| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by queenfav(f): 10:30am On Oct 25, 2021 |
hahn:
What stupid shame?
The shame of a marriage that never happened or the shame of living with someone who beats you up and doesn't respect you?
Is that the kind of environment you want your kids to grow up in?
Can you stand the shame of having your neighbors settling your fights every time?
Can you stand the shame of visiting the hospital knowing your husband put you there?
Well, no one feels shame when they are dead especially when they die in the hands of someone they love 
Please use your head She doesn't know.I have a relative going thru this now,a marriage of over 21 years.The last beating almost took her life, her kids saved her when he started stranguling her.Sad thing is that these women leave only when they are ready,if u like talk..Na u go turn bad person when dem settle with their honey. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Richy4(m): 10:30am On Oct 25, 2021 |
seyz91:
Bleep that shit
who mrs epp?
you see some people sha are just so annoying
who title epp?
Anyone advising her to go is wasting their time.. I wasted my time telling her around February to go, she refused... Only to create this thread today talking about marriage...
That's her cross to carry.. if she die in the process, we type RIP and move on.. life still goes on
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| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Nobody: 10:30am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.
I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.
I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.
Please call it off Tell your parents or trusted elder. They will know how to handle it. I am begging you. Please don't go through with it. If you do not pity yourself. Pity the children that might come out from that possible union. Please!!! Don't go through with it. |
| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by bluestone2015: 10:31am On Oct 25, 2021 |
You can call it off . It's your choice. Eg. Tell him that you had a revelation that if you get married one of you will die. Insist that you don't want to dey yet neither do you want to be a widow. Keep insisting, tell your family and his about your revelation. Tell them you have been getting it daily since the day the wedding invitation was printed. If you pm me, I can give you 5 more authentic stories. Infact, they will be the ones begging you not to go on. The choice is yours. If I were you, I wouldn't go ahead with the wedding. Obituary is knocking. Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.
I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.
I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.
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| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by bisqit: 10:31am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Iyaebe:
I can call off a wedding few minutes to it if I feel things are not right.Babe fry shame chop and call off the damn wedding,it's better than been a divorcee. how are you zzor? |
| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Lamasta(m): 10:31am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.
I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.
I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.
Its easier to call of a wedding than to get divorcé |
| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by ModelLook(m): 10:31am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Call it off now that it's still early.
A failed relationship is better than a failed Marriage. |
| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by CashVessel(m): 10:31am On Oct 25, 2021 |
What's the shame in being brave? Even the Bible says " a living dog is better than a dead lion" Cancel it and travel out of town to prevent people from begging you to continue. Come back after the date has past. Simple!No try am..oo, say you wan marry in pains. Day wan pass suicide.. It's called 'Living Hell' Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.
I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.
I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.
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| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by TheGreatOne90: 10:31am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Sonnobax15:
Mennnnnnnn, marriage as a union is something that ought to be enjoyed and not to be endured............ Sometimes,most of una dey reason about wetin the society go talk if una take any action about una lives...But op,you dey fail to reason say anyhow e be,if you fail to succeed for that marriage tomorrow,na the same society go still talk say you see the red flags from the beginning but you still put head. absolutely. |
| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Mom007(f): 10:31am On Oct 25, 2021 |
stephenponti:
You have listed your side of the story about your relationship with him, but we cannot judge the case based on one-sided story. We need the story from the other side of the coin so that we can make informed decision to advise you. Are you a good person what made him to lay his hand on you the two occasions, are you in any way being nasty to him, are you rude to him, do you respect him enough as a man or do you deride him based on maybe his financial capability and capacity. Is he faithful to you do you suspect him of infidelity prior to this time, have you accused him wrongly before, Is your mouth very forward in interactions with him? these things are what can make a man raises his hand against a woman. A man wrote this of course! What does any of the above points have to do with anything? If any of the above cases apply, then the man should call it quits not beating her. How would beating resolve anything? If you have issues during courtship, break up. That's why its called courtship. Marriage will not make it better but make any flaws you see 10times worse! Be it cheating, nagging, physical and psychological abuse etc |
| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Klington: 10:32am On Oct 25, 2021 |
With this mindset of yours, you have absolutely no business continuing with the marriage.
A broken relationship is far better than a broken marriage.
Use your number six. |
| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by 1nigeriamyfoot: 10:32am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.
I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.
I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.
It will end in tears Don't be fooled & got trapped Call off the wedding & don't let anybody preach rubbish to your ears Failed relationship is better than abusive marriage The fact that you are not happy now means a lot Don't sacrifice your happiness for anything Let him be & you should relax, take your time & find another man who will gives you happiness I hate men who beat their wifey |
| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Farfalla(f): 10:32am On Oct 25, 2021 |
seyz91:
okay so what the Bleep is hard in canceling a hell union called wedding The need to be a wife supercedes the need to be happy in Nigeria. She'll forego her peace of mind because she doesn't want to be mocked for being single, which is tantamount to having leprosy in Nigeria. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by 15ssDRIVE(m): 10:32am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.
I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.
I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.
Abeg donate your savings to the poor people around you. Since you are about to commit suicide. |
| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by iluvdonjazzy: 10:33am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.
I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.
I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time. Then you are a big fo.ol
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| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by sonofElElyon: 10:33am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.
I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.
I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.
Would you advise someone else to go ahead to marry such a man? If the answer is no then you don't ! |
| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Nephilim: 10:33am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.
I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.
I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.
3 weeks time? It means for 3 weeks you have the power to decide the fate of your marital life. Either you marry a potential wife beater that'll make your home a hell for you or you reconsider. If you divorce, remember God hates divorce. It's better you don't marry at all, than to marry and divorce. 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by seyz91(m): 10:33am On Oct 25, 2021 |
 confirm! na RiP easy pass to type though, we are waiting to epp her with that even though we ain't wishing her bad it's simple as saying she's gradually and knowingly digging her own grave Richy4:
Anyone advising her to go is wasting their time.. I wasted my time telling her around February to go, she refused... Only to create this thread today talking about marriage...
That's her cross to carry.. if she die in the process, we type RIP and move on.. life still goes on
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| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Watty26: 10:33am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.
How I wish u understand that u are signing your death warrant.
Any man who beat will definitely kill.
A broken wedding plan is better than divorce or death.
I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.
I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.
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| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by bluebay(m): 10:34am On Oct 25, 2021 |
My dear, Drop a note explaining all then run far away … that’s my advice |
| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by SATANlST: 10:34am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.
I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.
I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.
TELL US WHAT YOU DD BEFORE HE BEAT YOU. U FUCKERS WLL CAUSE WAHALA THEN COME AND BE FORMING VICTIM |
| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by bigpicture001: 10:34am On Oct 25, 2021 |
This lady didn't tell u guys her major attraction....
The man got money.. and she can't let go cuz of that... Nonsense girls everywhere... Money worshippers 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by seyz91(m): 10:34am On Oct 25, 2021 |
hmmm! right sha Farfalla:
The need to be a wife supercedes the need to be happy in Nigeria.
She'll forego her peace of mind because she doesn't want to be mocked for being single, which is tantamount to having leprosy in Nigeria. |
| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by bisqit: 10:34am On Oct 25, 2021 |
MrBrownJay1:
may i ask: and how long have you dated the above monster you described?!?1
my dear, be very careful and also think of your possible FUNERALS in the hands of that violent man.
would you rather be ashamed and alive OR....
choice is yours!
NIGERIANS!!!! THIS DESPERATION FOR MARRIAGE AT ANY COST NEEDS TO STOP!!!! what's happening to PSG? |
| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by iluvdonjazzy: 10:35am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.
I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.
I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.
then you are a big fo.ol |
| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Riscawendy(f): 10:35am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.
I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.
My dear 2 weeks is enough time to call off the slavery you about to enter into.
Just call any of your relative or friend outside your city, explain everything to the person beg him or her the allow you stay with them.
Then send a message to your parents and unfortunate husband to be, that you are not interested again. Then SWITCH OFF your phone, never disclose your location else they will come for you.
You are better off a living "miss" than a dead "Mrs"
I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.
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| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by FlipModeSquade(m): 10:35am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Truvelisback:
Who? Lol.. I thought you are a WWE Fan.. My Bad..  
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| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Farfalla(f): 10:36am On Oct 25, 2021 |
stephenponti:
These things are what can make a man raises his hand against a woman. Nobody, male or female, has a right to be violent towards another person. Nobody. |
| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by ndividual: 10:36am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.
I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.
I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.
You're wasting our time writing this, when you could have used that time to RUN! |
| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Grandmeister(m): 10:36am On Oct 25, 2021 |
wunmi590:
As a married man, one of the things I have always prayed for is never to raise my hand to beat the mother of my kid, who go through alot to bear me my kids (never will I fo that)...
Please, that marriage is not for you, because marrying him would give him more leverage to best you more at will, knowing fully well he has paid your bride price...
Even to beat the girl you're dating or courting is wrong. I guess the major reason OP is sticking to the man is because of money. That is one aspect she didn't complain about in her write up. There are loving and supportive men but they usually go for the one with a better house and car..women today are terrible at choosing a good mate. |
| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by TheGreatOne90: 10:37am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:
Did you read her OP at all?
Shame is her reason for not calling it quits with her alleged Panelbeater of a man!
All this nonsense parents and society induced shame. Mothers are never suppose to allow there daughter get married to such man. But am sure they will be more concerned about what people will say. Marriage is suppose to be a union, between two people that really want to be together, not because there parents or the society thinks they should be together 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by mudiana(m): 10:38am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.
I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.
I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.
madam my sister in-law right now wishes she was in ur shoes. she would have not married my bro. I wish she didn't get married to him too. Hell is an understatement. People won't help u in marriage. So their opinion about Ur life doesn't matter. |
