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Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by merieam16(f): 7:12am On Sep 14, 2021 |
zexy2030:hmm..would like to know more |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by KiNg0G: 7:17am On Sep 14, 2021 |
Oblongata:you are a weak man 1 Like |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by RodgersAkpafu: 7:18am On Sep 14, 2021 |
Oblongata:The bolded is not true |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by litaninja(m): 7:29am On Sep 14, 2021 |
Problem here is you are assuming for everyone. Not everyone needs or desires the companionship you're talking about. Some people want to be alone. Nigerian married people constantly talking nonsense. 1 Like |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by debbydams(f): 7:38am On Sep 14, 2021 |
mirinder:toor |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by bukatyne(f): 7:44am On Sep 14, 2021 |
Fiscus105: |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by bukatyne(f): 7:50am On Sep 14, 2021 |
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Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Modecaih: 7:50am On Sep 14, 2021 |
To be candid I want kids but don't want a wife,, don't like women not gay though.. |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Raalsalghul: 8:00am On Sep 14, 2021 |
LastProphet: Your gba gbos dey make sense. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by bukatyne(f): 8:06am On Sep 14, 2021 |
ahnie: See you fuelling the fire. Most single people (men & women) feel 'lonely' when their inner clock tells them it is 'time' to marry. What curbs that loneliness for most is complete dedication to the service of God e.g. Reverend Fathers/Mother's etc etc. Marrying the wrong person is another set of problems though; more complex than the loneliness of singleness. Then it becomes jumping from frying pan to fire. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Seyong10(m): 8:16am On Sep 14, 2021 |
Oblongata: Mhmm.. DNA is important tho.lol |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Funkybabee(f): 8:16am On Sep 14, 2021 |
vickydevoka: The way you see things is different from mine Biko I have right to ask him a question and I don't give a modafuck about anyone been single Like u said it's a personal decision but using a stylishly insultive to address some people because of decision is what am asking him for. |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Maghan37: 8:28am On Sep 14, 2021 |
Me although not 43 Years old. I have just too many hobbies to feel lonely such as movies, good books, video games, etc. I bearly free time from work to worry about loneliness. |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Truthsoldier(m): 8:37am On Sep 14, 2021 |
;DTruth be told... This marriage thing is not for everybody o The society would want to make you look like if you are not married you are having a medical,mental or even spiritual problem like we see in this part of the world,but that's not always the case,there are some reasons why some persons may decide not to marry; 1.Insecurity concerning the other gender 2.Wrong philosophy about the other gender 3.Previous heartbreak and past experiences 4.The issue of religious celibacy 5.Addiction to work,purpose and pursuit of vision which may take a toll on the person if such a person didn't put a relationship in the picture 6.Excessive pressure which produces a counter reaction But anyways marriage is never biblically compulsory but optionated,it is never a must one would marry,if you can be happy staying alone and single then go ahead,but if you are going to find yourself misbehaving better go and marry. My humble submission 2 Likes |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by RodgersAkpafu: 8:40am On Sep 14, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:Yup |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Sagefromtheeast: 9:16am On Sep 14, 2021 |
Aurelius1: Naaaa... that's sacrilegious to the sanctity of bachelorhood |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by debbydams(f): 9:27am On Sep 14, 2021 |
zero824:hum mm it is well |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by DEMZEE(m): 9:38am On Sep 14, 2021 |
Kingd6th: Women are needed for sex, reproduction, fun, leisure and recreation purposes |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Sunnydoo: 10:18am On Sep 14, 2021 |
duduade: It's never too late to do the right thing. Return back to God genuinely in total repentance and let Him fix your life. Similarly, ask Him the source of your problem in your fasting and prayer time and all shall be revealed to you. Who can do it best as the Creator? He will give u the best and the remaining years of your life shall be filled with joy and peace. So, let your age move you back to God and not force u to human alternatives. Your testimony shall lift souls if you follow the instructions. You can keep in touch if u want. |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Emeka71(m): 10:46am On Sep 14, 2021 |
ahnie:You try. |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by zexy2030(m): 10:56am On Sep 14, 2021 |
merieam16:Work?Lost my job 2months ago, flex? Broke n indebted; womanize? My babe got married to another guy. It is well.that's the brief. |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by foreverproduct: 10:56am On Sep 14, 2021 |
Family is everything |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by ahnie: 11:03am On Sep 14, 2021 |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by gforce5: 11:03am On Sep 14, 2021 |
This lad is trying to guilt trip older bachelors into marriage lol. Don't fall for it. Only get married because you want to get married. Not because of loneliness or what society says. It's just crazy that all Nigerians talk about is marriage, kids and church/mosque. No social activities outside those things. |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by merieam16(f): 11:10am On Sep 14, 2021 |
zexy2030:owwh...so sorry about that, better days ahead.Be positive 1 Like |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by adez2016(m): 11:14am On Sep 14, 2021 |
Oblongata: l can relate. it is well |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Arsenate(m): 11:58am On Sep 14, 2021 |
LastProphet:Just a genuinely awesome comment, boss, and I agree with everything except the emboldened. Some people do have low ambitions and that's perfectly fine, as far as I'm concerned. Not everyone is cut out for high ambitious pursuits, and some just think is best for their mental health if they lead a simple life. |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Kobojunkie: 12:15pm On Sep 14, 2021 |
dfrost:So you are of the mind that bachelors are all selfish beings who isolate themselves from humanity in some way? Nothing wrong with a bachelor adopting kids and raising them as his own. After all he/she is not heartless and has love to give to those who need it. |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Klass99(f): 1:11pm On Sep 14, 2021 |
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Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by Dybala11(m): 1:19pm On Sep 14, 2021 |
Abiababe:What of the older spinsters too? |
Re: Older Bachelors How Do You Cope With Loneliness? by LastProphet: 3:02pm On Sep 14, 2021 |
Arsenate: Hahahaha, but mind you those like the OP are the majority due to the failed educational system, it's just unfortunate |
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