I have realized a woman who goes back to sleep with her ex does not see it as cheating.

Words of wisdom below.

She sees it as a steamy adventure and you all know adventure is fun and intriguing. Hence, she'll keep sleeping with him as long as he is better in bed than you (the current boyfriend) and she won't see it as cheating, but having her regular fun (in your absence).

If you ask her if she has cheated since you started dating her, she'll say no. If you tell her to swear, she'll do it with boldness as long as she hasn't slept with a new guy, except her ex.

Sleeping with a new guy after meeting the current boyfriend or husband is the only thing she sees as cheating. Every other things (sex) with all her previous exes isn't cheating to her, but cruise/no big deal. She'll say to herself, "He has seen me náked before and we've had sex too, so it's not new and it not cheating."

This is the reason infection is on the rise. Also, tasting different dicks is fun and sex is sweet. It's an addiction just like drugs.

Some women now take drugs before sex and this amplifies the "sweetness" and "good feelings" they get during sex.

Any woman who has experienced the "sweetness" of sex under the influence or drugs will always want to repeat it.

In her head, she's saying, "This is the best sex of my life. I can kill to have it all day. It's either ride or die." Truly, she isn't lying. It's either ride or die.

If her current boyfriend is the Churchy or conservative type who doesn't drink, take drugs, or smoke, but she had ENJOYED the sweetness of sex under the influence of drugs with her ex, she'll always run back to that ex to have a repeat of their adventure whenever she is bored, stressed, or has an issue with her current nice guy boyfriend.

Remember, she doesn't see it as cheating. It's reuniting with not string attached. Just pure pleasure. The one she misses.

Mind you, she'll never want this brutal ex to use condom because it will impede the sweetness she's craving for.

That sweetness is addictive and people do things with reckless abandon just to experience that feeling again before they go to bed. Yes, it kills stress and temporarily heals the mind from depression. It's like masturbation. Some people can't sleep without doing it. It's addictive like gambling, computer games, and drugs.

On the other hand, the ex has banged lots of other women without condom. Whatever infection he took from those girls, he'll transfer it to her and she'll finally transfer it to you, the current boyfriend.

Did she cheat on you? No. Why? Because she doesn't see sleeping with her ex or a man she has slept with in the past, before meeting you, as cheating, but as a fun reunion or adventure. Reunion, fun and adventure are not a crimes. Are they?


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grow up man

Wise words. Thumps up

Whazar:
grow up man

Okay, Sir. I will.

All this teenagers self.

I thought nairaland romance section is 21 plus

Argue with the OP if you can, he said the truth.

DeathToAfonja:
All this these teenagers self.

I thought nairaland romance section is 21 plus

All these adults who used their school fees to smoke weed self.

In one of my posts, I talked about the 3 things everyone DESPERATELY needs at all cost and they are

1. Money
2. Ecstasy
3. Pride

MEP

Everyone needs "money" badly, whether they agree or not.

Everyone needs "ecstasy" badly, whether they agree or not.

Everyone needs "pride" badly, whether they agree or not.

I won't talk about money because it's self-explanatory.

Ecstasy is life. It's that extraordinary feelings we get when we are in a state of euphoria. Everyone craves it. Most people get it from drugs, sex, food, alcohol, masturbation, gambling, massage, computer games, passion, etc. Though, mostly from sex and drugs.

The lighter your brain, the easily ecstatic you'll become and women have have a higher percentage of lighter brains.

This is why a woman who was lured by her boyfriend or ex to take drugs with him before sex becomes more addicted to it than the man.

If she breaks up with this guy because of his infidelity or whatever, but the current guy isn't bringing as much ecstasy as they ex, she'll run back to sleep with him at any given chance because she misses those "ecstatically sweet" moments.

She doesn't see it as cheating, but fulfilling her natural desire, you, the current boyfriend, couldn't provide.

To some women, even if you provide this same sweet moments, she'll always want to have varieties and this will lead her to meeting the ex since she doesn't see it as cheating.


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Talking about pride, I don't mean arrogance, but being proud of your victories and accomplishments.

Everyone craves to accomplish something great and this gives them pride even if you decided to hide it with humility. Deep down, you're proud of how far you've come in your journey.

If you were sick and finally got healed, you'll feel something great has been accomplished.

If you're a pastor and your Church keeps growing, you'll feel the joy. Students, workers, entertainers, etc. all crave it. Buying new things bring that sense of accomplishment.

In summary, all these things boil down to one of two things

1. Happiness
2. Peace of mind

Women crave for happiness while men crave for peace of mind.

A woman is ready to destroy your "peace of mind" for her happiness. Conversely, some men are ready to destroy a woman's "happiness" for his peace of mind.

When a woman cheats, she's doing it for her happiness, not for your peace of mind.

She knows if you find out, you're not going to be at peace, but she doesn't care that much — her happiness comes first, her money comes second, her ecstasy comes third, her pride comes fourth, and your peace of mind comes fifth.

As a man, know this and know peace. The earlier, the better.

It's just like when Buhari steals, he doesn't see it as stealing. Does Buhari steal? No. Why? Because everything he stole isn't stealing.

Why? Because all land, oil blocs, money, etc. in Nigeria belongs to the North (as they say), so he isn't stealing — he's only taking what is his.

That is a parody, but that's how Buhari feels and that's exactly how women feel when they hook up with their exes.

She's just doing what is her right with her ex and that is having sex with him whenever she wants because she has been doing it before she met you, so she doesn't see anything weird about it.

Buhari doesn't steal. Women don't cheat. Is that true?

A woman's greatest achievement is her happiness while a man's own is his peace of mind.

These two things actually mean the same thing, but deep down, they differ.

Since a woman is always craving happiness, she'll do anything to get it. If she isn't happy with the sex or money you give her, she'll get it from another man. If that other man isn't doing it right, she'll go for another man again until she finds it.

After years of searching for happiness, but couldn't find (because she ruined the ones she found with her own hands) she'll become a bitter feminist or settle for less and starts teaching younger women how bad men are and how they shouldn't let men be in power or be the head and king of the relationship. All she's doing is to make sure other women's relationships crash.

It's rare to see a poor man who is happy for rich people. Even if they pretend to be happy with the rich men, they're mostly dying of anger or envy.

As a man, if he notices she isn't giving him peace of mind, as long as he isn't under a spell, he'll chase her out (dump or divorce). From here again, she'll still turn to a feminist and starts saying men are scums, yada yada.

How do you want him to keep you when you don't give him peace of mind after he has given you happiness, but the happiness wasn't enough for you? You secretly went out searching for more from your exes and others.

There is one thing I always say and that is: the wiser a woman becomes, the cheaper she gets as long as she's till single.

Do you know cheating is addictive? It's even more addictive when the person you're cheating with is so damn good in bed.

If a woman cheats on you 3 times, she cheats forever even in a new relationship. It's addictive.

iLegendd:
I have realized a woman who goes back to sleep with her ex does not see it as cheating.

Words of wisdom below.

She sees it as a steamy adventure and you all know adventure is fun and intriguing. Hence, she'll keep sleeping with him as long as he is better in bed than you (the current boyfriend) and she won't see it as cheating, but having her regular fun (in your absence).

If you ask her if she has cheated since you started dating her, she'll say no. If you tell her to swear, she'll do it with boldness as long as she hasn't slept with a new guy, except her ex.

Sleeping with a new guy after meeting the current boyfriend or husband is the only thing she sees as cheating. Every other things (sex) with all her previous exes isn't cheating to her, but cruise/no big deal. She'll say to herself, "He has seen me náked before and we've had sex too, so it's not new and it not cheating."

This is the reason infection is on the rise. Also, tasting different dicks is fun and sex is sweet. It's an addiction just like drugs.

Some women now take drugs before sex and this amplifies the "sweetness" and "good feelings" they get during sex.

Any woman who has experienced the "sweetness" of sex under the influence or drugs will always want to repeat it.

In her head, she's saying, "This is the best sex of my life. I can kill to have it all day. It's either ride or die." Truly, she isn't lying. It's either ride or die.

If her current boyfriend is the Churchy or conservative type who doesn't drink, take drugs, or smoke, but she had ENJOYED the sweetness of sex under the influence of drugs with her ex, she'll always run back to that ex to have a repeat of their adventure whenever she is bored, stressed, or has an issue with her current nice guy boyfriend.

Remember, she doesn't see it as cheating. It's reuniting with not string attached. Just pure pleasure. The one she misses.

Mind you, she'll never want this brutal ex to use condom because it will impede the sweetness she's craving for.

That sweetness is addictive and people do things with reckless abandon just to experience that feeling again before they go to bed. Yes, it kills stress and temporarily heals the mind from depression. It's like masturbation. Some people can't sleep without doing it. It's addictive like gambling, computer games, and drugs.

On the other hand, the ex has banged lots of other women without condom. Whatever infection he took from those girls, he'll transfer it to her and she'll finally transfer it to you, the current boyfriend.

Did she cheat on you? No. Why? Because she doesn't see sleeping with her ex or a man she has slept with in the past, before meeting you, as cheating, but as a fun reunion or adventure. Reunion, fun and adventure are not a crimes. Are they?


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So, boss what is your suggestion? We should just look for a virgin to marry or what do u think?

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Tony142:



So, boss what is your suggestion? We should just look for a virgin to marry or what do u think?

They no longer exist. The ones remaining have been raped by their uncles, neighbors, teachers, father's friends, or their fathers.

iLegendd:


They no longer exist. The ones remaining have been raped by their uncles, neighbors, teachers, father's friends, or their fathers.

Hahaha, na to go buy Reverend father form o, priesthood loading....

Tony142:




Hahaha, na to go buy Reverend father form o, priesthood loading....

Best option.

iLegendd:


Best option.

Hahahaha

There is one thing I always say and that is: the wiser a woman becomes, the cheaper she gets as long as she's till single.

What does this mean

Ilegendd

Wahala, everybody wan be relationship expert.