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Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by havigold(f): 3:04pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Kriss216: You should be tag as juvenile delinquent ... Who lacks sense of direction and suffers from MPD stage 5..... Sometimes you should learn the attitude of " keeping silence when you do not know the subject matter." 11 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by Bmaster(m): 3:05pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
chatinent:Lol See you when you graduate |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by YorubaIsCursed: 3:05pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Nairalanders really missed me 8 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by aviationguy: 3:06pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
We dated for like 5 years, everything was going very good until 3 weeks to our wedding when all plans are in top gears we discovered we are both As the pains is unbearable but we have to shut down all the plans because of the future pains. I decided I have to stop the wedding although my woman believe miracle can happen but I told her is better we don't know than claim ignorance due to our selfish love...the future is bright. But Glory be to God Almighty we are both happily married with wonderful children. 65 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by slivertongue: 3:07pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Guyman02: Matured mind, matured approach 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by jcent2611: 3:10pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
relationship does just work spiritual rather via GODLY spirituality.... 4 Likes
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Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by Issues40(m): 3:10pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
I dated Blessing for three years. She took in and was scared. She had this strong reputation in church and amongst her peers. I assured her I was happy with the pregnancy and told her to keep. But I could tell she wasn't. She had her reputation to protect. Sensing that, I quickly moved to engage her. I put a ring on her and told her I wanted us to start planning our introduction. I guess it all happened so fast. She asked for space to think all of what was going on. Only for her to show up after three weeks telling me that she had aborted the child. I was down and heart broken...... Thank God I've got a good woman now. 61 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by wisdom042(m): 3:13pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
She ran with the engagement ring 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by PanickMode(m): 3:14pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Femails whys Issues40: |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by njelrapheal: 3:14pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Guyman02:wow. Please can i share this. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by larryking540: 3:17pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
MEGA4BILLION:abeg go sit down ,this is how u date without a purpose and scream broken marriage is better than broken engagement ,when u have not invested in a relationship u can easily say that shite 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by cooltola(m): 3:18pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Proverbs 21:9 Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.” 14 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by daxon001(m): 3:18pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Guyman02: so what then is OKafor's Law 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by larryking540: 3:20pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Guyman02:na man u be bro,,, 6 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by njelrapheal: 3:20pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
eddykaka:mehn. Why did she not tell him what the uncle said earlier. Some ladies sef. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by Slickbishop(m): 3:21pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
I have dated three Nigeria gals and don't find them worthy at all.bad character,so materialistic,just after the money,besides,I have not found love yet but all I see from these gals is their desperation for marriage.i want a lady that we both can stand the test of time and not the one I will marry and then start chasing other gals our there 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by larryking540: 3:22pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Kriss216:come and learn about relationship how people jeopardize their relationship in the name of irrelevant things that will never exist few years to come. |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by saintftm(m): 3:23pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
We got engaged, I met her Pastor everything was fine until she called it off without explanations. The Pastor called me to apologise for the breakup... still without any reason. In less than 2months I saw her Wedding pictures on Social Media. I called to blast her and she kept apologising and confessed of lots of regrets. I had to let go. 6months after the Wedding BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM she gave birth and that explaind it all. 44 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by niyialama: 3:23pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Yes, I have been. She was from an average well to do family and we used to be family friends, I was a disabled guy who resides abroad. We met online and she subtle impressed me, came over to visit and I was spending on her and family. Cajoled me to come over to do introduction but after that, her mum and dad was not pleased with my condition and she found an excused to go for the guy she's been seeing whilst with me. Life for you. 51 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by Wakando: 3:24pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
FalseProphet1:She was about to travel abroad, I spent more than a million naira on her trip. I engaged her, and she left shortly after. A few weeks later, her father called to tell me to stop bothering his daughter and that I was too poor to be his son-in-law. 51 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by larryking540: 3:24pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Slickbishop:,, because they are not working man ,look for a Nigeria girl that is working ,let me shock you ,most Nigeria ladies u will meet over sea get hooked up on Nigeria guys back ,man look for a working class Nigeria girl ,that knows the value of relationship not the name shouting you get money 6 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by house10s: 3:25pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Magnoliaa: as in u no get money n he reminds u alot ur behavior he hate apc u like apc u nah muslim he be pagan u b lez he b gay |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by sassiemyk: 3:28pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Discovered she is a Lesbian too. I mean full blown Lesbian. I spend over 3days bathing myself feeling like I'm defiled... 38 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by larryking540: 3:28pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
inumidun2010:see u ,u see woman way fit kill for you,u know happy ,okay ,I pray make u marry who u too love pass the way she love you or regard you ,may be u go think back |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by Sunday2021: 3:28pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Zendinho:bubu is not your problem. I can confidently tell you that if the Constitution allow for 3rd term buhari will win. All your propaganda since 2014 is useless. Your governor is owing civil servant 23 months, go and meet him. Buhari is not your governor Buhari is not your senator Buhari is not your rep Buhari is not your assembly member Buhari is not your chairman Buhari is not your councilor. You can use the lagoon if you are not happy with Buhari. 5 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by 8BitGee(m): 3:28pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Yes, we started dating in 2016, did our introduction in 2018, and we were due to get married in 2019 after waiting so long, but the event had to be moved forward due to the pandemic. We were a power couple and people liked us together. Expensive gifts and surprises, flowers, romantic getaways to remote islands, it was a jolly ride. Late in 2018, she started behaving funny which of course I objected to, perhaps too strongly. I guess she had cold feet because she said she wouldn't have considered marriage at all if not for me. Anyway, she started bringing up the issues we had in the beginning and had supposedly resolved. We hired a Nigerian-Canadian counselor who tried to help but my ex fought with the counselor in the end because she said "the counselor took my side". I started exploring other options after this. And oh, we would have been married before 2019 if not that their side kept giving excuses to not hold the event. I guess she was ultimately not ready. I was the one that was ready to be married. Needless to say, I was devastated. I can't say I was blameless in all. We didn't have infidelity issues, it was just behavioural differences. I loved her so much, I was willing to adjust, come to the middle and also get my concerns listened to. I learnt a lot from the relationship and I'm happy that I'm a better man today. 67 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by larryking540: 3:29pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
ashawopikin:u go die for nothing bro,,na man way never knack before go think say na dick they take they control woman ,bro only in bed you can do that shite ,after all the bedding she is back to her crazy mood ,I have seen alot 64 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by larryking540: 3:32pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Phoenixk:,sorry to ask if his dick was small ,where u a virgin when u met him? ? no insult if he comes 10s are there no medication in the market to encourage him to use ,or u need a man who is already prepared by another lady sexually and u take him immediately ... build your man sweet sister . for the documents forging I have no idea of that 3 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by pocohantas(f): 3:34pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
FalseProphet1: Of course it is brainwashing when you men are at the receiving end, but let your mother reject your fiancee and you would dump her in seconds because what an elder can see sitting down… So a Nigerian woman in Nigeria, who is not even regarded as a member of the family she is marrying into. Who is seen as disposable. Should marry you without the support of her family because she LOVES you? Same love that would make you cheat on her because men are polygamous in nature. Only a very foolish lady without a strong family tie will do that and only a more foolish man would expect a woman to go against her family to prove she loves him. When he starts dealing with her, she will know the importance of her family and run back home. They always do. Toor! Love indeed. No Naija woman should try to prove any nonsense love to a Naija man. 52 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by larryking540: 3:35pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
havigold:advice him my dear,,, |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by Nobody: 3:35pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
All the comments have been reading na women Dey serve the breakfast women whyyyyyyyyy.... 1 Like |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by larryking540: 3:35pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Milan79:then date with purpose,if not make it know to the other party 3 Likes 1 Share |
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