Carchoice:



The interesting thing about being a man is, no matter what you did in the past, they must still look for you to come break the kola.

Saphire my dear, if you know you cannot plant and grow penis, stop hating

How? Her adopted father can do that.

ImaIma1:


Where did you get these statistics that most men run when their wives give birth?

It seems you only choose to see the bad situations and stories concerning men. Women give birth everyday and husbands take responsibility for their children.

https://guardian.ng/news/okada-rider-abandons-wife-at-epe-hospital-after-giving-birth-to-twins/

https://punchng.com/my-husband-abandoned-me-since-i-became-pregnant-woman-tells-court/

https://www.whattoexpect.com/family/just-for-mom/husband-left-me-baby-born-single-mom/

The link is endless

Kaybae:
Some uncertainty happen in marriage that it's only the wisdom of God that is needed to sort them out, for the happiness of the child, one will surely want the father to get involved but maybe after the whole celebration individual will maintain their lane, May God see us through.

Not all will surely want.

saphiere:
https://guardian.ng/news/okada-rider-abandons-wife-at-epe-hospital-after-giving-birth-to-twins/

https://punchng.com/my-husband-abandoned-me-since-i-became-pregnant-woman-tells-court/

https://www.whattoexpect.com/family/just-for-mom/husband-left-me-baby-born-single-mom/

The link is endless

What of links of countless men who are with their familes; with their children and wives? Your neighbours, colleagues,family and friends? Those ones don't make your headlines or the news because rgey are not negative.

The men who stay with their families when their wives gives birth are much more than the ones who run. Look around you and stop shopping for negative news about men online.

ImaIma1:


What of links of countless men who are with their family with their children and wives? Your neighbours, colleagues,family and friends? Those ones don't make your headlines or the news because rgey are not negative.

The men who stay with their families when their wives gives birth are much more than the ones who run. Look around you and stop shopping for negative news about men online.

Learning this from you today,.

ecolime:
I just discovered this Ops bitterness against men all over Nairaland.

You must have been terribly heartbroken by a dude or several. You may also have been abused sexually as a child and thus the hatred for men and constant vile comments. Who knows?

It's not the end of the world young woman. You can still start your life afresh. Free your mind from this hurt and pains of the past. Go for therapy sessions so that you can heal properly.

You deserve to be happy. My prayers are with you.

Best wishes!

you will be surprised that this same saphiere is steadily collecting big manba shouting and moaning as she spread her juices all over the mamba then after orgasming she would log in to nairaland to type thrash about men

Rahkman:
you will be surprised that this same saphiere is steadily collecting big manba shouting and moaning as she spread her juices all over the mamba then after orgasming she would log in to nairaland to type thrash about men

lalasticlala mynd44 seun. Rule 2

Hathor5:
Is it for me to allow or not or do my adult children have a say in this too? Rhetorical question.

This girl again

@debbydams

normal normal If its me I won't allow him...


@me
So you will allow your daughter to be married out as a fatherless lady. How will a serious African man marry a woman that has no known father? What will she say to the family that she is married to? It will come back to hunt her in the course of her marriage.

For African men hate or love us there are certain things that will always favour us in our relationship with the opposite sex.

@ImaIma1
.....but them "looking" for someone to come and break kola just because "he donated sperm".


@me
Hahahaha...a donor deserve to be appreciated and receive a decent thank you. With low sperm count everywhere, productive sperm are not easy to get.

If you're typing from another country, you can go ahead with the he marriage without his approval or present.

But if, you're typing from Nigeria, you MUST involve him and some of his relatives,to give their blessings to the new soon-to-be-bride.

It's part of the customs and culture that made up Nigeria.

Vision101:
@debbydams

normal normal If its me I won't allow him...


@me
So you will allow your daughter to be married out as a fatherless lady. How will a serious African man marry a woman that has no known father? What will she say to the family that she is married to? It will come back to hunt her in the course of her marriage.

For African men hate or love us there are certain things that will always favour us in our relationship with the opposite sex.

Stupid father. I would say he is late.

saphiere:
Stupid father. I would say he is late.

Your father did this to u?
Quite sad...Did he sexually abuse u when u were young?

ecolime:
I just discovered this Ops bitterness against men all over Nairaland.

Y[b]ou must have been terribly heartbroken by a dude or several. You may also have been abused sexually as a child and thus the hatred for men and constant vile comments. Who knows?
[/b]
It's not the end of the world young woman. You can still start your life afresh. Free your mind from this hurt and pains of the past. Go for therapy sessions so that you can heal properly.

You deserve to be happy. My prayers are with you.

Best wishes!

At the age of 16, she had her first abortion, you see?
And again, she lives in a separated home.

Rahkman:
you will be surprised that this same saphiere is steadily collecting big manba shouting and moaning as she spread her juices all over the mamba then after orgasming she would log in to nairaland to type thrash about men

she started collecting the big manba at age 14,15/16.

ThiagoKid:

At the age of 16, she had her first abortion, you see?
And again, she lives in a separated home.

Vision101:



@me
Hahahaha...a donor deserve to be appreciated and receive a decent thank you. With low sperm count everywhere, productive sperm are not easy to get.

Kudos to him for his productive unwanted donation. At least today the product of that sperm is making someone proud.

saphiere:
Stupid father. I would say he is late.

yes..but no kid will forgive his mom if he or she finds out regardless of what the mother went tru..like I said if its me oo I won't allow but if I will allow him I'll definitely make his life miserable..wetin I go do dey my mind sha but he won't dare to face me sha

Vision101:
@debbydams

normal normal If its me I won't allow him...


@me
So you will allow your daughter to be married out as a fatherless lady. How will a serious African man marry a woman that has no known father? What will she say to the family that she is married to? It will come back to hunt her in the course of her marriage.

For African men hate or love us there are certain things that will always favour us in our relationship with the opposite sex.

do u think its easy to carry a child for 9months, pains during pregnancy, child birth, nd nursing the child from Creche to university, so one shameless man will now want to sit as a father on his or her wedding day, bible says Kama rii(its imposible) the current hubby will be his or her father,,I Trust that shameless man won't dare face me tho..as a smart mother I'll tell my kid everything,nd I trust the kid wouldn't want him

Why not.

saphiere:
I mean he was no there through thick and thin.
You took in, gave birth and train the child alone. He runs away like most men do once their wives give birth.
Now the child is about to get married and he comes to perform the marriage rites as a father.

Is it proper?
Now here is someone with brains.
God bless you jare

The fact that yours ran away doesn't justify your throwing unfounded statements with no data or statistics to back them up.

If truly most men run away when their wives give birth, then follow up your statement with evidence of the research or survey conducted and the sample size used before the conclusion was reached.

Otherwise making baseless statements as you have done doesn't portray rationality. No offence

saphiere:
Stupid father. I would say he is late.

The way I take hate this girl for this forum nor get comparison.

If you like call seun and all the mods to ban me or block me, dem nor ban my life but den I go knw say corruption don enter here too lik de way e dey eat the country.

Just one man do something to you na u carry your bitter life com dis peaceful forum con dey disturb all the men for here referring to all of dem as de same nd ur fada sef na man including ur brodas join de useless men u dey condemn everyday because of your stupid feminist mentality wey I nor understand.

All ur news na just de bad tins men do without you even thinking of de good side like de care your father showed you, na just to bash men up and down.

Even other feminist I know are more better than you because ur own too much and maybe ur type na dey chyke men for back lik dem Linda Ikeji den.

I know ur father na good man but I just dey sorry for am because of de kind of useless daughter wey he produce nd ur mama na good woman too because if ur mama be lik you, dem for nor born you at all.

Mods,
before you block me or ban me, just review all de negative comments and words dis girl dey always talk about men up and down for here wch I know say some guests don tire to dey read nd do ur judgement fairly.

I dey hardly talk but dis one don too dey unbearable....

saphiere:
I mean he was no there through thick and thin.
You took in, gave birth and train the child alone. He runs away like most men do once their wives give birth.
Now the child is about to get married and he comes to perform the marriage rites as a father.

Is it proper?
Now here is someone with brains.
God bless you jare

There is nothing wrong with is presence there

But I will make sure he doesn't get a penny from that child or me there after
I don't care how he feels about it

Let him feel what I felt when he left me stranded

debbydams:
normal normal If its me I won't allow him...

sorry for yourself