IamReallyboy:
Help a brother,

If I touch my wife she frown, and complain she doesn't like it.

We have s*x only when she's in the mood, even if I romance her she complain of pain or give useless excuse to stop it.

My problem is, she no dey go out, no friends. Please any advice or help to this.

Revolution2022:
Mugu horseband

IamReallyboy:
Help a brother,

If I touch my wife she frown, and complain she doesn't like it.

We have s*x only when she's in the mood, even if I romance her she complain of pain or give useless excuse to stop it.

My problem is, she no dey go out, no friends. Please any advice or help to this.

IamReallyboy:
Help a brother,

If I touch my wife she frown, and complain she doesn't like it.

We have s*x only when she's in the mood, even if I romance her she complain of pain or give useless excuse to stop it.

My problem is, she no dey go out, no friends. Please any advice or help to this.

BigYash:
Una no date before marriage?If yes,why the sudden change? Did she just give birth or what?
Something is wrong somewhere.. Abi you cheat,she catch you and you no know? Try and ask her questions, and keep a close eye on her activities in and outside the house.. Check your hygiene too ..

Reminderz:

possible things involved...

1) she's not sexually attracted to you..
2) she doesn't see you as a man she respect; a weak man.
3) she's cheating.
4) you don't take your personal hygiene seriously; you're not neat.
5) you don't know how to get a woman in the mood.
6) she's not performing her duties as your wife.
7) she knows you can't get it anywhere else so she keeps manipulating you with it; you've gat no options..

if the problem is 1, 2, 4 and 5, then the problem is you... if the problem is 3, 6 and 7, then don't also perform your duties on her, ignore her like she doesn't exist... she wants to friendzone you in the marriage, if she doesn't fvck you, who does she fvck? and did you meet her a virgin? if it persists, get another wife or cheat since she doesn't know what's expected of her, she should go back to her father's house if she's not emotionally matured enough to be married...

IamReallyboy:
Help a brother,

If I touch my wife she frown, and complain she doesn't like it.

We have s*x only when she's in the mood, even if I romance her she complain of pain or give useless excuse to stop it.

My problem is, she no dey go out, no friends. Please any advice or help to this.

treatise:

Gbam or she engages in self-help

nobone:
Check well.
Do you beat her,.
Do tou verbally abuse her at the slightest provocation?

Do you emotionally abuse her?

Do you apologize to her when you offend her or you stay for some days and start touching her again?

Do you always find fault in what ever she does and never take time to appreciate and praise her at least even if you don't mean it.

Do you buy her things on her birthday even if it's a bottle of drink.

Do you take care of yourself? Do you brush regularly, wear clean boxers and singlets?

If you don't do all these, please work on it.
You will see changes with prayers.

Hold her in high esteem please. Consider her opinions even if you don't agree with her, politely decline. Avoid heated argument.

I wish you all the best bro, ❤️❤️♥️♥️

peterbello:
Many of us are in this boat. We just don't speak out. I have read many replies here which doesnt solve anything. I just think the lady's interest is somewhere else. It's not about stress, hygiene or birth control. No need beating a dead dog. Get another wife or a side chick. Because i just see it as sheer wickedness. How can a lady who used to love sex like a nympho just change suddenly without any explanation? And she won't want to be touched by you neither would she touch you. She would rather lose a limb than allow her man touch her hand. It's that terrible.

winner37:
If she doesn't have friends, she does her thing in the bathroom..

Personal hygiene matters.. I could remember after everything we went in bed first to kiss her I perceived a very bad odour that really switch me off from the mode ...As a man do the needful on your private parts..

Could you change the strategy, pre-intimacy first or make a sex topic.. she is your wife lick and suck everything

Be smart to understand her mode ..

Otuasworld:

I hate to hear such things, either u date or not humans are not realiable they can change any time

OZIOGU1:


Good question, during my case my wife was depressed with my attitude towards her and when she open up, i cried coz i never though i was hurting her with such words, but thank God everthing is ok now.

DrFunmisticGlow:
I am glad that two of you were willing to communicate and resolve your issues

It is a great calling to be a husband and leader, I wish you the best of luck in your marriage. Take her out to events. Show her that you are not ashamed of her. May your marriage overcome any challenges till death do you part

peterbello:
Many of us are in this boat. We just don't speak out. I have read many replies here which doesnt solve anything. I just think the lady's interest is somewhere else. It's not about stress, hygiene or birth control. No need beating a dead dog. Get another wife or a side chick. Because i just see it as sheer wickedness. How can a lady who used to love sex like a nympho just change suddenly without any explanation? And she won't want to be touched by you neither would she touch you. She would rather lose a limb than allow her man touch her hand. It's that terrible.

HardBishop:


Is not easy to maintain that down part......🤣 You have to wash panties day and night... Bath consistently... Douche and clean up after using toilet...
Even we guys wash our boxers once in a while. Bro it isn't easy

IamReallyboy:
Help a brother,

If I touch my wife she frown, and complain she doesn't like it.

We have s*x only when she's in the mood, even if I romance her she complain of pain or give useless excuse to stop it.

My problem is, she no dey go out, no friends. Please any advice or help to this.

Ten06:
Maybe your wife was a man before he change his gender

IamReallyboy:
Help a brother,

If I touch my wife she frown, and complain she doesn't like it.

We have s*x only when she's in the mood, even if I romance her she complain of pain or give useless excuse to stop it.

My problem is, she no dey go out, no friends. Sad bro try seek counseling. No man should go through this.Please any advice or help to this.