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Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by HoneyWholesaler: 6:12pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Should "sex drive" really be a major factor when considering compatibility in relationship?? As we give our honest answers, let's consider these: 1) The pro "abstinence till marriage" 2) Sex drive level can increase/decrease. Have you heard complaints like "now my partner craves more/less sex than before" So the drive isn't constant, cannot really be dependent on...it can fluctuate/change...due to several factors. So you might feel compatible at the beginning, but what then happens when your partner's drive drops/increases immensely later on? Will you leave him/her? (P.S. See my signature) |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by HoneyWholesaler: 6:13pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Many use sexual compatibility as a guiding force in gauging how “right” a relationship (or potential relationship) is. |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by Nobody: 6:27pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Of course or how do u intend to cope when u marry someone ur not sexually compatible with.. Avoid wahala o 2 Likes |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by Nobody: 6:29pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Hmm I think it should be because I've been reading a lot of divorce stories due to sex and married women are complaining too much of not been sexually satisfied 1 Like |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by iamtardey: 6:29pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
sure yes |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by Davash222(m): 6:37pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
I'm sexually active. I cannot love, date or marry you if your sex game is poor. 7 Likes |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by Opeyemiextra(f): 6:40pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
It should be because most marriages these days crash because of it. But for people who are not sexually active, how will they know. Nobody should drag me o because I'm tired. 1 Like |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by HoneyWholesaler: 7:05pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
But.... 1) Do you know that sex drive level can increase/decrease. Have you heard complaints like "now my partner craves more/less sex than before" So the drive isn't constant, cannot really be dependent on...it can fluctuate/change...due to several factors. So you might feel compatible at the beginning, but what then happens when your partner's drive drops/increases immensely later on? Will you leave him/her? 2) How about the pro "abstinence till marriage" 1 Like |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by Olarsview: 7:05pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Opeyemiextra: If the two parties are virgins,sex drive will be on same frequency after marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by HoneyWholesaler: 7:06pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Olarsview: I doubt it works like that 1 Like |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by Olarsview: 7:10pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
HoneyWholesaler: If A had many sexual intercourse with different styles more than B it will be difficult for B to meet up with the sex drive or demand of A If you know the promiscuous past of your partner will you count yourself compatible with him/her |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by Fiscus105(m): 7:14pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Olarsview: You think so? No Libdo has nothing to do with being virgin or not. Lady with high libdo will crave for more sex after disvirging IF husband is poor in bed. Thou sex with different partners (girl and boy) before marriage can alter libdo. 1 Like |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by Deborah98(f): 7:15pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Yes but some of us were told to abstain from it till wedding night. There's no excuse as to why you aren't sexually active even if you abstained till marriage. There's always a way around this. |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by Olarsview: 7:16pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Fiscus105: Depends on the perspective you want to look at it. |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by helinues: 7:16pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Of course, one of the best possible reasons why some people cheat. |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by HoneyWholesaler: 5:37am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Let consider these 2 questions: 1) Sex drive level can increase/decrease. Have you heard complaints like "now my partner craves more/less sex than before" So the drive isn't constant, cannot really be dependent on...it can fluctuate/change...due to several factors. So you might feel compatible at the beginning, but what then happens when your partner's drive drops/increases immensely later on? Will you leave him/her? 2) How about the pro "abstinence till marriage" 1 Like |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by HoneyWholesaler: 5:39am On Nov 13, 2021 |
killmods: Hmm...buh take a look at my question above |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by HoneyWholesaler: 5:42am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Iyaebe: But do you know they could have felt compatible at the onset Take a look at my question above this post |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by Boogyman557: 5:56am On Nov 13, 2021 |
holly Gram WTF MAN |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by wunmi590(m): 6:05am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by anochuko01(m): 6:26am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Opeyemiextra: Even as one who isn't sexually active, judging from the way I feel and think, I'm sure I'm gonna like s*x. I can't wait this long and still deprive myself when I finally get married . I'll surely let my wife know I'll be going on a spree, and the feeling has to be the mutual Above all, marry a person that's understanding coz things could also change with time. |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by 90skid(f): 6:50am On Nov 13, 2021 |
sex is extremely important in marriage,in as much as food is important it hard to see a man get mad if another many eats what his wife cooks, he might even offer him but he can never share his woman.Sexual compatibility is most important 2 Likes |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by prettysassygirl(f): 7:29am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Big yes 1 Like |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by debbydams(f): 7:35am On Nov 13, 2021 |
HoneyWholesaler:hmmm |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by Boogyman557: 7:37am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Holly Gram real matters. WTF MAN |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by HoneyWholesaler: 9:05am On Nov 13, 2021 |
True "marry a person that's understanding coz things could also change with time." anochuko01: |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by HoneyWholesaler: 9:09am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Iyaebe: Lots of times, things do change with time |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by jaxxy(m): 10:02am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Iyaebe: Sex is important Bt even good sex can’t keep a marriage. Sex is just 20/30 of what helps the marriage work. If other things aren’t in place sex will become meaningless. |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by Nobody: 10:24am On Nov 13, 2021 |
jaxxy:Well,I agree. |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by Opeyemiextra(f): 12:47pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Understanding in marriage and relationships in general is so important. It makes things a little less difficult when we do things from this point. anochuko01: 1 Like |
Re: Should Sex Drive Also Be A Major Factor When Considering Compatibility/Marriage? by Biglittlelois(f): 6:47pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Davash222: I'm assuming you are sexually active with a white woman, since you're a well known hater of Nigerian women yes? 3 Likes |
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