JASONjnr:
Even tho I don't support family rivalries.... I believe, it's very possible for a woman to want to cut off her husband from his family members because she feels insecure when they come around.

With the tradition we practice, taking your child's wealth from his wife and children is why women grew with the mentality of security her future.

But as a man, if my wife hates my family members, na to follow hate her family members too. You don't want my mother around, then yours won't come around.

almarthins:


I no dey gree for any woman wey try that with me. Me I dey even tell dem ahead, as u dey marry u dey me, u dey marry my family join. If u no fit make u come dey go. I know say one mama wey hard but I manage her for years why can't you.

JASONjnr:


This isn't just enough, most ladies will agree to whatever terms you give them before marriage. But will try to persuade you to come to side her views against your family members.

It's always a gradual process before you know it, you and your mama go begin shout at each other.

VinnyBaba:


DEFINITELY.

Most African wives do not like their Husband's siblings and his mother, too.

Particularly When the Man is Rich.

They see his family members as threats.

JASONjnr:
Even tho I don't support family rivalries.... I believe, it's very possible for a woman to want to cut off her husband from his family members because she feels insecure when they come around.

With the tradition we practice, taking your child's wealth from his wife and children is why women grew with the mentality of security her future.

Very simple!

But as a man, if my wife hates my family members, na to follow hate her family members too. You don't want my mother around, then yours won't come around.

Juliearth:
Can a family love their son and not extend same to the wife?

MisterBanny:


Women are always the initiators of this family issues

Klass99:


To give you backhand slap through my phone dey sweet me ehn.......too bad I can't do it. Let me try and break it down for you as best as I can. Women have an innate gift called female intuition, we can sense and see things from miles away that men are usually unable to sense or see.

We can often see the selfish and entitled mentality of your siblings/relatives, where most only know how to take and receive, never giving back anything in return. They are essentially parasitic in nature like that insect that gums itself to a dog's skin, sucking the blood out of it, then it falls off when it is full.

Once a man is rich or doing well his relatives buzz around him like bees to honey, they don't want to work or make a success of their own lives, in their shallow minds, their brother has money na so he should help them. That is when they carry blood is thicker than water on their heads like die! Let that same man fall critically ill, you will see all those siblings/relatives disappear into thin air, abandoning him to his wife and kids alone, to be taken care of. If the man is lucky they may visit him once or twice in the hospital.

The question I always ask is this - are the hands of your relatives broken or are their brains malfunctioning that they cannot strive to make something of their own lives? Do they have to gum body to the one successful relative in the family for their existence and survival? There is nothing wrong with helping out your relatives, but when you carry their matter on your head like gala, you repeatedly let them take advantage of you or disrespect your wife and your own family of wife and kids suffer, there is everything wrong with you and your relatives.

Women tend to see these things and when we try to shield you as wives from the parasitic pack of wolves you call family, you claim we hate your relatives and we are the ones causing division amongst you. No sir, it is not us but rather your selfish relatives who want to constantly use you as a meal ticket in this life, not caring if you have a new family of your own to take care of.

And when you die they all disappear not caring if you have kids who may need help in your perpetual absence due to death. They don't remember that blood is thicker than water, and they ought to help your children oooo. Why is this even a topic of discussion in 2024? Most of you men grew up in households like the one I described, where you saw your father's relatives disrespect him and your mothers, they took advantage and often behaved any how in your father's house. But somehow you still manage to spin it around as being the woman's fault.

Klass99:


Lol 🤣. Yes and no.
Yes, because you dey yarn Bauchi dust.
No, because me mah na joke I dey joke.

MisterBanny:


Women are always the initiators of this family issues

Klass99:


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