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Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by benji93: 9:54pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
First bolded: I am sorry, but the Bible says so. If the Bible is silent on a matter, then you can do as the spirit directs you. In that case to everyone his own. And you clearly missed the point. The entire post doesn't include the guy expressing the intention of marrying the lady. He was talking about telling his parents he got a Tiv girl pregnant. So you saying that i am criticizing the marriage between pregnant brides and their grooms is not true. I clearly stated that it would be Ok if they got married, in which case if the parents are properly introduced to each other, and they are faithful to one another they would be seizing from continuing in Sin. And is that not a good thing. Strive to avoid sin. Now i am stressing on Christian values because the first bolded statement is not useful. In fact not telling your parents about this girl before impregnating her is a problem, if you are really serious about her. Now calling your parents and saying ooo, Sarah is pregnant ooo, and we would like to get you our parents to know each other is something else. I would probably not bring up the immorality of pre-marital sex cos although it is, it's not necessary. So all in all, and opposite to what you are thinking, i would like very much for them to marry. And since that guy can post this issue here, i would assume he can tell us when they get married(introduction/bride price for me is enough) and i will be happy to wish them well. Marriage builds healthier communities. Northern Muslims not eating Pig is a command by God according to their religion. So it's not forcing their people to drink alcohol or eat pig, if they constantly admonish fellow Muslims that the Quran says, so and so you must strive not to do that. Telling people that their actions are sinful because the scriptures says so is not forcing in itself. It's a statement of fact. Now oppressing you because of this is denying you your power of choice, which is bad, but it doesn't negate the fact that the action you committed was sinful. So telling someone their action is sinful based on their religious belief is not forcing them. I am not holding a gun to his head. wirinet: |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by TheArrowhead(m): 9:54pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
[quote author=22o62021 post=102558664][/quote] You're very stupid for the unnecessary suspense. |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by benji93: 9:58pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
The Bolded. How would you know this? Only someone with a negative mind would think another person must want something bad to happen to someone else. Stating that, 'pre-marital sex is immoral is a statement of fact according to Christianity. Isn't it? That was what my argument was. I ma using Christianity? The question is what does Christianity say about it? Very simple. wirinet: |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by Toktee(m): 10:00pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
[sup][/sup]Look at you ford101:Look at you.....I am Tiv by tribe resident in another state married to ESSAN lady from Edo state,she's the best.... But many said that Edo ladies are the leaders in prostitution yet i have gotten a good wife from there. You can say anything about Tiv girls do not also forget that your tribal girls are the same. There's no tribe that is isolated from bad behaviours including your own very tribe. If you doubt me drop your tribe here,wait and see reactions. 4 Likes |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by kevotek1000(m): 10:01pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
edochie12: Your parents won't be unhappy with the news. Congrat and take full responsibility. God is your strength. |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by Toktee(m): 10:03pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
[code][/code] benji93:Can you say for a fact that you have not been involves in premarital sex? More so, do not judge others. |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by wirinet(m): 10:04pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
benji93: Exodus 22:16 "If a man seduces a virgin who is not pledged to be married and sleeps with her, he must pay the bride-price, and she shall be his wife 1 Like |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by IduNaOba: 10:10pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
[quote author=22o62021 post=102558664][/quote] I pulled this Stunt on my mum last year... She was also excited. But when she found out it was a joke she blasted me!!!! She wants me to settle down But money no dey biko |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by Frenzy01(m): 10:10pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
Wow.. I'm happy for you my guy. Meanwhile, make una Patronize my small business pls. I sell and I buy any breed of dogs swiftly at a very reasonable price. I also offer Boarding and pet care services |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by Nobody: 10:16pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
[quote author=22o62021 post=102558664][/quote] Congratulations man! |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by Nobody: 10:16pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
[quote author=22o62021 post=102558664][/quote] Why is this national news Millions of Nigerians engage in uprotected sex and get pregnant every day |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by benji93: 10:25pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
First bolded:I am glad that's the case for you. I suppose I am not in a position to tell you how important marriage is to our communities. Second bolded: The post wasn't about marriage or at least it wasn't clearly stated. He said he told his parents he got a Tiv girl pregnant, and it's actually bad his parents didn't even know about the lady before he got her pregnant, as implied by his post. Third bolded: Bros, you are married man, and i respect you for that, but bringing up your friend's scenario is not useful. Abeg no dey do something like that. 8 out of 10 times you won't marry a woman you sleep with on the first day. I am speaking for the 8 not the 2. I would say it was a terrible decision by both of them then. But well they are married now, all good. They discontinued their sinful activity. We rejoice. Now i am talking about the duration of marriages here. You fumble by bringing this up, bros. That's a whole other thing. In that regard, i would say may God help us choose the right partners. May we be favoured with a wife that will want to live with us till the end and us them. Since you are already in it i hope that's the case for you. Fourth bolded: Please bros, fear God, that's if you believe. The Bible clearly states that fornicators, Adulterers will not see the kingdom of God, that's quite serious if you ask, and no era can change that. Fifth bolded: I am quite disappointed in this statement.So what's the point if our religious believes then if we can't stick to them. I am sorry but you can bring those hormones out of control if you want to. We choose to give in. Our inability to control our emotions doesn't mean they are involuntary. Instead, you could say our morality has just degenerated, but that doesn't change the status of the act.(Sorry for my insistence) Let's will ourselves to avoiding immorality. Safe sex is giving in to our sexual emotions, which is fornication nonetheless I am not saying i am any stronger than others. May God help us. wirinet: 1 Like |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by Harrynight(m): 10:28pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
A son committed a gross sin And the parents celebrate him... Ain't NIGERIANS aware that fornication is a serious sin and having a child out of wedlock is Gross sin |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by benji93: 10:30pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
Nice one, i respect that. 1 Cor 6:9-10. Neither fornicators nor Adulterers nor..................................... will see the kingdom of God. Besides we can still reconcile both since paying the bride price essentially means marriage. You do something inappropriate, then you rectify it. Very simple. wirinet: 1 Like |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by Harrynight(m): 10:31pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
yorubarere: If they started like this OP u mean i should follow such footsteps The guy jus committed a serious sin, that's immorality and the parents celebrate such act! It's very wrong sir! |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by Nobody: 10:34pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
Tiv girl? You get mind. Benue girls are the reason why sex is very cheap in Abuja. You need serious prayer because that tribe love juju and protitution like kilode. |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by Omuuvwie(m): 10:41pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
It's mother's like you that will take their daughter to hospital for abortion because she got pregnant at of wedlock |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by Omuuvwie(m): 10:46pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
kestolove95:. It's bad mother's like you that will take their daughter to hospital for abortion because her daughter got pregnant at of wedlock, |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by Shellsploit: 10:53pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
chatinent: akpịrị ogologo!!! |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by Shellsploit: 10:54pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
[quote author=22o62021 post=102558664][/quote] Sha fix date lemme shoot free wedding video for u.. Thats if you are in Lagos. 1 Like |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by spiralwedge(m): 11:10pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
Everything about an average person revolves around tribe. Can't deal. As positive as this story is, without mentioning, it oozes tribal thisbor tribal that. It is even a big deal and surprise for the op that his parents didn't bother about the girl's tribe. Many tribes have since passed this level. For once, there isn't need for the tribal angle at all. |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by Aboks(m): 11:19pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
Ndukings92: Na jealousy go kill u |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by UwaMmebii(m): 11:27pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
CSTRR: You're right and I love when u said especially if the dad is cool. Girls like their papa well my siblings for instance |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by TOPCRUISE(m): 11:45pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
Premarital sex is now a celebrated thing. |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by khia: 12:07am On Jun 19, 2021 |
quote author=22o62021 post=102558664][/quote] I thought Nigerians loathed the baby mama culture and found them to be the scum of the Earth, at least that's what they tell Americans. |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by bdauran: 12:20am On Jun 19, 2021 |
Congratulations for having a bastard child in your family |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by Emac34: 1:23am On Jun 19, 2021 |
michaelpop50:Are you sure you’re ok?? I’m in Lagos and i see no difference all the girls be wild!!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by Emac34: 1:25am On Jun 19, 2021 |
Dumte:You don’t know sh*t, how many Tiv girls have you met beside who asked you? 1 Like |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by kabillionaire(m): 1:44am On Jun 19, 2021 |
Bringing your personal life online. I hope as things progresses, you will be updating us as well, as we're automatically your in-laws now? |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by LydayBobo(m): 2:21am On Jun 19, 2021 |
[quote author=22o62021 post=102558664][/quote] God bless you and your new family. 1 Like |
Re: My Mother’s Reaction When I Told Her That I Got A Girl Pregnant by willexyaho(m): 2:24am On Jun 19, 2021 |
Just do DNA ! We are tired of some kind stories |
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