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Please Help My Sister And Her Family by Pinkzebra: 1:50pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
I have to post this and cry out. Is no longer easy for me. My sister is a full time house wife with three kids. Two boys twin and a girl. The boys are 8, while the girl is 10. The hubby was working with one if the numerous companies in muritala muhammed international airport, Lagos When the lockdown started , they were all asked to go home and hopefully when things return to normal work will begin. He works with a sanitation company, I think. During this lockdown it was not easy for them, in fact they ate up their savings with hope that the man will go back to work. Since the lockdown had been lifted , airport has not been the same and the company has openly him and others off. Is been a trying time. My family had been the one helping but truth is, we are not that financially bouyant . We have kids, too. When school resumed, the twins have been out of school and only the girl was asked to go because she was preparing for entrance exams. My nephew's have been out of school. I could only afford sending the girl back. In all of these the man has not been lazy, he has been doing menial jobs even on construction site and this money can only buy staple food. The other day my sister ran to my house in the morning, she said the kids said they won't eat concoction rice again. That's has been their major food. We were both crying . I had to give her some money to make plantain for them. They are heavily indebted to this loan app and this people have been sending embarrassing messages to their contacts. And calling me and others countlessly. Some family members have helped us settle some , but we still have up to four we are yet to settle. They used most of the money in feeding, hospitals and paying their rent when the landlady threatened evacuation. I want good samaritan of nairaland to help them with foodstuff. And maybe help them settle this loan app. And help send back my nephews to school this September. They are open for verification. We live in oshodi mafoluku. Please note, the company keep promising the man to call him back when things return to normal , but we are only hopeful. I am also open for verification Ask me any questions. I put up this with their permission. Thank you. 5 Likes |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by kelvinezeh55(m): 1:50pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
That's why I don't Fancy house wife of a thing 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by Zitania: 1:51pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
Why don't you take a job as a POS agent where you can earn like 30,000 Naira monthly ? 1 Like |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by Pinkzebra: 1:54pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
Zitania: Where is such job located ? My sister is willing to work , we just haven't seen. And lately her health has been an issue , but she said she will manage. Do you have the job ? 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by Zitania: 2:01pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
Pinkzebra: Haba. There are many of such jobs na She can even work from home as a writer and earn as much as 2,000 Naira daily 1 Like |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by Zitania: 2:02pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
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Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by Seniorwriter(m): 2:03pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
Pinkzebra: Which state are they resident? Moreso how authentic is your post.? Zitania:Remain blessed! @SENIORWRITER |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by Lostchild(m): 2:18pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
Please We should live in this life to love and help Those in Lagos should continuously help and strenghten them with food stuff. May Almighty God bless you 1 Like |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by Lostchild(m): 2:20pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
Zitania: What is your problem? Why una no get sense for this forum self ? Why you no help with job since you heavily believe many job are available 9 Likes |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by ahnie: 2:21pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by greenie77: 2:33pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
For your nephews, for them to realistically not stay home this September, encourage their parents to get them registered at the nearest public primary school and when their finances improve, they switch them back to a private school. 14 Likes |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by Pinkzebra: 2:35pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
Zitania: My sister is not a graduate. She is just SSCe holder. I don't think she can write to earn. |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by Pinkzebra: 2:36pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
Seniorwriter: We are in Lagos |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by Zitania: 2:36pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
Pinkzebra: Okay. She can take up POS jobs |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by Pinkzebra: 2:37pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
greenie77: We haven't really consider this option, I will suggest it. But I don't know if the parents will allow the kids do that . I was even thinking we could take them to a far cheaper school . The kids have never been to public school so don't know how this will affect their well being . Thank you |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by Pinkzebra: 2:40pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
Zitania: I will send her details to this number , but she can only do it at oshodi because of the kids. Thank you. They currently need foodstuff to live on . |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by greenie77: 3:08pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
Pinkzebra: Tough times calls for tough decisions. I know the parents may feel embarrased about putting their children in a public school but they are already deep in debts, borrowing more to pay school fees makes no sense. They need to sit down with their children and let them know that going to a public school is a temporary measure to make them be within the school system while they work hard to get back on their feet financially. 8 Likes |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by frozen70(f): 3:51pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
Pinkzebra: To me, you are crying more than be bereaved If they can't go to public school, then they have an option which they have not told you of Even secondary school leavers do teach in schools, they have a place there that matches her WAEC They have to cut some things down till it gets better Change school Get affordable accommodation Stop having kids this period But if within you, you feel they were too good to stoop to low standards, You can raise them, you have the financial powers 10 Likes |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by UDUJ(m): 4:01pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
Pinkzebra: A family that has resorted to seeking for alms to survive should not even be thinking of keeping their kids in private schools they cannot afford. Your post just shows they are not serious. Not trying to be offensive but we should not even be discussing sending them to public c schools because that is the only reasonable option at this point. 10 Likes |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by Mindlog: 4:44pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
"The other day my sister ran to my house in the morning, she said the kids said they won't eat concoction rice again. That's has been their major food. We were both crying . I had to give her some money to make plantain for them"... Kids declaring they won't eat concoction rice and their mother had to run out of the house to go get money from her sister to buy plantain for them, a clear indication that permissive parenting style is what is going on in your sister's home....the children dictates and that needs to CHANGE! I am not surprised they borrowed and owed several loan apps because they needed to keep up appearances. As earlier suggested, let them get the children enrolled in a public primary school near them and they would gradually adjust to the school system. 9 Likes |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by Pinkzebra: 4:49pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
frozen70: I never said they were too good for public schools. Don't read meanings into what I didn't say. I thanked the poster who suggested that and told him we haven't really thought of that. That I will suggest it to the family and hope they take it. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by Pinkzebra: 4:51pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
frozen70: They have long stop having kids . The accommodation they are in us even the cheapest around here . Is not a flat 1 Like |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by frozen70(f): 7:25pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
Pinkzebra: God will see them through |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by Foodqueen(f): 1:03pm On Aug 30, 2021 |
All corners. |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by Lostchild(m): 1:16pm On Aug 30, 2021 |
Foodqueen: What do you mean All corners |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by emmanuelbrown26: 1:45pm On Aug 30, 2021 |
frozen70:Mehnnn I never knew that we still have ladies with brain and sense. Let me just be your crush. U hv said it the way it is, if Op can't do what u asked him or her to do let them bri g money for the upkeep |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by WhiteRuler: 1:47pm On Aug 30, 2021 |
Zitania: Any link to the writing jobs? |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by leksite120(m): 6:57pm On Aug 30, 2021 |
Zitania:How can one run this |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by frozen70(f): 7:49pm On Aug 30, 2021 |
emmanuelbrown26: Exactly ❗ That's it |
Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by Klass99(f): 9:03pm On Aug 30, 2021 |
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Re: Please Help My Sister And Her Family by abimcdssi: 10:32pm On Aug 30, 2021 |
Pinkzebra: Kids adjust faster to situations compared to adults. At age 8, they're probably in primary 2 or 3. Let them enrol in a public school, their mum can make up for the deficiency if there's any. They should hope for the best even though the country barely gives one hope. 1 Like |
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