When she dont cum but u cum and u cum again and again and she's yet to cum.... what am I saying

Let me cum and be going .... up Manchester United

zed7:
It's baffling why sense keeps disappearing with every generation. How can a grown man come online and ask for advice for something so glaring.

nnaa, this thing tire me. A lot of childish men. What are we even raising. If he were my brother, i will slap the hell out of him for even asking for advice. Flirt, lesbian, probably prostitute. Maybe tomorrow he will find out she does drugs too. All these are related.

wyt:


for sure man. she was able to open up to me cos she sort of find a friend in me, but she is generally supportive

First if I'm u the talk of marriage should be suspended 4 now plus the premarital sex which is a great sin, try helping her by taking her to a bible believing church so u two can be born again.

I really feel for people like you, you think marriage is something you can just manage by yourself and on your own terms. I wonder where you put the Living God in all these. The counsel you need is God's and probably not the Babel you requested for from a forum like this. No marriage yet and already you are living as husband and wife, you now choose to ask for counsel! Haba!!

wyt:
We have being in talks since January. We met in late February, then she visited me in late March. We started talking of marriage.

Now she is in my house for 4 months as she is doing her IT here. She found out I am not as buoyant as she wishes, as my business is dragging due to stuff I ordered that is coming through sea hasn't arrived, in fact, will arrive in late October or November.

We scheduled to get married last July but due to the financial issue and her parents saying we have to wait till she is done with school we have to change our plan but she is so bitter that she is not getting married as she planned. She will be going back to school in 2 weeks' time. since

Now, I have discovered that she hardly cum during sex, in fact, she hasn't cum while we make love. She once told me she makes herself cum that is before we met in person around February which she promised to stop.

After she found out my finances is not strong, she got back into chatting with men for cash, yes she told me that is how she makes money to survive in school, that she presents an aura of relationship to men and they will be giving her money, and when she is tired or when the person insist in seeing she will block or just fisle out.

Now she just told me she is lesbian, she is cos she can't get pregnant as her father is a pastor and can be satisfied without the risk associated with men/woman relationships. That she is attracted to women though she hasn't done that for a while as she has prayed against it. She still masturbates while in my house.

Note: she has gone to see my parents and I have met hers.

pls i want to know what i can do to stop her all these social immoralities.

Bro, you guys should go see a psychologist.

Give him good Mouth Action regularly I promise you , he will stop

Hmmmm, keep praying for her to stop if you really love her, and if she does not stop, call it quit.

CharisEleos:
"She's generally supportive".. and if she's not??
It's obvious that's what's blinding and keeping you in the relationship that is why you can't see anything wrong in the myriad of behavioral flaws she has. The so many red flags staring you in the face.

She has told you she's a lesbian. Meaning you two are not sexually compatible. So, if you go ahead, you might regret and wish you never did.

Free her. She's not a wife material. I mean for someone who still flirts with other men despite being in a relationship just because her man can't fend for her, it's not worth the fret.
Tomorrow, if the going gets tough, she'll start sleeping around with men for money.

wyt

allow him to marry her na, after all she hasnt done lesb for a long time n besides she only chats guys for money n not sleep with them. She is likely to give up that lesb thing completely wen she bcomes a mama

In David's voice. "Love is Blind and I dey see am for your eyes o"

Southernigbo:
allow him to marry her na, after all she hasnt done lesb for a long time n besides she only chats guys for money n not sleep with them. She is likely to give up that lesb thing completely wen she bcomes a mama

I no hold op o. Just stating my own opinion.

wyt:
We have being in talks since January. We met in late February, then she visited me in late March. We started talking of marriage.

Now she is in my house for 4 months as she is doing her IT here. She found out I am not as buoyant as she wishes, as my business is dragging due to stuff I ordered that is coming through sea hasn't arrived, in fact, will arrive in late October or November.

We scheduled to get married last July but due to the financial issue and her parents saying we have to wait till she is done with school we have to change our plan but she is so bitter that she is not getting married as she planned. She will be going back to school in 2 weeks' time. since

Now, I have discovered that she hardly cum during sex, in fact, she hasn't cum while we make love. She once told me she makes herself cum that is before we met in person around February which she promised to stop.

After she found out my finances is not strong, she got back into chatting with men for cash, yes she told me that is how she makes money to survive in school, that she presents an aura of relationship to men and they will be giving her money, and when she is tired or when the person insist in seeing she will block or just fisle out.

Now she just told me she is lesbian, she is cos she can't get pregnant as her father is a pastor and can be satisfied without the risk associated with men/woman relationships. That she is attracted to women though she hasn't done that for a while as she has prayed against it. She still masturbates while in my house.

Note: she has gone to see my parents and I have met hers.

pls i want to know what i can do to stop her all these social immoralities.

Don’t bring your matter to Nairaland to be solved! Because you can hardly get matured and sound advice here.
According to your description of her, she is bisexual not lesbian as straight. And that is the lots of most women and they will never tell you. Almost all women masturbate, at least nothing less than 60% of them do.
Your woman has demonstrated one very good thing - she has come straight with you. That’s not easy.
The question is does she wants to find solutions to her flaws? If yes, be a friend and support her to find how to get her redeemed. Secondly, do you really like her personality tending to love, then don’t harshly judge her. Often the issue involves psychologically can be very deep and you may need expert to assist you. But the efforts can be rewarding for both of you

wyt:


you don't need to be this hash... anyway thanks for the advise

Someone is telling you the truth and you are saying he is being hash. Since you lack the brain capacity to reason for yourself, others will do it for you. So many RED FLAGS and you still insist on getting married to her. Goodluck to you

wyt:
We have being in talks since January. We met in late February, then she visited me in late March. We started talking of marriage.

Now she is in my house for 4 months as she is doing her IT here. She found out I am not as buoyant as she wishes, as my business is dragging due to stuff I ordered that is coming through sea hasn't arrived, in fact, will arrive in late October or November.

We scheduled to get married last July but due to the financial issue and her parents saying we have to wait till she is done with school we have to change our plan but she is so bitter that she is not getting married as she planned. She will be going back to school in 2 weeks' time. since

Now, I have discovered that she hardly cum during sex, in fact, she hasn't cum while we make love. She once told me she makes herself cum that is before we met in person around February which she promised to stop.

After she found out my finances is not strong, she got back into chatting with men for cash, yes she told me that is how she makes money to survive in school, that she presents an aura of relationship to men and they will be giving her money, and when she is tired or when the person insist in seeing she will block or just fisle out.

Now she just told me she is lesbian, she is cos she can't get pregnant as her father is a pastor and can be satisfied without the risk associated with men/woman relationships. That she is attracted to women though she hasn't done that for a while as she has prayed against it. She still masturbates while in my house.

Note: she has gone to see my parents and I have met hers.

pls i want to know what i can do to stop her all these social immoralities.

Hello brother, good morning. I just read your post now. I have been in that position before I also tried so many techniques. I understand just exactly how badly she wants to get out of this... give me your number bro or your Facebook so we can talk better

If only you can stop having sex with her and take her to church where they serve a living God,and she ready to surrender all.

wyt:
We have being in talks since January. We met in late February, then she visited me in late March. We started talking of marriage.

Now she is in my house for 4 months as she is doing her IT here. She found out I am not as buoyant as she wishes, as my business is dragging due to stuff I ordered that is coming through sea hasn't arrived, in fact, will arrive in late October or November.

We scheduled to get married last July but due to the financial issue and her parents saying we have to wait till she is done with school we have to change our plan but she is so bitter that she is not getting married as she planned. She will be going back to school in 2 weeks' time. since

Now, I have discovered that she hardly cum during sex, in fact, she hasn't cum while we make love. She once told me she makes herself cum that is before we met in person around February which she promised to stop.

After she found out my finances is not strong, she got back into chatting with men for cash, yes she told me that is how she makes money to survive in school, that she presents an aura of relationship to men and they will be giving her money, and when she is tired or when the person insist in seeing she will block or just fisle out.

Now she just told me she is lesbian, she is cos she can't get pregnant as her father is a pastor and can be satisfied without the risk associated with men/woman relationships. That she is attracted to women though she hasn't done that for a while as she has prayed against it. She still masturbates while in my house.

Note: she has gone to see my parents and I have met hers.

pls i want to know what i can do to stop her all these social immoralities.

Just look at what you got yourself involved in. Tufia

saxby:
but masturbation is not a crime na

just like every other illicit sexual activity, its a sin and a social misdemeanor

Guy, firstly check your sexual life is it satisfactory ?
Giving a Lady a good sexual satisfaction is very important in a relationship .
Financially ,how often do you support her in school issues ? Am not saying you should shower her with money but with what you have try and show her love .
With a little financial help you render to her ,how does she appreciates you , grateful of complaining that it's not enough ?

Lesbianism is another problem ,have you met with any other girl before ?
She might be using that to scared you off her ..

I think that is not your own wife ,just relax God will provide you with another woman okay...

Big red flags, you can't save a hoe. From the streets she cometh and unto the streets she shall return.

Run.

wyt:
i appreciate all contributions here. as I have infrared here, I want to be sure I am not hurting her or possibly show concern that I care. if there is actually what I can do to help her to get herself back I will but to my own detriment. she is just less than 24 yrs.
it is a bad parental upbringing. she is in my house and she hasn't do lesbo at least for 4 months now.
i will let her be if there is no way to change her or if she can not accept to change.

Age has nothing to do with experience and maturity it is all about exposure and good parenting. Some 30yr old ladies still behave like kids and lack manners trust me.

Baba40:


She's supporting you financially? If yes, the reason you are feeling tied up. RUN son

NOT at all!!!! pls

My friend, don't listen to these people asking you to leave her.
I believe she can be reformed. You can tame her to your taste in future. It's a gradual process. You can make her reach orgasm easily using pre-intimacy before entering her. And when you do, delay your cum and do some sucking and finger job too while inside her. That way, she would hate her lesbian friend and even stop masturbating.
I tamed my late wife myself and I also taught myself how to make her reach orgasm. She was also very aggressive physically but with time, I made her my better companion and the virtuous woman of my desire. I lost her to an evil stepdaughter who confessed to killing her spiritually via cardiac arrest. She was just 53 this year.
Please my boy, reform her. It should be a gradual thing, but I assure you, you will not regret the choice you made.

wyt:


one of the reasons why I am here. I really need help/advise

Sit down and have a chat with her.

wyt:
We have being in talks since January. We met in late February, then she visited me in late March. We started talking of marriage.

Now she is in my house for 4 months as she is doing her IT here. She found out I am not as buoyant as she wishes, as my business is dragging due to stuff I ordered that is coming through sea hasn't arrived, in fact, will arrive in late October or November.

We scheduled to get married last July but due to the financial issue and her parents saying we have to wait till she is done with school we have to change our plan but she is so bitter that she is not getting married as she planned. She will be going back to school in 2 weeks' time. since

Now, I have discovered that she hardly cum during sex, in fact, she hasn't cum while we make love. She once told me she makes herself cum that is before we met in person around February which she promised to stop.

After she found out my finances is not strong, she got back into chatting with men for cash, yes she told me that is how she makes money to survive in school, that she presents an aura of relationship to men and they will be giving her money, and when she is tired or when the person insist in seeing she will block or just fisle out.

Now she just told me she is lesbian, she is cos she can't get pregnant as her father is a pastor and can be satisfied without the risk associated with men/woman relationships. That she is attracted to women though she hasn't done that for a while as she has prayed against it. She still masturbates while in my house.

Note: she has gone to see my parents and I have met hers.

pls i want to know what i can do to stop her all these social immoralities.

Someone is wrong with her. Forget the masturbation, that's not an issue but she has other issues and she's definitely not mature enough for marriage so don't be faster than your shadows bro

Whatever everybody say here, it does not change anything, you had already made up your mind.
my advice for you is that, just seek for advise from 2 people, 1. a friend of yours 2. a family member of yours, don't hide anything from them, lay it bare the way you ask for advise here.

i believe, if they truly love you they will give you the same advise. is better for you to make hay while the sunshine. in order to avert the story that touch.

This one no sabi anything.


She doesn't cum during sex.
No wonder finances are not strong. Because your spending Your energy Looking for what's not there.

How many ladies cum?
Una Dey craze for this forum o.

She masturbates, did you see?
Or even if she does during sex or sth (touches herself) ... smh you mad ni?

I swear this guy need mental evaluation.

What's the size? What's the duration? Do you give head?
Get out here Abeg. You know nothing.

She doesn't cum during sex!!! No go find work.

VlamesIffect:


Too many red flags.
I'll be real with you.
Look for someone else, going down that path isn't worth it.

Thanks.

[quote author=wyt post=104830232][/quote]

"She wants to change, that why she wants to get married"...

Op, so you believe marriage will change her?

Marriage doesn't change anybody! And you cannot change her.

What you're seeing now, you will see worse when you guys marry.

Unless you have no problem with all these things you've discovered about her, and can live with it.

Otherwise...I see you complaining that you're not happy in your marriage.

This I have seen!

michlins:
you're discussing relationship leading to marriage with a 24yrs?


What's wrong with guys really. There are matured girls out there who have seen it all and want to settle down but you won't look for them. Then you will start complaining about her youthful exuberance.


The human brain doesn't fully develop until 24 or something. Forgotten exactly

Age has nothing to do with experience and maturity. It is all about exposure and good parenting. Some 24yr and even less are more mature and can make good wives and mothers than some 30 year old ladies. Different strokes for different folks.

Leave her alone jor.

wyt:
We have being in talks since January. We met in late February, then she visited me in late March. We started talking of marriage.

Now she is in my house for 4 months as she is doing her IT here. She found out I am not as buoyant as she wishes, as my business is dragging due to stuff I ordered that is coming through sea hasn't arrived, in fact, will arrive in late October or November.

We scheduled to get married last July but due to the financial issue and her parents saying we have to wait till she is done with school we have to change our plan but she is so bitter that she is not getting married as she planned. She will be going back to school in 2 weeks' time. since

Now, I have discovered that she hardly cum during sex, in fact, she hasn't cum while we make love. She once told me she makes herself cum that is before we met in person around February which she promised to stop.

After she found out my finances is not strong, she got back into chatting with men for cash, yes she told me that is how she makes money to survive in school, that she presents an aura of relationship to men and they will be giving her money, and when she is tired or when the person insist in seeing she will block or just fisle out.

Now she just told me she is lesbian, she is cos she can't get pregnant as her father is a pastor and can be satisfied without the risk associated with men/woman relationships. That she is attracted to women though she hasn't done that for a while as she has prayed against it. She still masturbates while in my house.

Note: she has gone to see my parents and I have met hers.

pls i want to know what i can do to stop her all these social immoralities.

Just leave that girl. What else do you want to know about a potential wife? You have all your answers on your table already. RUN

[quote author=wyt post=104830232][/quote]That she wants the wedding more than you means that she loves you; I think you should go ahead and marry her because the fact that she loves you is more important in the union because she can save your life in times of danger.

wyt:


yes, she is. pls i will need more of your suggestion and advice

meaning she dey feed you sometimes, you feel you owe her and you dont want to disappoint her, my guy u better run or fizzle out too.