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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Fiscus105(m): 4:45pm On Mar 06

Husband -parent-siblings-pastor/imam-friends.

Meanwhile, i think the woman just want to cause problem where thr is none in this scenario..

I think, she is calling the people she wants to visit, while want to visit at all cost, even to the level that so many people have been given her toxic advise, perhaps she has ulterior motive.

Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Slimm01: 4:45pm On Mar 06

Jeon:
Why will a normal man deny a woman to go see her family?.
Some Women dy marry shéha !.

Nah woman of before go obey, even if there's no valid reason for denying her to see her blood family. But now try it on most women.

Abeg leave talk joor. It depends on the kind of man she married. If she is married to a rich, controlling man whom she is dependent on his wealth, she must obey the husband. Damn her family or friends. Money stops nonsense.

Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Bayajjidda: 4:45pm On Mar 06

We4all:
Parents. Her husband and pastor are not her blood.

Then she should have married her blood, since some of una no get sense.

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by whizzler: 4:45pm On Mar 06

blackpanthar:

EVERYONE ON THAT LIST HANDED HER OVER TO THE HUSBAND ON THE WEDDING DAY.......... so it is over. Her choices should be based on HERSELF and HER HUSBAND. Simple.

Visions can always be cancelled.

Wisdom bath u 😂😂😂

Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by FFIA: 4:46pm On Mar 06

SaLongs1:
Will you win the Nobel Price for Peace by listening to advice from Osama bin Laden, Al Bagdadi, Abubakar Shekau, Al Barnawi and co. ?

Jeon will concur to this. cool

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by iramure(m): 4:47pm On Mar 06

Remove pastor from the list please. Which rubbish vision are they seeing?

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by papyjaypaul: 4:47pm On Mar 06

Zyxsc:
We don't even have enough information to dish out an advice. We don't know the reason her husband ask her not to go

best response. Op wants mature advice with little information. Mature people don't advise on twitter short posts

Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by ugbanante: 4:47pm On Mar 06

This ur story feminist hence biase; u want to portray this husband as a wicked man else how can u list all the characters and qualify them in the story except the husband?
U gave reason y the wife wants to see her 'farmily' but never mentioned the reason for objection by the man.
U formulate stories like this just to discredit a person and glorify another.
Please don't mislead the public next time!

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by spencekat(m): 4:48pm On Mar 06

Femmyfamous4u:

In this order:
Her husband
Her parents
Her pastor
Her best friend
Her siblings

In this order:
Her husband
Her parents
Her siblings
Her best friend
Her pastor.

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by brainhgeek(m): 4:48pm On Mar 06

He/She should honor his/her parents and, obey and serve his/her spouse. As long as their advices are constructive, you should listen to both of them. Decisions are ultimately yours to take as long as your sanity has not gone on vacation.
.....every other person on that list should go get their own lives and nurture their own problems!

Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Puss360(f): 4:48pm On Mar 06

Lol... She is a woman not a property...
Going to visit her siblings doesn't need "Approval" from her husband... She only needs to let him be aware .. If the husband doesn't want her to go "That period", then he needs to come up with very valid reasons...
But he can't ban her from seeing her family...

The opinion of rest on that list is irrelevant

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Ladoja19: 4:49pm On Mar 06

Can't you see he is short of words when he got to Husband turn
Coz he knows husband is not just A man but Crown
I'm hungry oo
Thunder fire Tinubu's

blackpanthar:

EVERYONE ON THAT LIST HANDED HER OVER TO THE HUSBAND ON THE WEDDING DAY.......... so it is over. Her choices should be based on HERSELF and HER HUSBAND. Simple.

Visions can always be cancelled.

Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by AmakaTips2: 4:49pm On Mar 06

What is pastor doing there?
Nawao

Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by RevenuesBoost(f): 4:50pm On Mar 06

stevestifler:
A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.

As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?

1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with
2. Her parents that gave birth to her
3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually
4. Her husband
5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood

Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders.

This illustration is based on marriage grounds and some are saying she should disobey her husband because she doesn't need permission from anyone.

Imagine a Father telling his daughter not to go see her best friend, should she disobey?

Also imagine an elder brother telling his younger sis not to go visit a close friend, should she disobey?

You dare not step out of the house without informing my parents. This is for security reasons, why should it be different with husbands when he is the only person you are living with at that moment?

Many marry for different reasons, some see their husbands as strangers, others regard them as very close friends.
If you are married to a man that is more than a friend to you, you will certainly need his permission for everything because you see him as your guardian in the absence of your parents.

If he says no, don't drag it with him, rather make him see reasons you have to travel, if he insists, then relax.

It's his turn to be with you, your siblings have been with you from childhood, they should miss you more 😂. You'll eventually see them but that time is not the right time, your siblings will understand.

Las las, if you disobey your husband and marriage scatter, na them go still talk.
Just give your husband all the respect he needs and obey him, that's all.

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by YourGFsnatcher: 4:50pm On Mar 06

stevestifler:
A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.

As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?

1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with
2. Her parents that gave birth to her
3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually
4. Her husband
5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood

Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders.

Putting pastors there is an insult to the other people you mentioned. Who gave pastor authority to talk when her husband and parent are on the list. You are suggesting people that actually should have something on this matter and pastor is on the list? As what?

Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by YourGFsnatcher: 4:51pm On Mar 06

oz4real83:
Questions like this came up immediately the world became a crazy place . The answer to this question was very obvious when the world was still a normal place, it was visible to the blind and audible to the deaf . A "wife" should obey the person that "paid her bride price" , if the pastor paid it, then she can obey her pastor , that is why women should always be careful whom they get married to, if you marry nonsense, you must be willing to obey nonsense instructions

I was irritated when I saw pastor On the list. Is this how dumb people are?

Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by harwokunle1236(m): 4:52pm On Mar 06

once u are married u must obey your husband,u can change his mind by prayer etc.

Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by CaptainFM1: 4:52pm On Mar 06

The No.4 should posses all the attributes and character of all the others. That's how it should be even before marriage.

The husband should be the only person if they both found themselves right before they got married, but unfortunately marriage is now transactional these days.

Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by YourGFsnatcher: 4:52pm On Mar 06

slaawomirr:
Damnnn niggar
Isoright

Just remove that pastors that sees blah blah shit

Aswae... very disgusting shii

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by SIXFEETUNDER: 4:53pm On Mar 06

Her husband

Obey and submit to your husband after all he married her and she's no longer under her father any more

Only a feminazi will go against the words of her hubby

A submissive and feminine woman will obey her husband and tell her siblings to come visit her instead only if the husband agrees

Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by khattab02: 4:53pm On Mar 06

But there shouldn't be any reason why a husband will not allow his wife to go see her parents.

Why punish her for anyone's mistakes or fight u had with them.

Marriage is an institution, cohabitating, understanding and self respect and values.

Don't be over possessive men!

U didn't buy her!

Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by YourGFsnatcher: 4:53pm On Mar 06

oglalasioux:
Please remove number 3. Those scammers don't have any say in this matter. Meanwhile, an over insecure husband is a problem. Men should learn to have a free mind.

Those scammers. How can someone even put them on the list...s.m.h

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Omoawoke: 4:55pm On Mar 06

stevestifler:
A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.

As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?

1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with
2. Her parents that gave birth to her
3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually
4. Her husband
5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood

Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders.

Any woman that listen to her pastor over her husband deserves to be thrown out of marriage

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by NeoWanZaeed(m): 4:55pm On Mar 06

stevestifler:
A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.

As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?

1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with
2. Her parents that gave birth to her
3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually
4. Her husband
5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood

Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders.

Your husband is your god.

None of those giving advice will house you if kasala bust between you and your husband.

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Omoawoke: 4:56pm On Mar 06

SIXFEETUNDER:
Her husband

Obey and submit to your husband after all he married her and she's no longer under her father any more

Only a feminazi will go against the words of her hubby

A submissive and feminine woman will obey her husband and tell her siblings to come visit her instead only if the husband agrees

This your picture is deep

Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Monaboo(m): 4:58pm On Mar 06

MVLOX:

The same God who calls her the husband her head or the same God who asked her to respect and follow the head ship of the husband?

Yes.

The same GOD.

She should listen to GOD

Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by brownbib(m): 4:58pm On Mar 06

Anyone you listen to, you end up in the person's house!

Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by RadiantGlow: 4:59pm On Mar 06

"The husband is the head of the wife just as Christ is the head of the church." Submit yourself to Him to avoid hell fire and damnation.

"The wicked SHALL BE TURNED TO HELL and all the nations that forget God."

Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by NJV: 4:59pm On Mar 06

blackpanthar:

EVERYONE ON THAT LIST HANDED HER OVER TO THE HUSBAND ON THE WEDDING DAY.......... so it is over. Her choices should be based on HERSELF and HER HUSBAND. Simple.

Visions can always be cancelled.

You are a wise man. You've said it all.

Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by GodHimself: 4:59pm On Mar 06

She is a sovereign being and can make her own decisions.

She will be the only one to bear the direct consequences no matter who she listens to.

stevestifler:
A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.

As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?

1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with
2. Her parents that gave birth to her
3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually
4. Her husband
5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood

Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders.

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Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by Advancedman(m): 5:00pm On Mar 06

As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?

4. Her husband
5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood

2. Her parents that gave birth to her

1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with

3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually

Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by hamzeiy: 5:00pm On Mar 06

Your options are biased....
It should be her husband whom she would spend the rest of her life with through whom she became a mother and a respected member of the society

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