when parents lose control of the family not only as a result of poor planning but also as a result of dispute, arguments, pride, guilt, blame shift, lack of foresight, lack of tolerance and share inability to shift ground for the other;

Did you say the children are on the receiving end? lets take a look. What happens to the children? poor or no education, low self esteem, hardship, Mal-nourishment, peer pressure, prostitution, robbery, slavery etc.

what about the society? such children who engage in robbery will end up robbing and killing someone else who has laid his/her own bed well and had spent all he/she had training his/her own children for greater tomorrow.

Prostitution? they end up spreading HIV/AIDS. So when parents go at logger head, we all we suffer it. There is no perfect partner or couple, we should make things work for each other once we've said "I DO" or found ourselves in the situation. Your errors has a great impact on the society and world at large.

When we see couples doing it wrong, let lend a hand if we can, otherwise, their failures our woes and that's where we lost it.