Good day Nairalanders,

This is not a topic people discuss everyday. What is the remedy to quick expulsion of seminal fluid from the urethra of the joystick during heavenly feeling? A friend is in trouble and has been given ultimatum to get himself sorted (treated because of 1 minute expulsion and lack of enthusiasm to go for second round) or the relationship will be terminated. He has had this problem all along (2 to 3 years now) and he kept it to himself until he found a girl he wants to get married to. She has point out they cannot carry-on (Sexually) like that – that he has to get a solution.

Good people of Nairaland – any genuine advice will be much appreciated. The guy in question is a friend and trust I will not disclose his identity.

Thank you for your understanding and I look forward to your comments.

A doctor should probably be the first stop. There are doctors who specialize in sexual health. Condoms also decrease the sensation and can help with lasting. If it's not a medical condition then it's a mental condition. The goal is to stay focused on something other than how it feels until it's your turn.

Until he figures it out, he needs to start using oral and digital options to keep her happy (yes, I said it). Enough pre-intimacy can help level the playing field.

Amaka G29: I will discuss your options with him, thank you very much.