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Business / Re: ₦50 Stamp Duty On Bank Deposits & Transfers Are Illegal - FHC Asaba by activelyA(f): 10:00am On Dec 12, 2020
A lot of things are illegal with the banking system in Nigeria but they do not care because the government is in support of it. You cant even take them to court.

The legal system on it's own is a disaster.
Family / Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by activelyA(f): 6:07am On May 19, 2020
slyfox35:

Lol,I Dey feel you brother
Thanks for feeling my pain bro,you be real niga ,then you know wetin I pass through,how guyman go looseguard guy man
Funny fact!
Devil never gives up. That you escape your first major challenge does not mean the second will not kill you. What will be painful will be if both challenges were served by same person.

Picture this, 4 months after the coming of your friend, your business crashes, you cant get a girl to even say yes to a relationship talk more of marriage, you sell your apartment...will you ever think it's this friend after 4months.

What if the reason why he was so angry with you was because your spirit rejected what he wanted to do with you (considering you are an orphan, no one will ask of you) or the charms in his house, that's obviously what happened because 2 days is too small for a person who was eager to bring you over. What was his initial intentions of bringing you?
Forgive me for being all diabolical bro but this world is deeper than we think.
That you are innocent does not mean I am innocent.


What if he is coming to do a spiritual assignment?
All he needs is a shirt you do not notice has gone missing or sand from your feet.
Be wise!!
That you survive first one no mean say you go escape this one ooo
Politics / Re: COVID-19: Sagay Says Nigerians Are The Most Indisciplined People On Earth by activelyA(f): 3:57pm On May 06, 2020
Indisciplined or undisciplined or....

What is really going on?
Is it just me or does indispline go with the "ed"


News portals leave you unsure of what you know.
Had to Google this...
I remember when headlines and newspapers were the standards.
Religion / Re: What Are Your Favourite Nigerian Gospel Songs? by activelyA(f): 7:29am On Apr 20, 2020
The bill by guc
Religion / Re: It's So Hard Practising Envagelism As A Single Female by activelyA(f): 7:28am On Apr 20, 2020
Very truebut dressing also matters

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Health / Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by activelyA(f): 5:38pm On Apr 16, 2020
OutharryHIV:
I "accidentally" found out I had HIV in 2015... Worst year of my life.. I know you might be thinking that I'm a promiscuous person but I assure you, I'm very far from that... So this is how it all started?

I did my NYSC in my dad's company and finished in late 2014 and I was given a full year to go read a course I didn't even want. So I instead volunteered for Youth In Action Against HIV and poverty in Tanzania. My dad was furious but my mum understood.

It was 6months filled with lessons, tears, experience and a firsthand witness to the sufferings of others... We tended to the poorest of the poor in rural Tanzania.

I later came down to Borno and later North bank area of Benue state, I realized there were a lot of vulnerable people that are hungry and can't afford even cheap medical care thus they die of common malaria.

I didnt stay long in Borno before I started having this feeling of fatigue and blurry vision, I thought it was cuz of the stress that comes with what I do, so I decided to go home. Few days after getting home I started feeling this head splitting headache, I thought it was malaria/typhoid of which a lab test later confirmed.. Out of curiosity, I told the doctor to run a full check up.. Just to be on a safe side.. Which he did..

You should imagine my surprise when he told me I was HIV positive.. Nothing has ever prepared me for that moment.. It was funny how a malaria treatment could turn to an HIV nightmare.. I thought of just ending my life right then.

But i braced myself and took the drugs, I was surprised that it was free in Nigeria sef.

I rushed home and took my girlfriend to run the test and it turned out that she has it too...
We've been taking the drugs for the past 5years now with an high Cd4 count and a low viral load.. The virus is not detectable in our blood stream anymore and we are happily married and our first twin boys are negative.

If you're out there and you've been in my shoes.. Its not the end of your life.. Life just happens and its not entirely your fault.

I don't smoke, drink or live a reckless life or sleep around, like I've been in only one relationship all my life, so its not about your lifestyle.
I don't know if I got it from the idp camps or my girlfriend(she was the only person I was with at that time), we just didn't care, we moved on.

So lovelies, Take your ARV drugs, take fruits, eat well, within 3-6 months you can still have unprotected sex throughout your life with your partner without infecting them or your children.. You can live your life to the fullest and more.

P.s: HIV patients do not look skinny and dried up.. That's just an archaic stereotype...
It is also not a death sentence.
Glory to God...
Almost brought tears to my eyes

Reading this with the song 'this is the way you father me by ElijahOyebade"
Indeed God is man's helper


Can't imagine your pain as at then.

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Family / Re: How Can I Stop My Ex From Visiting My Matrimonial Home? by activelyA(f): 2:52am On Feb 03, 2020
SifonAbasi:
My husband tells me he is not stupid for allowing my ex to visit his home but me I am not comfortable with my ex's visit.
I think you might not know this, but your ex has a spiritual thing he did with you that involves your destiny right from your dating days.
That man is stronger than you and your husband spiritually. He can do an incantation on your husband and your home is scattered. That is exactly what is playing now.

Seek help of a true prophet. Because if you try fake prophet, you are done for!

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Phones / Re: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by activelyA(f): 7:24pm On Jan 24, 2020
Please help!!!
I just did a system update on my tecno cx air and it has refuse to boot or come on ever since.
It just shows the tecno and android interface (I have attached a picture)

I have done hard reset, yet, it is not booting

Engineers please help me oo

Romance / Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by activelyA(f): 11:18am On Dec 26, 2019
Heavy signs of spiritual husband in play...

The whole aim is to use your hand against yourself and make you lose the right one
Michellekabod2:
I am not going to create another moniker for this,i owe no one nothing!

I have spent most of my life single. I tried linking up with people but to no avail. Why? I will not do the blame game here. Is all my fault. I meet someone, get heed over heels for the person but I lose interest easily. When it comes to commitment, when the friendship is to get to the next level I ghost them. I don't know why. At best out of the blue I lose interest and become blank, not returning calls or replying messages, at worst I become disgusted at the fellow for no reason at all then move one to the next male friend. Nothing serious comes out of it...

So I decided to give up trying. My female friends and I go on an outing, some guys approach us and get our numbers. Months (sometimes years) later they are still waxing strong with the males, one of them even got married to one of them. But me? After a couple of weeks I find myself having to ghost the guy that I was head over heels for.

I gave up on love and chose to be single. I have been single for years now.

I met this guy march this year,we bonded like never before. I have never in my entire life felt like this before. It is so strange that each conversation we have all seems anew like we are starting all over.

It's almost ten months and the fire is still intense.
I have never had such a long friendship with a male. People assume we are dating. He gives me so much JOY... He is so awesome, different from all the others i have known. He changed me.

I just figured out i want to end the friendship, I don't know why. I am tired. I want to walk away. The passion is still there but i want to be away. I wanted to get a new SIM but my conscience will not. What has kept me from doing this is because i wonder how he will feel..

I want to walk away. Will i regret this?
Celebrities / Re: Tim Godfrey Biography, Lifestyle & Profile by activelyA(f): 12:13pm On Jan 07, 2019
hmmnnnnnn
choirmaster or music directors and women 5 and 6 undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
PastorandMentor:
He has a son (away match)
Celebrities / Re: Tim Godfrey Biography, Lifestyle & Profile by activelyA(f): 11:11am On Jan 07, 2019
Thought he has a son...
Computers / Re: Hello Every One This Is Segelomo Your Boy,get All Your Laptops Of All Brands by activelyA(f): 8:04pm On Nov 24, 2018
Noted
FoderKingthanos:



Windows 12 hasn't been released yet



It's windows 2012 that's a server

Before accusing someone of being ignorant, make sure you're not the one being ignorant first
Computers / Re: Hello Every One This Is Segelomo Your Boy,get All Your Laptops Of All Brands by activelyA(f): 8:44am On Nov 24, 2018
FoderKingthanos:





grin grin; D


NIGGA SAID WINDOWS 12!!!!!!



Nigerians will not kill me
You might be a tech person but are not into networking
Windows 12 is a server software
Runs on servers


Always do your research to avoid laughing at your ignorance.
Religion / Re: Bishop Oyedepo: 'What Will Happen If Nigeria Becomes An Islamic Nation' by activelyA(f): 9:19pm On Oct 28, 2018
The process is very much in progress knowIngly or unknowingly. I pray it won't be too late for us when Christians realize that there is no more justice. Just like the case in Kaduna, It's gradually becoming the Christians against the Government.
Religion / Re: The Mystery Behind Sexual Temptations by activelyA(f): 7:53am On Oct 28, 2018
Help me oh God to always please you and deliver me from sexual temptation
Politics / Re: Kaduna Crises: Tinubu Blows Hot Over Religious Killings, Reveals What Will Happe by activelyA(f): 5:40pm On Oct 21, 2018
markidoo:
I don't pray for such, but always be alert for reprisal attacks.
Happening already today
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How To Apply For National Space Research and Development Agency Job Recruitment by activelyA(f): 6:07pm On Jul 15, 2018
Federal government and Vinny way of life
The mail rejects application

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Family / Re: Woman Reveals How She Dashed Her Husband N500k And What He Did With It by activelyA(f): 8:57am On Jul 09, 2018
franchasng:
He is not alone. Majority of Nigerians guys are with leeches due to lack of worthy ladies angry cry
Nope.. .
Are you also saying ladies are unworthy due to so many guys?? ?
It's just simple, you attract your type sir

You don't expect a worthy lady go grab an unworthy man
Everybody like better thing

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Crime / Re: 5 Diabolic Things Yahoo Boys Now Do To Get Money (Disturbing Images Attached) by activelyA(f): 2:36pm On Jun 29, 2018
Mad men eating poo is an insult to mad people sef
Anigreat:
shocked




Eating human shit for wetting?


Last time i checked, I'm not mad yet
Food / Re: How To Make Banana Date (dabino) Smoothie. Very Easy Steps by activelyA(f): 1:53pm On Jun 21, 2018
will try this on sunday.
dates could be expensive ...you know
Crime / Re: Soldier Inflicts Machete Cuts On Boy In Edo, Licks His Blood (pics) by activelyA(f): 10:09pm On Jun 02, 2018
One thing to be a soldier, another thing to be a wizard when you are being flogged you don't even know who is the one in charge.. .. Or which force is more fierce shocked









Eeehhhhhhhhh God!!!!!!! shocked
shocked



Deliver us shocked shocked

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Sports / Re: Nigeria Vs DR Congo - International Friendlies - 1 - 1 (Full-Time) by activelyA(f): 4:34pm On May 28, 2018
PLEASE WHICH STATION ASIDE DSTV WILL SHOW IT?
Politics / Re: Buhari's N40M Cash Gift Tears CAN Apart - Vanguard by activelyA(f): 12:00pm On May 21, 2018
Funny how evil news from the house of God moves faster to front page than news from the other side undecided

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Romance / Re: How Can You Keep Up With A Girl That Replies Your Chat With "Yes,ok,no,fine,? by activelyA(f): 1:49am On May 21, 2018
This is exactly what am saying...
most guys do not know what you know or think this way
you cant know a girl through have you eaten?, what did you eat?...when 7 other guys are asking her the same questions...she gets bored...
ooh well will still prefer to call you a relationship expert cool cool cool
Iamdmentor1:


I don't think I'm a relationship expert but I know a lot about relationship. Allow me to share two of my experiences amongst many.

#1
I once met a girl at a park just when I was about to board my bus. I was attracted to her so I walked up to her, told her I have to board and asked for her number which she gave to me. When I arrived my destination, I messaged her on WhatsApp and as expected, after I asked her the fifth question, she complained that she doesn't like too much question. Of course, the highest number of words she used to reply the four questions was three (fine and you), the others were just one word. I had asked her her name when I collected her number.
After she told me she doesn't like too much question, I just stopped talking to her. When I returned from my trip, I invited her to go out with me. After the date, she got to know me and liked me. She even call most time and our chat is very lengthy. A girl who once said she doesn't like too much questions yearn now yearn for my questions.

#2
On my way to where I was going to, I met a girl at the bus. We didn't talk till we were halfway to our destination. I found, it's bad idea to start talking to someone immediately when you're on a long trip. The person might want to sleep and sooner than later, you might run out of topics to discuss. So we greeted and I slept. When we were about 2 hours to our destination, I started a conversation that lasted till she came down. We exchanged numbers and bade eachother farewell.
She messaged me first and we kept on talking. No one word replies.
I must have impressed her by my inactions, my oratory etc so she knew who and how I was.

Getting a girl to know you via social media is hectic work, and sooner than later she'll forget about you. Experience has taught me that
Romance / Re: How Can You Keep Up With A Girl That Replies Your Chat With "Yes,ok,no,fine,? by activelyA(f): 11:53pm On May 19, 2018
Iamdmentor1:
Simple. Go out with her. Girls will not chat well with you until you've impressed them by your actions or inactions.
When you get a girl's number from a friend, one word reply is imminent.

Had to login to validate this!! !

Very very very very very true! !!!
Are you a relationship expert?
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 14 by activelyA(f): 12:43pm On May 11, 2018
kylexy61:
Ladies and Gentlemen!!!

My TRV has been approved

Oh my God! Thank you soo much

York University, MASc Civil Engineering

Online Application: 16th March
Medical Request: 4th April
Medicals done: 9th April
Medical Passed: 14th April
Approval/Passport Request: 26th April

Tomorrow would have been exactly 6 weeks since I applied.

Toronto!! Here I come!
#DreamsDoComeTrue
I really bless God for you
congratulations .
I tap from this.

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Celebrities / Re: #BBNaija Winner Miracle receives N12million Mercedes Benz Prize - Pictures by activelyA(f): 11:18pm On Apr 29, 2018
Cutehector:
who is highly lifted up? A show that is filled with immorality..you better be guided properly
Please cutehector, do not quote me.. ..
Was I worshiping because of the show or because I just felt like worshiping? Read properly

Judgment of immortality coming from a guy who is known to run around or be shaky around anything with the female moniker.. ..

Before you go about building a godly reputation, check your past record



Abeg carry you wahala and go angry
Celebrities / Re: #BBNaija Winner Miracle receives N12million Mercedes Benz Prize - Pictures by activelyA(f): 7:35pm On Apr 29, 2018
You are highly lifted up, there is no one like you.. ..
Halle Halle Halle hallelujah.. ..

Just feel like worshiping God here.. ..



Otuasirime chineke
Otuasirime chineke
Mmaya mmaya di ebube
Mmama mmammaya diebube

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Romance / Re: What's The Craziest Reply You Ever Got When You Said "I Love You"? by activelyA(f): 4:41pm On Apr 26, 2018
Eagba:
if he uses the mirror effect on you, you'll fall. Provided you're not in a dedicated relationship and you're the dedicated type.
Am eager, why would you say or assume so?
Romance / Re: What's The Craziest Reply You Ever Got When You Said "I Love You"? by activelyA(f): 1:38pm On Apr 26, 2018
Oziahete:
You don't go about telling girls you love them. They will quickly see through it that you are lying. Before you do that you have to be sure that you guys are on the same frequency. For me being a player and master of the art of deception that I am, I always make them ask for it.
This categorically shows your class of ladies you associate with.
If you're indeed diverse, you would know this doesn't work for most ladies of a certain age, who are in certain positions. .. smiley
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 14 by activelyA(f): 4:11pm On Apr 24, 2018
kylexy61:




Yes. I applied in December against a February deadline.
And you got your reply after February?
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 14 by activelyA(f): 3:27pm On Apr 24, 2018
Darasimiolu:

Not yet...The department's deadline is May 15
not expecting a decision till June
But kaylex61 has received an answer.. .
Let's be hopeful though

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