KimberlyWest:


You're right.

Like it's not just "Nigerian girls" that the guys in this section talk about. The issue is not peculiar to any gender. We still have boys who can not hold intelligent conversations. The only thing they know how to talk about is the number of girls they've been with. Ask them questions about their state of origin, and watch them fumble.

It's not like I'm saying that Nigerian girls are perfect, but the way guys here sound like there's no lady in Nigeria who has something good to offer is so annoying.

Both genders need to work on themselves. Instead of the whole bashing and rantings, guys should also work on themselves.

They complain about constant billing. Crazy. You've been with a girl for two years and all you do is take care of her bills and call her to come whenever you're in your heat period. In that two years, you've never brought up the issue of her starting a business or acquiring a skill. If the girl is not intelligent enough to do all of that for herself, you're her boyfriend and partner, help her out. Let her tap from your well of intelligence.

When such relationship ends now, the guy will come to Nairaland and rant about how she didn't help his life and business. As if he helped hers.

Like I said, both genders need serious work. The rate at which Nigerian boys want relationship to be about you bringing your body and them bringing their money is also getting scary.

About the conversation aspect. It's only in physics that like charges do not attract. In life, you only attract your kinds.

In my opinion, if you keep meeting unintelligent ladies, then you also need to work on yourself and the kind of places you go to. You can't go to strip clubs and expect the ladies who came there to have fun to start discussing politics and current affairs with you.

I come in peace.

Genset:
My ex-boyfriend just me money out of the blues, should i be worried? We broke up since the beginning of the year and haven't spoken since then. All of a sudden he texted me asking for my account number and then sent me money. It's just weird.

Romanoff:
It is not a big deal. It doesn't make you less married than you are.

Many bear their husbands names and are not faithful to that husband.

It doesn't guarantee a happy marriage and to be honest, it is the least of your worries in marriage.

It depends on the man tho, if he insists on it and feels it's his right, good, no big deal there. Some men don't care what name you bear as long as you're faithful, you love them and give them peace. It doesn't make the men weak.

What shall it profit the alpha male who insists his wife bears his name only to find out all his kids are not his?

funmisticqueen2:

For me : It is always Sia. That rich Alto voice of hers is legendary. Recognizable anywhere. All her songs.

fulldepth:
Me?? do the dishes with u??
what kind of stupid love is that one??   Imagine her telling me that i have to do the dishes wif her??

MissJoy29:
lol...this kind story eh!
The only song I know from him is "sorry". Know it? Lol @you are off your game
Ok...let's see how it goes.

MissJoy29:

Pele. Gist me. What happened? Why were you running?

I'm literally giving you all the answers here. And like you said earlier, some things shouldn't be said here.

I'm not a Justin Bieber fan so I don't know his voice.

MissJoy29:

Yeah....sometimes it's good to be adventurous & not follow the normal path (door). Don't you think?

But seriously, figure out what I mean.

MissJoy29:
Hmmmm...it's alright.
Nobody likes to share

MissJoy29:

Yeah
So, just go ahead and say it, will ya.

MissJoy29:
which of the messages in particular?

MissJoy29:

There he is! Finally! Where are your people? They got tired and left now the show is about starting

MissJoy29:
Eeyah! Pele

MissJoy29:

There he is! Finally! Where are your people? They got tired and left now the show is about starting

MissJoy29:

omg!
@Antinormal, what is really happening? That you are silent in all these is making things worse o. See how your guys are blaming me up & down

@boyjo, you do shakara when there's a cause or reason to. There's no reason to do shakara here for me.

Again, how can I recognise that someone I haven't seen before is decent just cos we quoted each other 3 times or less? I really wish the world is that simple and less complicated.

Except there's something else y'all ain't telling me here.

Hungarriman:
My own be say, i no wan miss the party jollof. Antinormal no let boys down ooo, even if e no happen, just cook party jollof, invite boys come chop, we don try naa. Raydatluvs innit?

MissJoy29:

See me see wahala o

But seriously, which mbo ka ogbara? Cos I don't see any. You know. He knows too. That's why he has been keeping quiet. Isn't that right @Antinormal?

statrboiTolu:
1. I masturbate with both hands 2. I love sniffing panties 3. I dislike girls that form too much.. 4. I love hairy puuuuseeeee 5. I'm a born again christain...

MissJoy29:

Lol...I can just imagine his face when I type my number here. Meanwhile, we are just here enjoying our harmless chit chat with nothing else in mind. In his mind, he will be like, "who send this one? Isn't that right, AntiNormal?

raydatluvs:
Sisi,give the brother your digits already ...will ya?

PS. Doesn't devalue you even by a kobo

placeofallure:
I don't eat chicken, turkey or gizzard or offal. I eat only beef and fish
I love to wink at babies when their mommas are not looking
I have a phobia for figures- I got F9 in Mathematics
I have never been heartbroken in relationships. Mind you I'm not a beginner
For a girl, I think I watch too much porn. Yes! Just for the fun of it!

MissJoy29:

Bring it on then...

MissJoy29:

Lol...number?
Naaah...I prefer the window approach. I will cover myself properly while waiting for you
We don't have thieves in my area by God's Grace too

anayolity:
Okay...emmmm...how do we go about being your boyfriend

anayolity:
Okay...emmmm...how do we go about being your boyfriend

MissJoy29:

I'm in my house