When discussing about the worst things that can ever happen in a marriage relationship, many people point a finger at cheating. Cheating certainly shakes at the very root of marriage, as it goes to the heights of betrayal.

If you have been caught in the act, your marriage will hang in the balance, and it can prove very challenging to restore your relationship. While your infidelity may be the worst thing that your relationship has ever experienced, it does not necessarily have to bring it to an end. However, if you want to save your marriage, you will have to be very committed and work tirelessly hard.

Do not assume that infidelity can never happen in your relationship. You should therefore be prepared for any eventuality so that you are not caught off balance.

If you have been caught in the act, as it were, how can you save your marriage?

Be genuinely remorseful

You will only make matters worse if you give the impression that your infidelity does not mean much. Even if it feels that way, the case will be very different as far as your spouse is concerned. Make a sincere apology and admit that what you did was indeed very serious. You should not expect to save your relationship if you fail to show that you are sorry for your cheating.

Pay the necessary penance

Whether you subscribe to any religious belief or not, you will need to go through some kind of suffering and walk the extra mile. Restoring the confidence of your partner will not be easy, and you need to do whatever is necessary to bring back the lost trust. Never give any impression of complaint in the process.

Have patience

Infidelity is a serious matter, and the difference between you will go very deep. You should therefore not expect to go over it quickly. You will need to be very patient with your spouse who finds it difficult to come to terms with your betrayal. Avoid any attempt at pushing your partner in any way, whether you want to be trusted or you want sex. Do not jeopardize your relationship further by your lack of patience. Try to put yourself in the place of your spouse.

Be truthful

When your spouse has caught you cheating, you must be prepared to ask some questions at some point. Do not try to cover things up, but be as honest as you can without being brutal either. Your infidelity will have eroded your partner’s trust, and lying will just make things worse. Of course, some of the answers may be rather painful, but it is better to be honest than strain your relationship further.

Just say "It wasn't me" like shaggy

I can't show remorse for something I CONSCIOUSLY AGREED TO ENJOY. . . .
No, I will not save the marriage.
The sneaking around is the FUN part!
Time to move da hell on!