freecocoa:

I don forget say na you be God na wey dey see and read people mind,na you sabi. hold your shepe btw,wooorrreevvva. mscheeew.

Did you need to reply me in such manner ,I jus stated wot I noticed and you here replying me aggressively abi na wa oo,its all good I have closed the door ENJOY NO TIME!!!.

If the girl tells the dad she has HIV, the issue would stop

Idowuogbo
Yes I needed to reply you in such manner cos I'm pissed,as you had nothing to say wetin you dey tell me say "its less important" for? Are you in my mind ? Why would you say I'm not seeking for advice and all that sly comment of the "invisible woman" what was that for?is anybody visible in all of the stories you've read on NL? You came and totally derogated

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abi castigated my thread,wetin you expect me to do? Abegi I've told you before say no be today I don dey see aboki with bow so me sef know wetin dey. Btw yes NO TIME COS THE TIME WEY TIME DEY NA THAT TIME,NOW NO TIME TO EVEN CHECK TIME so no dey give me yanyanpu talk.

dayokanu:

If the girl tells the dad she has HIV, the issue would stop

Oh is that what you meant? I didn't see that one coming,okay that's an option but don't you think he'll suggest going to the hospital? The reason for her dilemma is that she's scared of the secret coming out.

If she tells him she notices some blackish slimy discharge from her vagina and a rash outbreak for some days

The man would be scared

No one wants to die

life_style:

Are you a Male ?

Ask my Joystick. . .

freecocoa:

Idowuogbo
Yes I needed to reply you in such manner cos I'm pissed,as you had nothing to say wetin you dey tell me say "its less important" for? Are you in my mind ? Why would you say I'm not seeking for advice and all that sly comment of the "invisible woman" what was that for?is anybody visible in all of the stories you've read on NL? You came and totally derogated

freecocoa:

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abi castigated my thread,wetin you expect me to do? Abegi I've told you before say no be today I don dey see aboki with bow so me sef know wetin dey. Btw yes NO TIME COS THE TIME WEY TIME DEY NA THAT TIME,NOW NO TIME TO EVEN CHECK TIME so no dey give me yanyanpu talk.

hear yourself SMH!,u are pissed hmmm is dis coming from someone dat claims she doesn't take NL serious .Anyways I have hrd ur msteeeew and woevvvvva let's not derail ur thread,my own case na pardon STRESS NOT NO TIME!!!!!.Pretend it was my shadow,again ENJOY!!!.

Dk I wish you came a woman walahi

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Na today? This one is serious and its not NL for me. Mscheeew.

Idowuogbo:

Dk I wish you came a woman walahi

Kilode?

^Kintu,Kinpo,Kilimanjaroo----.Can't I wish again lol

^^I have heard you madam NO TiME!

na me you dey follow talk

Enu e ma ya de eti ninu odun yi.

You better apologize before I make my own wish. hint below

[size=4pt]Idowuogbo must marry Mr Cork this year[/size]

^Lool Egbon mi ooooo

Haaaa Oshaaaaaa

Mr Ajiri fine boi abeg no do as you b,Mr Cork keee apayan ni yin ooo

The girl in question needs to tell someone. Maybe her Pastor or something. . .The 'dad' is taking advantage of her vulnerability!

Nobody is taking advantage of anybody's vulnerability!
Freecocoa's sister is actually enjoying everything until the pregnancy that would make the world wonder and talk.
She is an adult, she should know what to do. Me, I dont subscribe for abortion.

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Na giya ma ki wei the girl in question sister na ne?where did you get that one from? Hankali fah.

Anyways thanks for your contribution.

Poster, every suggestion you shot down, so what advise are you looking for?

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Hah! Where did that one happen please?are you sure you are talking about this thread?

Odunnu:

Nobody is taking advantage of anybody's vulnerability!
Freecocoa's sister is actually enjoying everything until the pregnancy that would make the world wonder and talk.
She is an adult, she should know what to do. Me, I dont subscribe for abortion.

lol
anyways don't know why but I find it rather annoying when I read such stories FGS she is over 16 phewwwwwwwwwwwww
Freecocoa why can't you advice her alone? if someone else posted this you would have given your own piece of advice so what other one do you need?

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You smoke? Which kind jonzing question be that one? don't you think it better she read what you had to say?if I were to advice her alone,would I be able to say all the different things said here alone? Use ya head o.

oh very sad story, u see this is the kind of person those men of God in nigeria would have help,my dear belive me go to prophet tb joshua church ur life will not remain this same

“Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.” - Hebrews 13:4

"Mortify therefore your members which are upon the earth; fornication, uncleanness, inordinate affection, evil concupiscence, and covetousness, which is idolatry: For which things' sake the wrath of God cometh on the children of disobedience:"- Col 3:5-6

@charcon, you're kidding right?

HISchild:

“Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.” - Hebrews 13:4

"Mortify therefore your members which are upon the earth; fornication, uncleanness, inordinate affection, evil concupiscence, and covetousness, which is idolatry: For which things' sake the wrath of God cometh on the children of disobedience:"- Col 3:5-6

@charcon, you're kidding right?

Why can't you leave an advice after quoting the bible? I'm sure the girl knows what she did is a sin.

^^^ I humbly quote the holy word of GOD, (seldom using my own words) "For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any twoedged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart." - Heb 4:12 and “All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: That the man of God may be perfect, thoroughly furnished unto all good works.” -2 Timothy 3:16-17

I didn't respond to the op in judgment, GOD forbid (for all have sinned and have come short of the glory of GOD", but rather in love, humility and in truth.

What happened to d lady in question storing condoms for use once she notices d dad is careless. That was assuming she had accepted it as a cross she has to bear for education.

@ OP I can claerly understand your situation, however, its high time you put an end to this. In a situation like this, you have to be bold. You come out straight and tell him this has to stop right now. Yell at him if you want to because as far as I'm concerned he has lost his respect the moment he decided to sleep with you. Tell him that you have decided that if he insist on continuing this you are not only going to tell your biological dad you are also going to tell his wife. That you can no longer betray his wife because as far as you are concerned this amounts to betrayal. Say it like you mean it. Tell him you already have pictures of you and him in case he wants to deny it. Tell him that should he decide not to pay your fees again that you belive God will take care of you. ( Believe it that you will always have a way out) if after all these he still insisting then make good your threat by telling his wife first and then telling your old man. Give them the story as you have given us, even if it will hurt they would forgive you given the fact that you came forward to tell them.
As for the pregnancy...well I'm against abortion

Nelton: @ OP I can claerly understand your situation, however, its high time you put an end to this. In a situation like this, you have to be bold. You come out straight and tell him this has to stop right now. Yell at him if you want to because as far as I'm concerned he has lost his respect the moment he decided to sleep with you. Tell him that you have decided that if he insist on continuing this you are not only going to tell your biological dad you are also going to tell his wife. That you can no longer betray his wife because as far as you are concerned this amounts to betrayal. Say it like you mean it. Tell him you already have pictures of you and him in case he wants to deny it. Tell him that should he decide not to pay your fees again that you belive God will take care of you. ( Believe it that you will always have a way out) if after all these he still insisting then make good your threat by telling his wife first and then telling your old man. Give them the story as you have given us, even if it will hurt they would forgive you given the fact that you came forward to tell them.
As for the pregnancy...well I'm against abortion

Thanks a lot, and in addition to that, if he decides to stop sponsoring your education, relocate to a close friend's place so secret and expose the bas.tard. But make sure u have enough evidence. It's obvious u don't want another responsibilty to ur already difficult position, hence d need for a Care Home to look after the child, trust me, if he knows he has a child with you and still values his family, he'll take care of you both till you're stable. As for your mum, she'll eventually find out someday but that ain't d end of the world, she'll come to understand ur reason for not spilling the beans earlier. Most importantly girlfriend let nothing stop your education, dat seem to be all you have left and maybe some few genuine friendsm
NB: freecocoa u happen to be one of the best bloggers on NL and many ppl enjoy ur posts, plz control the tone of some of ur responses. God Bless you Nwa Nne'm

Nelton: @ OP I can claerly understand your situation, however, its high time you put an end to this. In a situation like this, you have to be bold. You come out straight and tell him this has to stop right now. Yell at him if you want to because as far as I'm concerned he has lost his respect the moment he decided to sleep with you. Tell him that you have decided that if he insist on continuing this you are not only going to tell your biological dad you are also going to tell his wife. That you can no longer betray his wife because as far as you are concerned this amounts to betrayal. Say it like you mean it. Tell him you already have pictures of you and him in case he wants to deny it. Tell him that should he decide not to pay your fees again that you belive God will take care of you. ( Believe it that you will always have a way out) if after all these he still insisting then make good your threat by telling his wife first and then telling your old man. Give them the story as you have given us, even if it will hurt they would forgive you given the fact that you came forward to tell them.
As for the pregnancy...well I'm against abortion

Thanks a lot, and in addition to that, if he decides to stop sponsoring your education, relocate to a close friend's place so secret and expose the bas.tard. But make sure u have enough evidence. It's obvious u don't want another responsibilty to ur already difficult position, hence d need for a Care Home to look after the child, trust me, if he knows he has a child with you and still values his family, he'll take care of you both till you're stable. As for your mum, she'll eventually find out someday but that ain't d end of the world, she'll come to understand ur reason for not spilling the beans earlier. Most importantly girlfriend let nothing stop your education, dat seem to be all you have left and maybe some few genuine friendsm
NB: freecocoa u happen to be one of the best bloggers on NL and many ppl enjoy ur posts, plz control the tone of some of ur responses. God Bless you Nwa Nne'm

^^Thanks for contributing but i hope you know i wrote in 1st person pronoun,it didn't happen to me,btw the issue has since been resolved.

Anyways thanks for the advice and as for toning down on some responses,I'll try my best to do that,although its quite hard with the way some people reason on here .