Tears in my eyes. SO sorry. God will surely give you double. HOpe your wife is Okay

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i am so sorry..

you are really a great man...MAY GOD BLESS YOU ABUNDANTLY..

Really sorry about your loss and thanks for sharing your story, we can all learn from that. I'm glad your wife is well and wish both of you the best.

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@op I knw dat no amount of masgs on comments can repair d loss bt just for u to knw dat I share in ur grief , thanks for d awareness it really help...

Wow, now I'm officially scared of pregnancy, Afdma, God is in control, your wife will surely carry her baby in this life, in Jesus name, Amen.

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On the birth of my 1st baby, my wife had pre-eclamsia, she convulsed severely. luckily it was already 38 weeks and the baby was induced. It was a scary period. The baby had low birth weight but it all turned out well. I research the situation then and found out it only happens with the 1st pregnancy for a partner. We have had other children ever since without any other problem.

hmm, so sorry for the loss. Like someone said you are the true definition of a real man for being ur wife's shadow thru the thick and tough times of pregnancy.

So sorry 4 ur loss, d Lord will 4ever give u̶̲̥̅̊ nd ur wife every reason to smile nd rejoice. Ur story is really an eye opener.

@afmdman, i share in ur grief am rili sorry abt d loss but the one dat wil put smiles on our faces wil come IJN Amen. I must commend u 4 ben strong all thru God Has register ur case n His now ready 2 gv u another one dat wipe away wrong in ur Family IJN Amen.

realy touched by ur story bt i believe God will provide u wit another one dat will stay wif u without giving u problem n i must commend u 4 been there 4 ur wifey, she's indeed lucky 2 av a hubby like u so sorry 4 ur loss

@poster, i am very sorry for ur loss
i ave always looked forward to having babies bt dis story scared d shit out of me.

@ adfman so sorry abt your loss, i can imagine how u feel. I lost a preg at 9wks after being treated for malaria. I still feel bitter abt it till dis moment. I believe God will surely replace all our loss and we shall nt experience such again IJN. Keep being strong for wifey

@Adfman,so sorry for your loss. You guys went through a lot of trial,but be strong better days are coming.peace

I cried last night after I read your post. Still teary this morning.
Only a person who has/is going to something similar can understand the
gravity of what you're going through.

The Lord will strengthen you IJN

You are a strong man.God bless you aπϑ yours. Don't get scared †☺ try again. I'll advise early antenatal this time aπϑ preferably in a teaching hospital.

so so sorry about ur loss afdman,such will never happen again in ur family and God will replenish u and ur wife IJN.God is ur strength,it is well.

@Poster...i'm so sorry for the loss. God will give you and ur wifey the child that will stay with you.

i am so grateful to God that despite what i passed through, i still have my baby with me. i also suffered from pre-enclampsia when i was preggy and it started really early. Atless than 4months my legs where really swollen and painful and so many symptoms were prevalent but i didnt understand cos whenever i go for check up my docter will always say the baby is fine and u too despite all my complains.
it was my aunt that saw me and told me that all was not well(she runs a big hospital). so she placed me on several tests that revealled that my urine tested +++ for both protein and carbohydrate and i also had a very high bp and was seriously bloating.i was immediately placed on strict diet and bedrest for weeks and a lot of medications.

i almost lost my baby twice. the first was barely 23 weeks when i had contractions for 3 days non stop. and the other one was at 33 weeks when the baby stopped kicking and after several tests was adviced to be sectioned on the same day or i'll lose my life and that of the baby if i try to wait.

all i can say today is thank you Jesus cos my hubby,aunt,family and my church members were there for me.

OP, I'm really sorry abt your loss. It is well

@Poster: Wow, you and wifey are among the strongest and bravest in the world.My only pain is the fact that a situation like this could have ended well if it was abroad on a 90% chance.I'm a living testimony cos I would av been dead if I had my 1st child in Nigeria.
I was just shedding tears reading ur story cos I was relieving mine but it is well.You both conquered, a lot of couples couldn't .Your baby is coming!

@Adfman, May the almighty God comfort and see you and wifey through these trying times in Jesus name.

Accept my sympathy on the loss. May God comfort you and give you children that will stay. In all thank God that your wife is alive. A lot of people never lived to tell the story. I went through something similar but the PIH(pregnancy induced hypertension) started developing in the 3rd trimester. I was placed on bed rest and from there i was induced into labour, it was not an easy experience. My blood pressure kept soaring high with every measurement, the anxiety was contributing to it. But when i looked back now, i thank God.

Finally i was delivered of the baby alive to avert a terrible situation but that was not the end of it. Some days after delivery i had post partum heamorrhage (heavy or profuse bleeding after childbirth) i got prompt attention, and i was evacuated but i had lost about 4 pints of blood within some minutes. Every minute was precious as i was loosing blood by the seconds. I almost gave up the ghost but i kept praying and held on to my faith in God. I survived it even after collapsing due to much loss of blood. All hands were on deck to attend to me at the hospital and God heard my prayer. Post partum heamorrhage (PPH), heavy or profuse bleeding after childbirth has resulted in the death of many women after childbirth. It is caused by a number of reasons but women who had PIH and have been induced to labour are more prone to it. It usually occurs within the first 6 weeks after child birth. If you notice any unusual bleeding or large clot of blood after childbirth please get in touch with your hospital ASAP. The clean bill of health for women who have just given birth can only be guarantee after 6 weeks. I heard a lot of similar cases after mine and most of the women are dead.

The health system in Nigeria is not so good and people might have to pay through their noses to get good attention but ensure that whichever hospital you are visiting, they have capable and experinced staff who know what to do.

Also in all, put everything in prayers.

A very heart-wrenching and touching story. @Afdman, you are THE MAN and your wife is THE WOMAN. Please be strong for your family. Wishing your wife a quick recovery. Allah knows best.

@og, sowi for the loss, your story almost brought tears to my eyes. Anyways, God will replenish.

I cant stop crying after reading ur post. I pray 2 God 2 see u nd wify through in Jesus name amen.

IT IS WELL IN JESUS' NAME!

I have never taken my time to read story this long in nairaland.
i know the lord will heal your heart and give you much children like you desired

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It's well

@OP, Ds is so touchin. My heart goes out 2 ur wife, she is such a strong woman. & u r a rare man. my mind kept wondering @ d % of men dt wud go so far wif a woman & stl lost d baby afterall. Most men wud hold deir wives responsible 4 d predicament & gv her d toughest time of her life emotionally.
I'm so convinced dt d Lord wil restore al d yrs dt d canker worms & caterpillars hd eaten & compensate u wif a double M&F.
Luv 2 ur wife!
It's Well!

Glory. God be Praise.