Odunnu:

Personally, I  always blame my fellow sisters when I hear such stories. People address you by the way you dress, your carriage, your spoken words and actions. I blame sisters most times I hear a lecturer is harrassing them.
Sorry, just me.

Odunnu:

Personally, I  always blame my fellow sisters when I hear such stories. People address you by the way you dress, your carriage, your spoken words and actions. I blame sisters most times I hear a lecturer is harrassing them.
Sorry, just me.
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Henry46 link=topic=822751.msg9744612#msg9744612 date=1323642527:

i'm really sorry 4 your gal, but i think in one way or d other, she must ve brought this upon herself just as ODUNNU ve said.
Been failed twice by a lecturer in need of a trade by batta like aggrement no b beans o! i think what she needs nw is serious prayers, nd also for her to go back nd look inward to knw where she must ve drawn d attention of d predator(lecturer), so as to correct d wrongs
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But to me, i feel it's only by d grace of God For a gal 2 escape s.ex morngering lecturers without occuping a space in his bed

These really are just plain wrong to say. Are you attempting to justify sexual harassment. The girl is confronted with such problem and all you guys could think of is that she must have brought it upon herself!? Come on! I'd expect everyone to pack it all up and dump it on the lecturer's head. Has a person no more right to choose what to wear, or how to to speak or carry themselves? Smh! I mourn the complete loss of independent thinking engendered by a country's insistence on conformity!