Hi everyone i need some advice, i have a bf and we've been together for almost 3 years and dont get me wrong i do love him and we are living together like a married couple but without a paper but we always argue and fight for some simple things, my bf is not very emotional and he doesnt know how to show his affection but i do know that he love me too, Then one day i met this guy who turned my world around. He's very very affectionate and caring and sweet and he thinks he love me and i think i love him too, I tried to broke up with my long time bf to be with this guy but the problem is this new guy parents doesnt approved with us so he havent introduce me to them and plus i feel like i dont wanna really leave my old bf, I dont know what should i do,,, Should i stay with my man or should i pick the new guy? Me and my bf doesnt have any common interest besides watching movie and this new guy a have alot of common with but my long time bf's family love me so much , Im really confused now, Please need some advice,

Stick 2 ya man cuz d oda 1 cn b a wolf in sheep garmnt

I want u 2 flashback to when u first met ur old bf hw was it? Wasnt it romantic? Does are d questions i want u 2 ask ur self b4 u make ur decision

So now you will leave the old guy and lve him heart broken and you will go and enjoy common interest with your new guy shey? and you have been with the old guy for 3yrs,


you are not only wicked you are also senseless,

and i dn't ve any good advice for you go on wit ya life,

Shemael04:

Hi everyone i need some advice, i have a bf and we've been together for almost 3 years and dont get me wrong i do love him and we are living together like a married couple but without a paper but we always argue and fight for some simple things, my bf is not very emotional and he doesnt know how to show his affection but i do know that he love me too, Then one day i met this guy who turned my world around. He's very very affectionate and caring and sweet and he thinks he love me and i think i love him too, I tried to broke up with my long time bf to be with this guy but the problem is this new guy parents doesnt approved with us so he havent introduce me to them and plus i feel like i dont wanna really leave my old bf, I dont know what should i do,,, Should i stay with my man or should i pick the new guy? Me and my bf doesnt have any common interest besides watching movie and this new guy a have alot of common with but my long time bf's family love me so much , Im really confused now, Please need some advice,

One of them . . Nonsense!!

so all these while you stuck with your bf,you didnt know there was no common interest?
now when another bobo don show,you now realise it??
na wa o.
do as you please sha.i only hope you dont regret your decision in the end.

U bearly no d new guy, whtz d point?, am tryin so hard nt 2 judge u bt u r old enuff(i guess u r abv 18 to b livin wt ur bf) 2 make d right decision.pull urself out of ths mess b4 its 2 late.

hmmmmm, my dear, d devil u knw is a thousand times better dan d angel u don't. Have u heard dat b4? If fighting wit ur guy is ur prblm, dn knw now dat fights and arguments are normal in evry r/ship. If ur prblm is him nt showin affection, den start showing him affection. Look 4 ways to rekindle d fire if u sincerly love him,
No mata hw lng it wil take, u wil finaly hv to choose. Mayb u shld go tru ds article, gues it was specialy made 4 u. http://success-foryourlove..com

You and your bf still love each other. You only want to leave him simply because of the excitement of meeting someone new. If you think you would be happier with the new guy and want to leave your bf for him, that is up to you. Just make sure you won't regret it. Once you're with the new dude, it's likely you would soon find things to pick on as well.


Will you ever be satisfied?

@Poster:
There is something suspicious about your username - I mean gender wise, are you male of female or both

Poster, you better act fast if you want to make a decision so you dont come here crying like some people after spending 3 + x years in the relationship. So if you want to jabo him for this new guy do it NOW and not later when it will become more difficult

However also bear in mind that 3years is also a good amount of time invested in a relationship enough for you to know that your bf is not the affectionate type but still genuinely loves you (according to your post). This I think is important.
This new guy that you have suddenly developed feeelings for is just momentary. People don't always show you their bad sides first. It could take a while and when you do get to see their bad sides, a few months years down the line, you could either be faced with this same dilenma when another man happens to comes your way or regrets why you left your initial bf in the first place

the choice is yours,

What a paradox!! Variety is the spice of life yet the devil you know is better than the angel you dont

Good luck

@op better the devil you know than the devil you don't,  If you have a problem with your current bf then SIMPLY EXPLAIN it to him rather than dumping him,  Easy as that

3 freaking years and u realize that u don't share common interest besides movies? Erm, Darling, u are the dumbest person on earth for even posting this topic. just wanna hurt the poor guy cos a new dude came into your life, So what happens when you meet another guy better than the new guy? you leave that too?, you just a Greedy and Selfish person. want to eat your cake and have it,

Hope you were not writing love letter to this your guy? If yes, the guy tried o

I would have commented but I believe strongly that u've opened ur yash 2 the second guy. That being the case I withhold my comment and say Godspeed,

Omggg y we advising dis wayward gal , God punish d person wey swear for you.Gal u are so wicked, stewpid and I don't no wot else 2 u call u dis evil tin, WTH is wrong wiv dis foolss on nl u stayed wiv ur boyfriend for 3yrs and u want to dump him for someone who just arrived .I hope u no d rule of Karma jus pray u don't get drycleaned by every guy in d block ,if dis is how u wud liv 1 wen a new 1 arrives pathetic seahorse mstewwww

You are about to dump your bf because of some stranger that is selling you BS so he can get into your pants.

When this new guy uses you and dumps you, you will begin to cry that 'men are heartless'.

There we go.

Idowuogbo pls take it easy with her.

^looool no mind me my groundnut burn because I dey read d nonsense post

Idowuogbo fire her the more.

OP please leave your old guy and enjoy yourself. These girls sre only jealous because they have only one boyfriend some dont even have sef. Abeg chop the life of your head. Your story sounds very similar, are you sure you dont already have a child for your first bf? Your first bf does not deserve a fine girl like you that all of Lagos is pursuing, please leave him now and go on with the new guy. Ashewo radarada.

Erm you will never meet the new guy's parents because he knows that you aren't worth the trouble. You're only good enough to straff and take to eateries and send sms to. My sister you don jam player but dont feel bad enjoy it while it lasts. Meanwhile leave your first bf you dont deserve him, ok?

Op you are not torn btw two guys. You are the one tearing yourself apart. Infact, I'm thinking well now. At what point did you realize all these faults of your bf? Were you actually enduring the relationship for 3yrs? You want to leave the guy you know loves you for the guy you think loves you. Ok o, all the best.

I don't understand. Can't one leave 3yr + relationship if you are uncomfortable with it? There are some long time relationship that are not worth it! My only stress with the OP is that she cant see see his new bf. The guy is definitely a stark liar. Very sure he lied about his parents not approving of her. If you want to leave your old boyfriend, it shouldn't be for this one o. Again, stop cheating on your old bf. it isnt cool to sleep away under his roof!

^Darling no doubts u can up and go if a 3yr relationship aint working, but its not d case in dis situation if u understood d jargons she posted,her reason for dumping a guy dat has donated a part of him to her is bcus a new MD of wording babes association now arrives she feels her boyfriend is now old soup due for renewal.Come on weres her dignity would u wrong guys here calling her a notorious Allen avenue prostistuteee,sometimes wen we wish ourselves good tins in life we must ensure wiv also bin good to others so such prayers will manifest.EOD

Mayflowa, they've been living under thesame roof for the past 3yrs and she didn't discover the flaws until when she met this new guy. I can bet it, she will still leave this new guy if she sees another person.

Shemael04:
should i pick the new guy?

Shemael04:
but the problem is this new guy parents doesnt approved with us

Wetin dis one dey talk sef?. . . U dey ask question wey u don talk d ansa? WTF!

Yield:

You only want to leave him simply because of the excitement of meeting someone new.

I dey tel u!

u r alrdy leaving with him without legalizing the union. girl where is ur self worth? u myt even lose at both sides.if u decide to go 4 d new guy, he cld dump u after sometime.

and if u stay wit ur boyfriend, he cld send u out at anytime n marry someone else.

seriously u need to get ur acts together and think about ur future.

Sorry, All i have to say