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Cmon
U know wit me, everyth is beautiful
Cm closer, v missed u

Yeah beautiful!
Serzly I'm tired of cooking for one and eating the burnt food alone

So is dis d best way 2 propose?


Waitin . . . .

bknight: Gearing up to get married. But after seeing, hearing and reading so much about marriages and the hell inlaws, cheating and domestic problem cause what can one look out for and what to expect to reduce marital problems.
With so much deception and uncertainties now, how does tribe, religion, friends, career, etc affect

The thots of marriage is so scary

You scared cz of what u hear? You choose to marry and be ready for whatever comes ur way.That's what.You can't have the full picture of what it will be like.
You will only know once you get there cz each marriage is different and unique.
And yes the above mentioned play a role but hey, they are factors that u as human can manage.They shouldn't manage you.
What you need to look out for are not those factors u mentioned, but ur partner's character.If both of you are sober,friends and mature then you should be able to handle those.
Go marry.

@OP,
''Gearing up to get married'', okwa ya? So wetin happen na, your balls dropped off? Relax jor, shebi your old man did it, you should be able to do it too. Forget inlaws and relatives; all doz ones na back-ground noise.
Just tuck in your chin, tighten your sphincter, and suck it up like a man! I prophesy that in 2yrs time, thou shalt be bouncing bom-bom boy on your developing pot-belly, while missus prepares egusi soup in the kitchen. Oya go forth and fear no more.

^ dats my man dere
I can bite o

Road/see/air accidents do occur sometimes,but does the fear stops u frm travelling? U see my point?
C'mon man! Man up! A big congratz 2u btw.
Enjoi ur soon-to-be-married life.

give it your best shot, but if it doesnt work, simply call it QUITS!

@OP, if you have to be pampered this way or even 'goaded' before you can accept to go and marry, i hope you don't get in and still be looking forward to more each day. Marriage is for the mentally mature, opposite of which i think you're manifesting.

My advice for you is: if you're below 27, may be you give yourself one more year or two. Within this period, attend lots of pre-marriage seminars/counseling and the like, to prepare your mind on the first things. You get to learn the rest when you're already in. But make sure you marry only when you're certain you can face those things you said you're afraid of with necessary positive attitudes.

pato405: give it your best shot, but if it doesnt work, simply call it QUITS!

If the idea of divorce appealed to me, getting married won't be dat scary. One can simply hop in and hop out. And I wnt rili care to learn ways to reduce problems in d marriage.
I'm a bit on d conservative style and admire d old idea of family wat a family shld be like.

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Go marry. [/quote]


Pendo r u married?

yes

Dyt Dyt dyt!! Let's nt draw attention darl, d best proposals r very private and when u least expect

Lol Kay9 nice one, u make it sound like its 'comedy lifetime'

Mykjones I see ur point, but if u r abt to get on board, and you hear d last passengers of same (who jst landed 15mins ago) complaining of weird sounds and smoking from d engines, u might want to get curious, won't you?

I cldnt view this thread since, dunno wetin happen.

Pendo, in ur opinion, what d foremost thing u wld hv looked out for

pendo89: yes

Na lie o.

There's realy notin lyk getting married and living happily ever after. The great marriages u see do have their ups n downs. U just have 2 create d picture of ur desired home, there's no perfect human, find a lady who is understanding and shares d same idea of a home with u. Be optimistic, pray, it didn't work 4 d other doesn't mean it won't work 4 u. Marriage can b sweet, u know?