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Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by deyplay: 12:49pm On Oct 03, 2023
judedwriter:


Irony of life.

Marriage too is overhyped and a risk.

Some just marry because they want kids.

You can be happier single and fulfilled, but marriage is a big bonus only if you marry someone who completes not depletes you.
right, then in all thy getting, try get a good wife. A good wife is a project and has always been a project. Never marry cos of just kids cos they will leave you to form their own family when they grow up. Marry someone you can grow old with!
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by rickleye: 12:51pm On Oct 03, 2023
1. Stop Daily intake of Porn which would lead to masturbation . If you lie and say you don’t watch porn or masturbate you deserve yourself.

2. I didn’t say stop completely but daily build on self tolerance. Most mastutbation occurs at night . So take sleeping pills or alcohol to knock you out . ( Mama say knock you out )

3. Stop watching suggestive programs - I won’t mention such as if I do your mind will seek them out. Just anything not 18+

3. You need to take Maca by Webber Naturals. 2ce daily. These will boost your testosterone levels.

Good luck

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Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by judedwriter(m): 12:54pm On Oct 03, 2023
deyplay:
right, then in all thy getting, try get a good wife. A good wife is a project and has always been a project. Never marry cos of just kids cos they will leave you to form their own family when they grow up. Marry someone you can grow old with!

Yeah marry a soul mate 👍
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by TheBillyonaire: 12:54pm On Oct 03, 2023
Carcholce:


I have done this since 2017, but I’m giving it up gradually. Aside the fact it’s not healthy, sex, alcohol and weed is a deadly combo. It causes over-stimulating of the brain. I started learning how to have sex without any stimulant, it’s not so fun and enjoyable anymore but it’s better and even last longer.

Actually, it is not an activity that one indulges in daily. Preferably on Sundays, so if you program your mind that Sunday is sex, smoking and drinking, you will always look forward to it, while the rest of the days are for work, exercise and detox.

It is idiocy to indulge in sex always, because sex hormones are actually another addictive set of chemicals. So set up that time-table and tell your wife that it is only on sundays that you can indulge, if it happens any other week day, she should thank the stars.
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by deyplay: 12:57pm On Oct 03, 2023
judedwriter:


Yeah marry a soul mate 👍
yes bro. That's why marriage is no competition. You marry whom you are attracted to and who is attracted to you. Secondly, marry for yourself and not for others. Third, let whoever you marry fit into your purpose. Fourth, do all you can, to get her.

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Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by nony43(m): 1:05pm On Oct 03, 2023
SyrusdeHansome:
Since 2019 i never knack so it's not a big deal.




Na lie.
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by ejieddy: 1:25pm On Oct 03, 2023
Lay off Pornography

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Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by seguno2: 1:48pm On Oct 03, 2023
Felimax:
At 24 years?
Do you have a doctor or psychologist here on Nairaland?
You need them now!

Hope you are not taking all those things because this one that you said you use to be very active abi wetin you talk?

That is a great idea- to see a doctor and more importantly a psychotherapist.
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by Felimax(m): 2:02pm On Oct 03, 2023
Cajal:

He has sexual dysfunction and most likely loss of Libido with or without erectile dysfunction
He may need to see a urologist
He can look for one on the internet.....such as Idowu Najeem A

So he will be diagnosed and be treated from the internet abi?
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by hkidola00(m): 2:03pm On Oct 03, 2023
BoldBrainz:
Nigeria is upside-down, na sex be priority for 24year old boy. Come with your father to the next PTA meeting.

Stupid boy!
got niggas who married at 24 so what you saying self
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by hkidola00(m): 2:04pm On Oct 03, 2023
grin grin grin grin grin grin
Kingjbase:

And you think your condition is also good?
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by BoldBrainz(m): 2:09pm On Oct 03, 2023
hkidola00:
got niggas who married at 24 so what you saying self

Are you married?
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by Faposky95: 2:22pm On Oct 03, 2023
Felimax:
At 24 years?
Do you have a doctor or psychologist here on Nairaland?
You need them now!

Hope you are not taking all those things because this one that you said you use to be very active abi wetin you talk?

24...?!!!!!!
I sometimes think I'm slack when I don't handle her backside from 3am to 4 or 5am trying to do that thing there......
Whether she like am... whether she no like am......we must shake body......
@ 44+
.....and I would not shake for somedays straight and think I'm getting not old for this shi.....tz
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by Olajide200(m): 2:37pm On Oct 03, 2023
Would you believe if I tell you nothing is wrong with you physically or medically? You problem is the state of the Nation. Trust me
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by Pacesetter2021: 3:39pm On Oct 03, 2023
Are you suppose to be having sexual intercourse in the first place as a single man
Let's live right by God's word. It pays to do so.
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by Felimax(m): 3:40pm On Oct 03, 2023
Faposky95:


24...?!!!!!!
I sometimes think I'm slack when I don't handle her backside from 3am to 4 or 5am trying to do that thing there......
Whether she like am... whether she no like am......we must shake body......
@ 44+
.....and I would not shake for somedays straight and think I'm getting not old for this shi.....tz

You nor va jam!
Dem nor go tell you make you run.
3am - 5am! Shey na your calling be that?
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by Zealoy(m): 4:03pm On Oct 03, 2023
The higher your responsibility the less u think about sex, I've experienced such, when ur mind is occupied by bills, house rent, feeding etc. i tell you, u will hardly think of sex
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by Faposky95: 4:12pm On Oct 03, 2023
Felimax:


You nor va jam!
Dem nor go tell you make you run.
3am - 5am! Shey na your calling be that?

Instead of dream BAT dreams, make I enjoy wetin I pay for......
All na grace, if you do dem go talk, if you no do dem go gather talk sef......!!!!
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by SyrusdeHansome(m): 4:18pm On Oct 03, 2023
Shinjawestern:


U r not okay..

U need help

I don't need any help. I was just tired of doing something that made me feel guilt all over.
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by SyrusdeHansome(m): 4:19pm On Oct 03, 2023
nony43:




Na lie.
What's my gain if i lie here?
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by Quality20(m): 4:29pm On Oct 03, 2023
Are u married or u a bad guy?
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by Caleb15(m): 4:37pm On Oct 03, 2023
I will advice after dealing with the current situation at hand emm give or take next 8years
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by CuntPeddler: 4:43pm On Oct 03, 2023
Guyman01:
Theres nothing wrong with you, you are 24 years, concentrate your libido on building yourself and your future. Many married men are even keeping away from their wives because of what they are passing through in terms of not meeting up their aspirations in life, having control over your sexual desires is very healthy.
Exercise more, keep fit and healthy and when the time comes you will have a healthy sex life with a partner you should carefully select to build a future together

U people like to mix things up. There’s a difference between having urge and being able to control it and not having the urge at all. At that young age of 24, something is wrong
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by Felimax(m): 4:43pm On Oct 03, 2023
Faposky95:


Instead of dream BAT dreams, make I enjoy wetin I pay for......
All na grace, if you do dem go talk, if you no do dem go gather talk sef......!!!!

Oga see, you nor va get am..
Like you carried her, yes you want to pay whatever sum but she need the thing pass you and she must collect like one week nacking from you only one night.

When day break na only you go tell yourself say you don lean finish. That my kalabari girl will not even wait for you to pull off, na she go carry enter bed.

If sleep catch you she go chop your nipples till you get erections. You must nack till day break.
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by nony43(m): 4:51pm On Oct 03, 2023
SyrusdeHansome:


What's my gain if i lie here?




Like no urge ? No konji?
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by Coolgent(m): 5:00pm On Oct 03, 2023
Are you married?
Otherwise we shouldn't waste our precious time in aiding premarital sex

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