jay bee:

suffering in silence isn't necessarily synonymous to being walloped by the opposite sex.
They could be suffering from emotional abuse or whatever

moremi2008:

Emotional abuse? How?! Who born am?! Who born her father?! Her father no get house? As soon as I get tired of her foolishness, out she goes, back to the father who forgot to give her home-training! I'll only take her back after produces a signed and sealed certificate of completion!

Why would your wife be emotionally abusing you in your own house? You no get balls? Even if the house belongs to her, you no fit comot and leave her to continue abusing the empty house? Life is not that hard oh, my bros.

jay bee:

dude, are you married or ever been in love?
A friend of mine almost killed himself because he loved his then gf too damn much.
It happens and it's even more deadly when you don't know that's the case

mcnepow:

Moremi, u nor go undastand. I have seen a guy suddenly develop high fever simply because his babe was holding another guy a day after they split. I think say d guy go die sef, it was unbelievable.

MRbrownJAY:

@OP
that one na OBVIOUS cases of abuse, what about the emotional abuse of women forcing men to act a damn fool, simply because of coochie? or men all around the world doing things they dont want to do, simply because coochie is promised to them? what about men going into debts because they want to impress some women or better yet, men working from morning till night to provide for an ungrateful "sudden whale" (aka baby momma) at home. THATS THE REAL ABUSE, MAN!

moremi2008:

Which kin luv is dat one? Dat one nah mugu-express oh! Kill myself over a girl when dem plenty like water everywhere? Hahaha! Not me!

chaircover:

Some of the comments on this thread are the reason why abused men fail to talk about it and keep it to themselves for fear of being laughed at until one day they snap and do something silly.

No one should be abused; not men and not women. . . .

Fhemmmy:

No one force a man to do such  . . .  That was the choice of the man.

MRbrownJAY:

some women are CHAMPIONS in blackmailing men: how many times have we heard them say that they will not Be Intimate (or have sudden"headaches" when they are mad at their partner? how many times have you heard them use kids/divorce as leverage in what they desire? (aka if you dont do this or that i will take the kids and leave). whatever form of blackmail is abuse and sadly "some"women are masters of blackmail!

ronkebp:

You can never understand that type of ''love'' if you have never experienced it.

armyofone:

how can he ever? that bobo ni latest is a sharp shooter, na him computer be him lover.

what are his other ID self, i wan know.

armyofone:

how can he ever? that bobo ni latest is a sharp shooter, na him computer be him lover.

what are his other ID self, i wan know.

ronkebp:

lmao AND HE SABI WRITE THESIS, i DEY TIRE TO READ long talk, you will see him drafting out words, paragraph by paragraph.

obowunmi:

Most men who suffer abuse have low-esteem, low-self confidence issues, or mental retardation. It is also likely that they are impotent. The feeling of I have to stick with an abuser because she is the only one that can be with me.

Okontami:

Dear All, i am really suffering in silence. Am in Ghana, Nairaland ladies in Ghana please come and save me