Hello folks,

Please I really need advice here, I just got married like 2 months away and every thing has been beautiful, have been dating my wife for like 8 years and we only start having sex early this year when we are sure of really settling down, although she rarely spend the night at my place before marriage.

My problem now is no matter how much I try to satisfy my wife sexually, I still see her masturbating, sometimes I wake up at night and would find her hand at her private part while she has slept off. I've confronted her and she said she started the act while in school so that she can remain faithful to me. It's really disheartening to me because I try to satisfy her sexually, I have done all sexual experiment you can think of, I give her Mouth Action for many minutes before penetrating, make sure she cums before having sex with her. I Bleep her so hard till she gets dried and start feeling pains, we have sex almost everyday, but she still masturbates.

I just don't like the sight because it makes me feel am not doing well but it seems its an addiction not about satisfying her or not.

Please I want to know if am the only one experiencing this, please married folks in the house I need your advice....

What can I do Help a brother

Bro, just keep ur dock in her upssy while asleep....
*modified*
Since it's an habit, it may be hard to break, u guys should try cuddling one another to sleep, the habit might just wear off with time, do a little hand holding while asleep...

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You're not a man

By the time both of you welcome baby, she will be too busy for masturbation

Godwinfury:
Bro, just keep ur dock in her upssy while asleep....

U MUST BE JOKING

Biacan1:
You're not a man

AUNTY SMALL SMALL O

Addiction no easy to quit just like that

Slowpoke:
Hello folks, please I really need advice here,I just got married like 2 months away and every thing has been beautiful,have been dating my wife for like 8years and we only start having sex early this year when we are sure of really settling down,although she rarely spend the night at my place before marriage. My problem now is no matter how much I try to satisfy my wife sexually,I still see her masturbating,sometimes I wake up at night and would find her hand at her private part while she has slept off,av confronted her and she said she started the act while in school so that she can remain faithful to me. It's really disheartening to me because I try to satisfy her sexually,I have done all sexual experiment you can think of,I give her Mouth Action for many minutes before penetrating, make sure she cums before havng sex with her,I f**k her so hard till she gets dried and start feeling pains,we have sex almost everyday,but she still masturbates. I just don't like the sight because it makes me feel am not doing well but it seems its an addiction not about satisfying her or not.please I want to know if am the only one experiencing this, please married folks in the house I need your advice....
What can I dohelp a brother

oga you think say nar just to de bang bang de thing de show power be 'satisfy'? you need to help her reach 0rgasm too naaa. Thats what she's getting from doing her own thing.

Meanwhile, when she's dry ....it means she's lost interest in the whole show and stop 'prouding' say you bang bang de tin dry

Tell her that her children will have plastic brain.
She will stop.

If he no be man wetin he can be.....manmade abi.... ...ur wife na German machine, she no dey tire..
I pray she no go kill u because of sex ooo....

cruzita:
U MUST BE JOKING

ma'am do u have a better option?

Biacan1:
You're not a man

Olosho spotted.

Biacan1:
You're not a man

Its this type of people that broaden problems. Furious conclusion on a surface level






Bro its common, many married persons..men and women including pastors are bound by masturrbation and porn especially super introverts. The funny thing abt them why its not wise to conclude in a rush is that they have d tendency to remain loyal than extroverts. Inside every introvert is a freak..that's important to know. And offer her psychy help. I won't say take her to church for deliverance bcus its a prob dat was developed over time by depression, abuse or thereabout.

She has a very high sex drive... It's not a problem, enjoy her as much as possible and let her enjoy herself by herself, when she wants...

In fact buy her mad bunny vibrator

Why do African men make something out of nothing when it comes to a woman's sexual behaviour

There's nothing wrong with a woman masturbating, in fact its very healthy. It releases endorphins that relieves stress, puts her in a good mood and helps her know her body, which is good for her sexual health.

Biacan1:
You're not a man

and when its the man who masturbates?
does the same formular still apply?

Why not enjoy it with her, watch her do it a couple of times and it's will probably turn you on to finish what she started. To curb the habit, you have to help her stop, not stop her. Tell her to call your attention whenever she feels like mastubating and have wild sex with her while she does it or after, make her feel that mastubation is boring without the dick as final destination, with that she will slowly stop given some time. Mastubation is a one time thing as you can't have it everytime unless you are addict, and luckily if she's not, she's gonna love the dual satisfaction psychologically. It's wild world, just thinking out loud.

Since this is her problem next time you see her masturbating help her with the act while you are fully clothed find out what and how she does it and also make the point of the act about pleasuring her ,just for her at that moment. Maybe she will shift focus on you than her self.

I don't know ooo is just a thought

give her to me.
i have a terabyte of porn on laptop.she will masturbate till her fingers fall off

Dimples129:
She has a very high sex drive... It's not a problem, enjoy her as much as possible and let her enjoy herself by herself, when she wants...

In fact buy her mad bunny vibrator

Why do African men make something out of nothing when it comes to a woman's sexual behaviour

....atagirl

Maybe the satisfaction she gets from masturbation is better than the one she gets from sex.

she might be addicted to masturbation but d good news is that u can both enjoy d moment together. get a intimacy gadget mainly vibrator and take ur sex life to d next level and again each time she feels masturbating, let her do it in ur presence, believe me that moment alone watching her will put u on fire and try as much as possible to satisfy her and never forget to vigorously stimulate her center of gravity and use vibrator or tongue on her clit. u will surely come back to thank me.

bigtt76:


oga you think say nar just to de bang bang de thing de show power be 'satisfy'? you need to help her reach 0rgasm too naaa. Thats what she's getting from doing her own thing.

Meanwhile, when she's dry ....it means she's lost interest in the whole show and stop 'prouding' say you bang bang de tin dry

Tanx for that! I used to wonder o! To me, once a lady goes dry, wether cunninglus or sex, I assume she's lost interest or arousal. But, u go dey see guys dey proud


Op, better dont kill ur sef!

Just try incoporate toys into ur sessions. And u need to be more sensitive to her sexual needs. A woman's body evolves, what did it today, might fail in six months.

During mouthaction, let her be d one to demand dick penetration.

Temidayo9:
By the time both of you welcome baby, she will be too busy for masturbation

expatriate

Lovetinz:
Tell her that her children will have plastic brain.
She will stop.

like her plastic act..

BenShammer:
There's nothing wrong with a woman masturbating, in fact its very healthy. It releases endorphins that relieves stress, puts her in a good mood and helps her know her body, which is good for her sexual health.

what about man?

Mustack:

what about man?

Its bad when men do it, you'll go straight to hell

Dimples129:
She has a very high sex drive... It's not a problem, enjoy her as much as possible and let her enjoy herself by herself, when she wants...

In fact buy her mad bunny vibrator

Why do African men make something out of nothing when it comes to a woman's sexual behaviour

haha! this advice won't work oo.a number of naija guys have this old fashioned stance to sex.their own na just to slot in d cassava and after some few humping dem withdraw their tin.MouthAction or kissing na taboo for some. @ op.. When next u notice her finger inside dat place pleasuring herself u slide ur own fingers inside dere too na.is she not ur wife?

Just tell her to stop the act.

Dimples129:
She has a very high sex drive... It's not a problem, enjoy her as much as possible and let her enjoy herself by herself, when she wants...

In fact buy her mad bunny vibrator

Why do African men make something out of nothing when it comes to a woman's sexual behaviour

High sex drive? Yet he fuçks her till her pussy loses wetness?

I will say this is an addiction, a very compulsive one that has become an involuntary action. Where does the urge to keep fingering comes when the pussy is already dried out?

It's an addiction that may need therapy. Although, i don't see why you are bothered tho....