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Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Helkayklassic(m): 7:40pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Aaronsrod: Omoooooooo. Hmmmm! 4 Likes |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Ofadaman(m): 9:38pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
The world has change sir,it might be your wife who even takes you away from this country. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Benrosaria(m): 9:39pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
ednut1: The problem we are facing in this world today is cause of man and woman. I wish to be the mediator between these two. The Bible bleeped with the system saying woman was made from man. Big bullshit. We are all equal a woman is necessary so as a man is necessary without whom we can’t multiply. Inequality should be equally addressed for peace to reign and for ultimate happiness to transcend amongst all humans with different races 11 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by kelvindj98: 9:39pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Aaronsrod:Keep all those bible verses in ur shithole country 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Maski87: 9:43pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
No regrets for me,I was a banker before I fled Nigeria to UK things were really hard for me us and our 4 children until my wife started sleeping with this big yoruba man that she was cleaning his house,now na serious enjoyment we dey do,my friends are now saying the didn't know that we have money 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by horlabiyi(m): 9:43pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
I’ll read every comment on this thread cos � 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by kurlz(f): 9:43pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
ednut1: You are the first person I see speak the truth on this Naija married couples abroad. Are you sure you are a man. Hnnm, if really you are, then you are a rare gem. And really commendable. 43 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Incandescent(m): 9:43pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Aaronsrod: Rule kill you there 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by smartasuen(m): 9:43pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Of course I don't, infact, I CAN NEVER!!!! Simply cos 1) I'm not married 2) I dey Ado Ekiti. 3 Likes |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by anbel(m): 9:44pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Right thing is to be with your family in greener pastures . If you or your wife messes up then the reality has just materialised. 4 Likes |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by ipobarecriminals: 9:44pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Some of these Naija men that take wife abroad are Evil.Some will use their wife like rag(sex slave) Wen they get tired, they'll find excuses to break up.Some will even file for divorce here in Nigeria while dey both live abroad 5 Likes |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Livesimple: 9:45pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Please keep the comments coming we are waiting 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by HERSLEY(f): 9:47pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
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Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Kingstanding: 9:47pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Differentiate:. Some men don't like to take their wife to abroad but the same men will be happy when the husband to their sister's want to take her abroad. Africans still have long way to go. 44 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by takimsipho(m): 9:47pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Especially when you were abroad and you came back home to marry a submissive wife you want to use and do anyhow and then it back fires. Most of those women married those men as a means of economic security not because they really loved them. And trust me, even if a naija girl doesn't love you, she will sha marry you to help herself. Just avoid leeches and know that no 21th century woman is olodo. Don't think you can treat them anyhow and expect them to be docile. 36 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by salford: 9:47pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Nope. we are a power couple. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Incandescent(m): 9:48pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Aaronsrod: You'd be caught and heavily disgraced. 24 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by salford: 9:48pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
double post. |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by abbey621(m): 9:48pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
In this life everything na 50% planning 50% blessing. I no date my wife for up to 6 months before I decided to marry her. Brought her to the USA and aside from the normal arguments between couples, no wahala whatsoever, it's been over 5 years now. The greatest advice here is to ask yourself, who does the woman fear or respect? Look at her upbringing, her religious inclination, her views on life and family. It's quite simple, any woman can mess up for any reason, it is a combination of hormones and nature, the key here is what exactly pulls her back to normalcy? Her parents? God? Love for her kids? Love for her husband? If her motivation is money, clout, fame etc, sooner or later the little love that she has for you would poof and disappear, she would find every reason to leave or destroy you from 30 seconds man to woman beater. Abroad no be 9ja where gra gra works, over here you must operate in stealth mode, never ever put all your eggs in one basket. Even tho you love your wife with all your heart, always have savings/assets set aside for the worst case scenario.....May God help us all! 129 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by 15ssDRIVE(m): 9:49pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Differentiate: Mexicans, Eastern Europeans and Asians. You Bleep up for USA. Hey surely riddle her parents body with bullets. |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by WoundedLamb: 9:50pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
The truth is, there are thousands of couples living here without issues. Basing your conclusions on these few stories (normally narrated by mean who can't adapt to the system) is rather ridiculous cause marriages fail everywhere. Again, if you take your time to follow up on this stories, you'd see they're mostly propagated by men who have refused to be realistic with thier expectations. Here, your wife works as much you as you do, how can you expect her to serve you the way Nigerian women with menial jobs serve thier husbands at home? How do you expect her to do all the house chores alone? You hit a lady and she reports you to the authorities, and then you start saying bringing a woman abroad is a terrible idea. What were you expecting? You cheat and you want her to stay put cause you brought her abroad? Please, just go and price slaves. 71 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by smartasuen(m): 9:50pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Aaronsrod: My brother by 'left the planet', do you mean repatriated to Naija or what I am trying not to think? Let us know now o, so we think of ways of saving ur new woman from you. 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by kolnel: 9:53pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
I won't advise anyone to bring a wife here. 90% of couples who migrated here get divorced within years. yeah, I do know few who are still together, but its a game of chance. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by juman(m): 9:53pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Differentiate: Not only blacks. It happen in all races. More common among white than blacks. If you are in a country with standard judiciary, behave accordingly. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Nobody: 9:53pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
I was almost in this position but the reverse was the case , she had an advantage because she had a nursing degree and the thought of starting all over again didn't sit well with me. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Haakeem(m): 9:55pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
smartasuen:this was what i wanted to ask him exactly. 4 Likes |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Goldbw122(m): 9:57pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Rented |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Sterope(f): 9:57pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
It goes both ways. In some relationships, some men are the retards and in others, it is the women 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by ednut1(m): 9:57pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
kurlz:i be man o. I saw it alot in uk, seeing it in canada too. Double standards from both parties. Both want to enjoy benefits of Nigerian society and uk own at same time 28 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by kaymart: 9:58pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Maski87:Is this a joke? 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Amanda4life: 9:58pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Aaronsrod: ONE DAY YOU WILL SOON LEAVE THE PLANET TOO 14 Likes 1 Share |
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