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Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by BluDesk: 11:00am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Biggers82: That's how the devil always trick them into making decisions that 20 years down the line they'll be crying. |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by EmekaBlue(m): 11:00am On Apr 10, 2021 |
All these foolish women everywhere who are above 33years and still think they are young to marry. I pity una Menopause keep una dia 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by qtguru(m): 11:01am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Eval123: so......what is the issue here ? |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by EBEk101(m): 11:03am On Apr 10, 2021 |
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Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by Romanoff(f): 11:04am On Apr 10, 2021 |
amrichy: Thank God I've learned enough and I'm hoping to learn more. And marital matters are not the topic here but relationship. |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by horlahwaley(m): 11:05am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Op u have to be older than your lady, unless she wont respect you. i once dated a girl older than me by a year, omoh she feels she can control the relationship but i have to free her 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by Mystery9(m): 11:05am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Guy let her go o. |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by BluDesk: 11:06am On Apr 10, 2021 |
franchasng: Wisdom. The psychological imbalance and instability they suffer from at that age would rattle any man. They won't do such to men 50 and above out of fear and respect Always why I respect your IQ. You see far. Well done. How doctor? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by Liposure: 11:07am On Apr 10, 2021 |
DSC7:omo you really grandfathered this girl |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by eonecast: 11:07am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Romanoff: Gbam!!! |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by Christmasdon(m): 11:08am On Apr 10, 2021 |
@OP HOPE SHE IS NOT PREGNANT YET. IF YOU KNOW YOU ARE MUCH READY IN SETTLING DOWN. BUT WHAT IS 35YEARS DOING THERE 35YEAR U PUT HERE IS INCONSEQUENTIAL. YOU SAID SHE IS 30. ADVANTAGE OF MARRYING A WOMAN OLDER IS YOU WILL HAVE A HEALTHY CHILDREN. |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by CSTRR: 11:09am On Apr 10, 2021 |
EmekaBlue:33 year old housewives still dey born for their husbands na. It's when they are above 40, that I would worry. The major concern should be how chaste is she? If Boys never too tamper with wetin she dey carry come your house. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by plot697: 11:10am On Apr 10, 2021 |
I will advice that you let her go immediately. The pain of losing her now would be temporal than the pain of losing her after the five years you have given yourself. I thought I would be marriage at 28 only to realize that life had a different bargain for me when I turned that age. It could still happen to you. It is usually very dangerous to agree for a girl to wait for a man. So many stories shared in this regard did not end well. Let her go, when you are certainly ready, you will see somebody to marry. I rest my case. 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by proclinician: 11:11am On Apr 10, 2021 |
MALIGNANTGuest:Lol |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by EmekaBlue(m): 11:12am On Apr 10, 2021 |
CSTRR:I made this comment because one I wan marry who is 33 or maybe more as women too lie with their age dey do one kind attitude like she is doing me a favour. I go soon change my mind go for a younger one make she dey old dey go |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by mjandza: 11:12am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Ok |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by ultimateprof: 11:13am On Apr 10, 2021 |
For you to have reasons to be confused now, shows that you will have reasons to regret it later. Moreover, its not advisable for her to wait for you because the beautiful ones are not yet born. In Ola Rotimi tone, " it is only ignorant that make rat to attack cat". The gods are wise! |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by proclinician: 11:13am On Apr 10, 2021 |
mrblessed: Lol again |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by AreaFada2: 11:14am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Ajibade123:Age might not seem important but I have seen some women reach menopause before 35. Not many but I have seen firsthand. Education helps to ask many questions and look at things from many angles like the OP is doing. Ask yourself: would the lady care about age too? What happens if maybe when she's 36 or 37 they want to have kids and there's fertility issue? The issue may be with the guy but everyone will automatically assume it is with the lady. OP needs a frank discussion with his girlfriend. He cannot let her sacrifice a lot only to find out about his lies much later and maybe still get the blame if things don't pan out well. |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by AndikanEssien(m): 11:15am On Apr 10, 2021 |
True true you're confused |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by CSTRR: 11:15am On Apr 10, 2021 |
EmekaBlue:Na normal female attitude. She sef wan shakara na. You go just overlook am. If she's decent, stick with her. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by bluefilm: 11:16am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Eval123: Age is just a number. But then... I don't support the idea of promising a woman to wait for you so that you can marry her in the future. It will be like doing both of you a great disservice because... Nobody knows tomorrow and a lot of things can change. You could lose interest in her in those five years, and vice versa. You could meet another person more interesting and worthy for a life partner, and likewise her. The way I see it, you could marry her now and damn the consequences, or you could just forget about everything. Playing a game of Future is like playing a game of Death. Enough said. |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by mrdino(m): 11:17am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Eval123: Please, I beg you in the name of God (or whatever you believe in ), don't waste her time if you know you have no intention of marrying her. In short, tell her your real age and your true thoughts about her. |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by proclinician: 11:18am On Apr 10, 2021 |
EndRape2: Nothing about his comment showed he is mad or anything. You're the one that's mad for not being able to read and pass. Na somebody like u will advice a young girl to abandon the man that laboured so hard to see her through school because he himself is not educated. Shut ur mouth and pass |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by lexy2014: 11:18am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Ajibade123: I think u missed a very vital part of d story. D lady doesn't no his real age. She thinks they are of d same age |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by Rubbiish(m): 11:18am On Apr 10, 2021 |
EndRape2:Why are u angry? Lol |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by Skmoda360(m): 11:19am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Romanoff:Evening newspaper..... |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by WEALTHYMII: 11:19am On Apr 10, 2021 |
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Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by Caleycashh: 11:21am On Apr 10, 2021 |
e be like say to suffer dey sweet you for body!!!... you don't even have an assured job yet, if you know thousands of graduates roaming this country for over 5 years jobless I swear that mumu love go clear for your eyes sharply!, like what makes you feel you are special and will immediately land a good paying job!?... Bros leave that girl, go and establish yourself, this country hard oo, let no one sugarcoat anything for you, na person wey eat belleful dey remain food for another persin, till you finish your service na then everything go clear for your eyes! I reiterate go and ESTABLISH yourself!!! |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by blazepascal(m): 11:22am On Apr 10, 2021 |
the girl is a good and humble girl marry her this is a life time opportunity |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by Arinze624: 11:23am On Apr 10, 2021 |
My dear Blooda,, Forget woman goan Hustle �� In Igbo Nwanne Jee Chuba Ego |
Re: Marrying A 35-Year-Old Lady by Opeyemic01: 11:23am On Apr 10, 2021 |
Obviously she is in love, love can make you make some irrational decisions but trust me when she is down to reality later, she will be the one to first leave you. Age is not on her side that's number 1 reality, number 2 love alone is not enough when it comes to marriage, there are other ingredients. If she pushes you to marry her because of love only, I can assure you within 1 year 6 months, the two of you will become sworn enemies when you can't pay bills. Tell her off and make her see the reality and not the emotion. You both don't have monopoly of love for each other, with time someone else will love and understand you, same thing for her. |
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