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Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by Magnoliaa(f): 7:58pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: Everytime I feel like quoting you to offer a sister's solidarity, it takes everything in me to pull back and not do so. Sorry about your experience, though ❤. 2 Likes |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by Jamie1000: 8:02pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
slaawomirr: Child |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by BRATISLAVA: 8:04pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
Magnoliaa: Offer it. I need an e-shoulder to dribble my snot on. Thank you. People are cruel, and the cruelty is worse when you don't expect it. If a childhood friend could do that, who is there to have as a friend? The closer you are the less you see. I'm sure there were other signs I overlooked. Glad we know where we stand nowadays. The worst part is that I genuinely liked this person. But I can think of some incidents which should've let me know who I was dealing with. 6 Likes |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by creolehunt: 8:04pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
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Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by Emyogalanya: 8:05pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
Ballzproblem2:When this x stop being formerly twitter. When? 1 Like |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by boxypane(m): 8:06pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
Just yesterday. A bloody ingrate. I brought and ran a deal, u dey expect 50/50. |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by jelel6: 8:08pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
Fortunately, I don't have no bad friend stories to tell. I have very few "actual" friends. But it's all good. I've only known decent people in my life. |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by divinelydiffere(f): 8:10pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
Hmmm. Just last week. It's so shocking. People that I thought got my back. |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by Akpaamunsi: 8:11pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
Ballzproblem2: Your alternate aka kezienaiira no join you to attack today? |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by luminouz(m): 8:18pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
Boo-Hoo! A lot of people got their feelings hurt Voo-Doo!! My life tenets are simple.... One of these is that never fully trust or depend on anyone except yourself. Always have a plan B,C,D in case shiit goes sideways!!! The envy and jealousy directed my way have always been about my looks and brains. To some men and women, it's criminal and unjust for Lumi to have both. The only way I survived was what I shared above. Trust me, it will save you a lot of stress 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by NOwazobia: 8:19pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
If I hate or I dislike your attitude, I will always tell you. I told a very close friend once of his fuckup, then we settled and became as usual. Then comes the biggest fuckup that got to the core of my heart. I told him his fuckup, then cut him off, and we still see each other every blessed day. I am one human that could care less about humans, even as far to relatives because I believe no one can help me, so I don't go trying to please people in order to gain their favor. I am a loner, and I have some very great but very few friends. But some persons think I have a too large ego. 10 Likes |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by ColonelMichael: 8:36pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
Johnycastro18: 1 Like |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by revret: 8:37pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
When he told my gf everything i confided in him about and even mentioned how i was still in touch with other girls. Also started making advances on one of my ex. Na man d do man oh. He still doesn’t know i know this but got scared of him cos i trusted him the most in my life. 1 Like |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by jelel6: 8:42pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
RevolverOcelot: This advice is for a certain type of people of a certain mindset. My kind of friends I like to keep are people who are able to see beyond all these types of small matters. It's stupid and irrelevant being envious of a "friend" earning 1million Naira a month when both of you are aware other people are earning 3 million in the same profession and level. Actually, the closer my friends are to me, the less material things we share. But what I know is we'll always emphasize each other's positives when interacting with a third-party, whether informally or professionally. They type of friends you make is a reflection of the way you think. A friend is no good if you have to be on guard 24/7 with them. 5 Likes |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by FinidiGeorge: 8:44pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
SyrusdeHansome:Chai... Very cold response 4 Likes |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by Nobody: 8:46pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
When they borrow money and never pay back. |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by MayowaTallguy: 8:48pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
DarkJeddi:Oponu |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by Lovemeharder(f): 8:48pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
I don't even have anything called friend. |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by CaptainFM1: 8:48pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
[quote author=yungz post=127314489][/quote] His case doesn't necessarily mean he hate you. It sounds like someone feeling insecure and having inferiority complex. Some people are just like that. |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by dheilaw1(m): 8:50pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
When he started running after every lady he saw with me, to the extent that he was bad mounting me everywhere. Olamide Latin o nii ku're. |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by Magnoliaa(f): 8:51pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: I'm glad you're in a space where they do not have access to anymore. ❤ 1 Like |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by BrazilianOG(m): 8:56pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
slaawomirr:Fake ass pu..y nigga Fake slawormirr |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by yewit37486: 9:14pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
Omoawoke2: That's contradictory though. |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by EteBabaagba222(m): 9:17pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
I get this friend that we were so close but her wife got job in Abuja and he move with the family leaving us behind, I always called him and d friendship the go well. Their was a bank robbery in our community that about 8 pple were killed both civilian n police. After like 4 days I called him and asked if He heard what happened and he said he heard about it. I just end the call and Since then He never call back. Another is a friend we did NYSC together and we become so called family. Fast forward, I had an accident and I called him and he shouted, after 1 week I didnt see his call, I sent a msg that you cant ask of me and he didnt reply till now. Those two really pained me bc I learn in a hard ways. 5 Likes |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by Omoawoke2(m): 9:18pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
yewit37486: Yeah, but the message was clear. There’s a way I maintain relationships with such people, I will be on taking terms with you, even hangout, gist with you, but you will never know what’s going on in my life. The best you can know is what I want you to know. Lol, that’s how to keep them close enough but keep the necessary distance 1 Like |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by thecommunist(m): 9:18pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
anybody that thinks they have friends that truly love them is in dream land and would be rudely awoken one day. in my ND 2 in Yabatech, I had a frenemy who had been jealous of me all this while because I was the class rep and had influence with the lecturers and the cult boys. There was an unwritten and unspoken agreement between different cult boy s to leave me neutral because I was useful to all of them in terms of assignments and runs to pass. I also had influence with the various security groups like the Man -O-war and Cadets on campus., unknown to me, all these things made my friend jealous. back then(2001) the GSM phone was still a big deal and many of us did not have it, so one of our roommate brought his uncles GSM to school I foolishly said openly that I wish I had a GSM phone. lo and behold , by evening time, the phone got missing and guess who the suspect was: me! my so called friend knew before me that people were accusing me of stealing the phone and we when we met, he did not tell me. i later got to know that he told them that he knew I was the thief and said many other nasty thing about me. so he (this same evil friend)lured me up to the room where some other guys laid an ambush for me. as I enter the room, they jumped me and held me down and told me that I stole the phone. I was so mad that I released myself from theirs grip and started my own madness. Big fight started and I went for a broken bottle, I was ready to kill someone that day, Na God say I no go be murderer. Although they were like 6 guys, they were cautious because they know the kind of influence I had with the cult guys, the lecturer and the Man O war guys otherwise, they for wound me that day. Anyways, we all decided to take the matter to the Man -O -War guys in charge of security. when we got there, the Man O War guys were just laffing and telling them that they should cool down that they can vouch for me that I did not steal that phone. omo me sef was surprised but I was happy they could vouch for me. The Man -O -War guys now said that they will follow us to go and search everybody's luggage. which they did lo and behold, the phone was never missing. they found it in the owners bag, omo, see begging that day everybody was just begging me.it was then that the owner of the phone said that he was led to believe that I stole the phone because of all the nasty thing the so call friend was saying when they told him about the phone. Na that day I know say, no true friend for this life. if you think I value you as a friend, I am just making you believe so because we all need some kind of friendship and I know deep down that no one can be trusted. 17 Likes |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by EMILO2STAY(m): 9:26pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
Chingyyy878:after about 15 years, though he is dead now. |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by yewit37486: 9:29pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
Omoawoke2: I get you now. But why not just cut them off completely. What's the benefit in you still hanging out with such folks? |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by glosplendid(f): 9:32pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
When my husband died 1 Like |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by macho44(m): 9:36pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
Chingyyy878:He's more than FINISHED. Odi very EMPTY😁 |
Re: When Did You Realize Your Friend Secretly Hated You by liamjakes247: 10:20pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
A friend from secondary school I help to get a job same place I worked and I left after for admission. Came back during holiday to find out he left that place of work. Had to see him so I could go with him to his and we arranged to go 7am. Just for me to call him 6:45am to know how far and was surprised to hear him say I’m not serious, that I should look at the time I’m calling him, that he’s long gone. I tried to reach him next day, he avoided my calls. Now he’s been the one begging me for data every now and then. I promised myself, that’s the highest I would do if someone misbehaved and get back to their senses, I can only give you data, cos at least data is life and my lowest budget. 3 Likes |
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