SEEKING GOD'S CONFIRMATION BEFORE MARRIAGE.

It is easier for God to confirm if that man or woman in your life is your God ordained life partner when there is no mutual feeling or love as the case may be.The man may be deeply in love and the girl may not have fallen in love or the girl may be deeply in love and the man may not have fallen.Most times when there is no deep love,God speaks.This way you will know that it is God and not your mind or emotions speaking to you.I am not saying that God cannot confirm when you are already in love,He can.But just to be sure that it is not your mind telling you things,you may need to proove it.To proove this you must not be driven by your emotion,you must pause your emotion and use the word of God as your driving force for now.When you are praying for confirmation,remove any pre-conceived idea.Go to God with a plain mind.To think you may die unless you marry that man or woman is an emotional deceit.A broken relationship is better than a broken or unhappy or troubled marriage.Even the bible says that it is better to dwell on the house top than to live in a house with a brawling man or woman.Proverbs 25:24.If your marriage is troubled I speak peace into it right now in the name of Jesus Christ.If you are already in a relationship,whether it is smooth or rough you still need to confirm if you are making the right choice.Be blessed.BB-PIN is 21322745

nice piece

A broken relationship is better than a broken or unhappy or troubled marriage.

Soooooooooooooooo, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage huh?
Mu he he he he he he he
I taya for these Christians I swear.

Can someone please tell me the difference between a troubled, broken relationship and a troubled, broken marriage biko nu o?

Nor be emotions dey for both?

Lasinoh:

Soooooooooooooooo, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage huh?
Mu he he he he he he he
I taya for these Christians I swear.

Can someone please tell me the difference between [b]a troubled, broken relationship and a troubled, broken marriage [/b]biko nu o?

Nor be emotions dey for both?

so what happens to the children?

what happens to the wedding and annoucements?

what happens to Mrs. XXXX?

One time US presidential candidate
lost his campaign/votes just because he once divorce his wife.

if it's a broken relationship, you always have the choice of leaving. In marriage, that's not so easy to do.

Same difference. . . relationship=marriage. Even if you leave the relationship. . . .the scars follow you like the mark of Cain. . .just like a marriage.

Acidosis:

so what happens to the children?

what happens to the wedding and annoucements?

what happens to Mrs. XXXX?

One time US presidential candidate
lost his campaign/votes just because he once divorce his wife.

The same problems you would experience in a 'relationship' are the same problems you would experience in a marriage.
Please, stick to the topic.
You may need to focus more on what is going on inside subject's mind. . .not what the world thinks.
Children are also present in relationships just like marriages.

Lasinoh:

Soooooooooooooooo, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage huh?
Mu he he he he he he he
I taya for these Christians I swear.

Can someone please tell me the difference between a troubled, broken relationship and a troubled, broken marriage biko nu o?

Nor be emotions dey for both?

Cyber is trying to say a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage because you can just walk out of a broken relationship but cannot do same for a broken marriage because of factors like children involved, emotional attachment(wife and girl friend are very much different and I believe you'll understand better if you're married) and legal aspect like having to loose 50% of your properties etc so you try your best to make it work.
However, god have got nothing to do with marriage and you only have to use your natural conscience, reasoning and experience to know if someone is best for you.

Marriage is not something you just rush in and rush out, it is better not to marry, than to marry the wrong person. Your partner will determine how far you will go in life. There is no perfect marriage, we only have a growing one. Divorce is not pleasant, the scar will still follow you. So, the best thing to do is to seek for God's favour, before you enter into a life long relationship like marriage. When you want the favor of God, you need to reposition yourself interms of doing those things that attract God's favor. " for thou o Lord will bless the righteous with Favor will thou compass him as with a shield" Be nice to people. Be a lover of the things of God. Go out of your way to be a blessing to other. Pray for God's will. God bless you. God2man.

Abeg, divorce rate is 50% around the world. Very easy to walk out of.
Unless religions like Christianity and Islam make you slaves to the institution.
The only reason a person cannot walk out of any bad relationship or marriage, is because of low self-esteem and financial dependence. A mere certificate does not make a marriage. Some relationships are stronger than marriages!
Only fools use children as excuses to stay in an unproductive relationship or marriage. 
Who says you can only take care of your children if you stay married?
Bottom line, no one cares if you have a successful marriage or relationship. . .Just take care of the children you 'begat' from your azzzzze. Period!!!

yes it is always right to put God first in whatever you do than live to regret it later, for me s when i was young i always have the feeling that when it is the time for me to get married i will know when the right man comes and it surely happen even tho there meant not be enough now i know for sure we will have enough plenty when the times come and i wont ever exchange him for the world

yes it is always right to put God first in whatever you do than live to regret it later, for me s when i was young i always have the feeling that when it is the time for me to get married i will know when the right man comes and it surely happen even tho there meant not be enough now i know for sure we will have enough plenty when the times come and i wont ever exchange him for the world

For some people still searching for patners or doubting, you can open your eyes wide cos your wife meant just be in the corner waiting for you while you are strugging yourself with someone that you would regret choicing at the end (Beware least you lose the substance by grasping at the Shadow) for every man is made for him is own

for me i thank God cos i find my own patner in the most surprising place and i will always be grateful to God and only money probably meant be the delay now.

@OP in my opinion, if you force yourself to marry someone you don't have feelings for, claiming that it's god, you'll only end up unhappy, killing your wife, or both.
Same thing goes for parents that marry for their children, or force then to marry someone they're not in love with. I ask them: fine, youdunnit, are you gonna spend the rest of your life with the person you foisted on your child? I mean c'mon! What happened to marrying for love? What happened to courtship? Not that I believe in marriage anyway. It's another form of slavery.

Love or infatuation isnt what sustains a marriage.

Its important but not the bedrock.

tpia@:

Love . . . isnt what sustains a marriage.

Its important but not the bedrock.

I'm really not gonna justify that with an answer.

^Your problem, not mine.

The first whom God gave a wife too ended up blaming God when the woman caused him to sin. Afterwards, am not sure God gave a wife or hubby to anyone anymore. That said, the work of finding a spouse is fully yours cos proverbs says 'he who finds a wife finds a good and obtains favour from the LORD'. Your marriage would not work because you made the right choice but because made your self the right person. I have seen several marriaged that are 'God ordained' crash like a pack of cards and conversely I have seen marriages where the two parties married due certain circumstantial occurence, like unwanted pregnancy, and 40yrs later the couples are still married. Come to think of it our forefather who were idol worshippers got married and stayed married, divorce rate was low and family life was very sacred.