband died.

Am sorry but this the man na yoruba

TenQ:

Why have you behaved so immaturely?

1. Your mother owns the house since your father is dead.
2. Since your father hasn't willed the house and property to you, go build your own fortune
3. Your mum has the right to remarry anyone she chooses and bring the man into her house and set her up in her own house.
4. You could however speak to your mum in a Civil and respectful manner while requesting for the document of the house or for the document to be given in trust to your siblings
a. This is also for her protection in case the new husband decides to sell the property behind her back
b. She would guarantee that her own biological children will inherit her properties if things go south.

But let your mama breathe o!
The house belongs to her 100% as your father is dead!
Unless your mum gives you the house, it isn't yours!

Your mum deserves the right to be happy and to remarry if she chooses

Get well soon.

Nairaland encouraging trolls once again. I can never take this place serious.

efelicity:
I live with my mother, a single mother, since I lost my dad over a year ago and we haven't been having issues until recently
The problem with my mother is that she wants to remarry but I never wanted that because she planned to move in to the house my father built.

After a heated argument, she claimed the house as hers but I rejected! I didn't stop her from marrying any man but what I am against is moving the man into my father's house. More to that, she planned to open a business for her husband to be on my father's land. I know the consequence of allowing that to happen: he will later claim the land.

Since my mom met this man she stopped treating me like a son. One of her sisters told me that the man was disturbing my mom to send me out of the house so he can move in asap.

When I approached my mom with this, she cursed me because she believes I'm against her will.

How do I prevent this man from taking what belongs to me?

Chairman, leave the house and hustle for your life.

She’s your mother oo

efelicity:
I live with my mother, a single mother, since I lost my dad over a year ago and we haven't been having issues until recently
The problem with my mother is that she wants to remarry but I never wanted that because she planned to move in to the house my father built.

After a heated argument, she claimed the house as hers but I rejected! I didn't stop her from marrying any man but what I am against is moving the man into my father's house. More to that, she planned to open a business for her husband to be on my father's land. I know the consequence of allowing that to happen: he will later claim the land.

Since my mom met this man she stopped treating me like a son. One of her sisters told me that the man was disturbing my mom to send me out of the house so he can move in asap.

When I approached my mom with this, she cursed me because she believes I'm against her will.

How do I prevent this man from taking what belongs to me?

Dat man no get shame he wan reap where him no see.. if he is man enough make he rent house leave ur papa house..how old are you?

EmmyDJourno:
This definitely can’t be an Igbo family🤣

I love the way igbos handle such. Act of war

iammo:


Tell us the truthful one then, nobody stops you from getting your own likes or hate

After all matters is in court and also all over the Media

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shatap
why did you