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Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by Pussyassasin(m): 11:15am On Sep 25, 2021 |
Because they might fell unwanted (speaking from experience) |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by Ykc2(m): 11:17am On Sep 25, 2021 |
Those kids will later became adult then they will understand that is better their parents divorced than one to kill the other, If you hate your dad you will later marry a man if you hate your mum you will later marry a woman ,life na turn by turn 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by Suspect33(m): 11:18am On Sep 25, 2021 |
Godfullsam:women, by nature weren't meant to take responsibilities except her child |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by Romanoff(f): 11:19am On Sep 25, 2021 |
Kids who grew up in abusive homes with one parent abusing the other are more than happy about the separation. I know kids who resent their mothers for staying with their abusive dads. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by Janosky: 11:26am On Sep 25, 2021 |
binarymachine: Imagine you were a 9 years old boy & your parents decided to go their separate ways, will you be happy with them? The original plan of God is a family of a man and wife intact with their children. Genesis 1:26-28 & Matthew 19:4-6. |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by Afrikween(f): 11:26am On Sep 25, 2021 |
I never had a good relationship with my mother, I Hate my father but none of this is my fault and I blame both of them...(my naive mother never opening her eyes to see the lies my father told her, and my damned father for always lying to my mother) 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by Omoluabiii(m): 11:27am On Sep 25, 2021 |
Jim99: i experience it when i was a child,, May God deliever us from this women... They re just too manipulative, |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by nokspos: 11:32am On Sep 25, 2021 |
God bless you samuel051: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by Janosky: 11:36am On Sep 25, 2021 |
Afrikween: You have to learn to lift that baggage out of your mind and heart. Your father is every girl's first love (ideally) & her mirror to view all men. Deep down in your subconscious mind, there is the tendency to distrust (lack of trust in ) men because your relationship with your Father is not actually healthy as it should be. It's also vice versa. Men who don't have healthy relationship with their mothers while growing up, they will not easily trust any woman & also harder to fall in love with. Shalom. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by duro4chang(m): 11:38am On Sep 25, 2021 |
raindroup:Not every child will understand . |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by yusluvad(m): 11:40am On Sep 25, 2021 |
You've said it all. But generalizing is a no no. We still have good women... Davash222: 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by duro4chang(m): 11:44am On Sep 25, 2021 |
Skillsnigeria:Na read read you dey do every time. You no get anything to say. Haba! You read read read all the thing wey other people write don dey fade. Fear God o. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by ebicon(f): 11:45am On Sep 25, 2021 |
Davash222: You started well ,I agree she is wrong to deny the child access to the father, but saying it’s Tonto fault is actually wrong , were you in the marriage? how are we so sure the marriage did not bring out the part of her we are saying now. A lot of times it’s the person talking that ends up been bad. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by JB4life: 11:51am On Sep 25, 2021 |
Davash222: So much wisdom from you. |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by sylve11: 11:52am On Sep 25, 2021 |
Sonnobax15: correct. |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by Freelane33(m): 11:52am On Sep 25, 2021 |
Because of what one of the parents implanted into them against other |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by JB4life: 11:55am On Sep 25, 2021 |
ebicon: By their fruit you shall know them. Nobody is perfect,including her ex-husband. But a woman who goes about smoking,drinking,telling the whole world that her hubby is a 40 seconds man,and all that ,will tell you the kind of person she is. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by raindroup(m): 12:00pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
duro4chang:True, but he or she will eventually understand, I Don see many of them |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by Orelafintun: 12:01pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
jasmine1600: I am beginning to agree with this statement with what I am passing through. Marriage is a scam |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by joema443: 12:10pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
The combined love of both parents can't be compare with just one of them at a time. Besides, children go through alot from the separation |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by MummyD2020(f): 12:14pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
Godfullsam: Not all women. U never jam men wey shift blames pass shifts at the hospital 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by okwadatigbogal: 12:26pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
samuel051: Many children from broke homes DO have deadbeat fathers. Yes, there's the place of mothers telling the children bad things about their fathers but this usually stems from the anger of the man being deadbeat in the first place! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by Oladelepedro: 12:36pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
[God bless u=Davash222 post=106147315]The parent with the Kids will always sell bad image of the other parent to the kids. This is exactly what Tonto Dike is doing right now. If the son is not street wise, he might grow to hate his dad not knowing the fault is from his mother. Women are naturally manipulative. Don't allow a woman to solely train your child/children. [/quote] |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by pegix(m): 12:39pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
To be separated is no good atall God bless my mama She's the only one for the 5 of us Now 20 decades gone Though we struggles at times...but God gat us! |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by Midas01: 12:41pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
Lol....as always the supposed "superior" gender keeps blaming and will always blame women for their woes... Keep crying.... Davash222: |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by bepositive11: 12:45pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
Davash222: All women are not the same. Both his father and mother are at fault. Toxic people attract each other. If one partne has issues, the other partner has issues too |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by Davash222(m): 12:48pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
Midas01:Happy Weekend, troublesome Midas. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by Digmygold: 12:58pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
If you had a deadbeat devil like Ubunja as father you would hate him too. Even Ubunja hates his own deadbeat useless father too. Its hereditary . His son will carry.the family tradition on. Kikikikikiki 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by samuel051: 1:05pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
okwadatigbogal:I have seen those from good homes who have hardworking fathers but deadbeat mother who led to the separation.these women are the ones spoiling their ex's to the kids. |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by petitejolie(f): 1:37pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
It's the parent themselves. Wen u can't coparent in peace. Some children even wished their parents were separated because being together was to toxic for the child to live in. So it's not the seperation that's the issue. It's d parents involved in the seperation. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Kids Become Bitter Towards Separated Parents? by petitejolie(f): 1:40pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
abobote:I don't believe this. The best comes from to healthy parents wether they re together or not. Healthy in body, soul and mind. 1 Like |
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