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Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by ello29(m): 3:37pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
I think you made a mistake resigning from your place of work and moving directly to Abuja. |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by OgogoroFreak(m): 3:37pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Go out there and mingle with the "big mamas" in the area. Get your head game and fingering skills right. You are good to go. |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by pocohantas(f): 3:37pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA: Hahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by MufasaLion: 3:38pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
TheLasyBuddha: You Smart Bro!. Older women are just different from these confused bunch of "chickens" 1 Like |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by BRATISLAVA: 3:39pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
franchasng: That is you. Maybe you're older than these ones who want a lot of things from women. He's an ingrate of the worst sort. He saw her living in a smaller place, told her to get a bigger one. She did, on her own tab. He came over, she felt he should keep busy at home. She handles her own laundry, he's complaining about having to do his. What does he really want? Dobriy den. 4 Likes |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by yeme7(m): 3:39pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
All these set of myopic people with their negative comments self.. See I have seen 4 guys who happened to be my friend that were invited by their online gf they had nothing when they traveled, their gfs fed them paid their flight money harbour them.... So what more to this lady helping this guy who happens to relocate from lagos to abuja... There's nothing wrong there... After all a woman can still help a man not only man helping a woman.... See guy sit down ur gf and talk to her if she can't help them go back to lagos and start a new life. |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by udomas(m): 3:39pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Acidosis: Op should take this to heart, one of the most viable comments so far. God bless you! 1 Like |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by nonhuman(m): 3:39pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
mariahAngel:exactly what I thought, he ISNA mumu man |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Oriakku: 3:40pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Switchman:At the bolded.women and sex are inseparable. I know whenever she needs sex she buys everything for you, pet you a little, after the 5 minutes show, she turns to beast again |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by smile11s(m): 3:41pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
This is life bro! You put yourself in this mess. I will advise you to expect the worst and also hope for better. Life is a game and your gamble didn’t workout. Sorry. |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by thikturk: 3:42pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
My brother, you see in this life nobody that that doesn't/can't make mistake. First thing you must do is accept your mistake. 2nd, set ego aside, rub mind with her. ask her what she wants from you or the relationship. she is lording over you cause of your condition, but nothing spoil it could be a turning point that will take you to a better side. don't display weakness. she believes you can't do without her, show her otherwise even if you are not seeing it present. please I didn't mean being brutal or abusive. show her love and show her you will survive/get what ever you want with or without her. |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by jevic(m): 3:42pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Just find a way and leave her on time to avoid more regrets. |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by bigpicture001: 3:42pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
@ OP..think deep for things you can do..it must not b a white collar, then sell your car..and raise funds to start it.. ...and just so everyone knows that there hundreds of ladies going late in marriage timing living in abj. And have plenty money..many if them through past immoral practices,many through hardwork...they have spread their net all around the rest of the states to drag usually underachieving guys to abuja for marriage..they promise everything... They cover all cost. But undergone condition: they will never leave abuja to b with you. In my area, we call them abuja desperate marriage |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Nobody: 3:43pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
You are just a lazy nigerian man scum and trash |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Sheerbliss: 3:43pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Hi just new here |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by aAK1(m): 3:44pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
I was in the op’s condition a few year back. The only difference is that I had a plan.I wasn’t also planning to come to Abuja to job hunt. I came to set up a business.we ended up not getting married but I must say what ever I am today, God used titi. She housed , fed and clothed me for a whole year. @op where is your car? 1 Like |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by georgedaniel01(m): 3:44pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Them never show you say you be mumu? 1 Like |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by LoveJesus87(m): 3:44pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Ishilove:Very funny man. At least he could have gotten the job first before relocating. May God have mercy on us all |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by franchasng: 3:46pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA:It's not about being older. I was a teen when I was in the higher institution and I hated the idea of visiting female hostels to talk of sleeping over. All my life, I have never slept over at a girl's house, never. I can't even close my eyes, its not possible for me no matter how bad life is. It has nothing to do with age, it's about upbringing and values one developed while growing up. This is where parental upbringing matters honestly. The lady is a good woman, it's unfortunate she met an ingrate, maybe she mistreated her former lovers who cared truly for her and now karma is teaching her a lesson through this ungrateful leech, maybe who knows. I feel for the lady, and it's not as if she is that buoyant, she is managing and this ungrateful guy is doubling her problem. Younger girls reading should learn from stories like this; don't push out male of your age circle in the name of not ready for relationship or friendship or career, thinking that as a lady once you secure your dream job your dream man will come. It mostly happens for guys not ladies, sadly 1 Like |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Rakitic004: 3:46pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Zzor: hu told you he is depressed this one Na foolishness 1. left Lagos to abuja 2. quit a job 3. no plan b 4. a lady you havent met b4 |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Peteryt01: 3:46pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
What about ur car? U can roll it out and continue ur hustle till u get a better job. 1 Like |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by kinkymax: 3:47pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
U actually go by ur name,,,u switched from Lagos to abuja and she also switched u from a potential hubby to a mere house help.. God help u. |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by int0x80(m): 3:47pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Op, just like your moniker says, you switched your brain with fish brain. You only have two options in this situation: 1 Humble yourself and suck up all the shits she's giving you until you can find something to do. 2 Or get the fucckk out of the place! Your gold-digging journey has turned into a bronze . The choice is yours! 3 Likes |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by okadoo: 3:47pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Is better you switch back to where you were coming from. |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by JamesSabastine: 3:47pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
I think the situation is not as bad as you made it sound. If I do not have a job there is nothing wrong in doing all domestic work for the person providing the money. You should actually wash her laundry rather than waste the on laundry man. You can even consider opening a laundry service. Work is work. I think you should be grateful that she is carry your cost it is not easy. Most women nag so that she is nagging is nothing new. A lot of women cannot manage a man without money. All those shouting that she is bad do not understand that women are wired to expect money from men. So take it easy see the domestic work as work do it very well.Put some professionalism to it. Meanwhile go get your car you left is Lagos it was poor advise to have done that. With the car improve your earnings. The lady in question is not a bad person you push her to the wall. Ylou can still make an excellent wife out of her. But you need to start earning money. I wish you the best. 3 Likes |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by LoveJesus87(m): 3:48pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Acidosis:lol 1 Like |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Bizriz(m): 3:49pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Your relationship is still at the early stage and occasional tiffs are not unexpected. I advise you communicate more, pray together and bro, “your ego is not your amigo”. I don’t see anything wrong in you washing your clothes or even doing the dishes if she’s at work. Would you rather she came back home from work and did the dishes? You also need to pray on your own and understand that if it’s not God’s plan that you end up together, it’s perfectly fine. Why worry when you can pray? Tell it to God 1 Like |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by LoveJesus87(m): 3:50pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
McSquishi:you get sense 1 Like |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by emmanuelewumi(m): 3:50pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
[quote author=MufasaLion post=100058597]As much as I like older women. You're just a SIMP!.[/quote It will be difficult for a man who is not financially independent to be an Alpha male] 1 Like |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by PrimadonnaO(f): 3:51pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Ishilove: I just can't help it! Such a ninny! 3 Likes |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by chatinent: 3:52pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Can a fool be wise? 1 Like
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Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by luminouz(m): 3:53pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
mariahAngel: Wao...what a nice submission from you. You are a prophetess now? Didn't we agree to not judge blindly and keep an open mind? N.B: the story smells false though. See viewers!!! |
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