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Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Klass99(f): 9:51am On Dec 25, 2021 |
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Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by CaptainAyub: 9:54am On Dec 25, 2021 |
Mac12:At a time,no time 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by CaptainAyub: 10:08am On Dec 25, 2021 |
RodgersAkpafu:You are the man!! I've made a vow that I'll give my children d best,even sell my kidney for them if need be but their mother can never hold me hostage because she has children for me. Lai lai,won't work. |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by CaptainAyub: 10:11am On Dec 25, 2021 |
1Sharon:True. But also,there's hardly a married man that ejaculated 3 days ago and is sure he will ejaculate again if he asks for that will start engaging in d stress of chasing women outside. Leave ooo,lots of men are suffering in their marriage but you know men hardly complain of such things. |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by HRprof: 10:15am On Dec 25, 2021 |
CaptainAyub:Bros na 10k you want spend on olosho for one night, the money you refuse to give your wife for her upkeep, is easier said than done. When you calculate 10k into 5 times Olosho spending Your body go tell you that is cheaper to maintain a wife than to have side chicks or do olosho runs 1 Like |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Dozie32(m): 10:17am On Dec 25, 2021 |
Daveambition: No be for everybody bro. |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Klass99(f): 10:30am On Dec 25, 2021 |
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Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by JustforMen: 10:31am On Dec 25, 2021 |
LagosInter: In my few years on earth, I have found out that love and faithfulness are as much a question of the will as it is of the heart. In other words, if you make up your mind to love someone, you would love them. If you decide to be faithful to one person, you will be. And you love someone not because of what or who they are but usually in spite of that. Love actually constitutes respect, kindness, affection, loyalty and honor in addition to physical attraction. Yes, you can marry and love one woman faithfully, if you find the right person. I tell you a story, I met a girl when I was serving. She was a sales girl at the NYSC camp then. She just liked me and I liked her more like a brother. When I finished camp and was posted to another LGA she got my number from a corper friend and called to ask why I went away without caring to inform her. We got talking. I helped her to improve herself and further her education. At the end of the service Year, we had developed a strong bond. Went I wanted to settle down, I asked her out and she agreed to a courtship. I was in another country. After sometime, I couldn't reach her. We lost communication. Fast forward, 15years she called me on an old naija number which I had forwarded to my number. We started talking again. She was already married with a child and I was married too. I tell you something, I still love this girl and she loves and respect me too. I still help her with advice and guidance on how to cope with her marriage. And she trusts me with her deepest secrets. She calls me her elder brother and we have a bond of respect, kindness, loyalty and affection. Nothing sexual at all but I know deep down that she is a good woman and only that fate did not allow us to be married. I still deeply love her and it is mutual. So love can be deeper that all the superficial, outward attraction we see. Sorry, for the long irrelevant Tory. 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by CaptainAyub: 10:37am On Dec 25, 2021 |
HRprof: |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by BluntCrazeMan: 10:39am On Dec 25, 2021 |
Or11:That's too extreme on her side naa.. You been dey help her before Naa. And just because you forgot because of how things be for you, she start to starve you?? She's too manipulative abbegg. |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by CaptainAyub: 10:47am On Dec 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:The urge for sex is a primitive reflex,just like a child and even adults will spread out their hands when thrown in the air or to break a fall. If yours are diminished or you have successfully suppressed it,don't blame others who have a natural urge for it. I don't support premarital sex but a man/woman should be able to get it reasonably enough in marriage. |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by CaptainAyub: 10:50am On Dec 25, 2021 |
Ninisun:Very possible, especially for a man who has no scruples cheating |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by CaptainAyub: 10:53am On Dec 25, 2021 |
Ninisun:Are women created to be incapable of being romantic and initiating sex? Na this type of manipulative tendencies una mothers use kill una fathers early. The man must be at fault somehow somehow. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by CaptainAyub: 10:58am On Dec 25, 2021 |
eminemkayc:Kudos,that's d spirit. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by CaptainAyub: 11:07am On Dec 25, 2021 |
Mac12:Ma,also talk to your husband in a cool,calm manner and seek for him to help you out with the home chores Tell am say d stress is getting to you oooo(cite your chronic back pain)and say you might collapse and go one day(God forbid). Ask him if he wants to raise the children alone or with another woman? If he doesn't make amends,just know you married a hoodlum , then you can start other plans like getting a househelp or preferably a young relative to live with una. That's an extra mouth to feed but the relief will be much. You can enrol him/her in public school to save costs 1 Like |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Loreettaa: 11:07am On Dec 25, 2021 |
cooooooks:Merry Christmas boo 1 Like |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by CaptainAyub: 11:12am On Dec 25, 2021 |
komodapson:Meihn niggaarrr. You is an alpha Your momma raised no simp! |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by CaptainAyub: 11:17am On Dec 25, 2021 |
Kellzzyy: I tried,God knows I tried |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Mac12(f): 11:26am On Dec 25, 2021 |
CaptainAyub: Lol..., you got me laughing hard. Hubby is not so demanding sexually, I'm just trying to explain why i complain of bein tired when he ask for sex. |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Mac12(f): 11:29am On Dec 25, 2021 |
CaptainAyub: I have talked to him. We are looking for a help presently |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Mac12(f): 11:30am On Dec 25, 2021 |
CaptainAyub: Lol, keeping side chic no easy o |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by CaptainAyub: 11:42am On Dec 25, 2021 |
Mac12: Ok. Merry Christmas ma'am. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Mac12(f): 11:44am On Dec 25, 2021 |
CaptainAyub: Same to you dearie❤ |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by CaptainAyub: 12:05pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
Mac12:Na stress òoo. Sorry 4 my long talk,have a pleasant day ahead and guard your health jealously ooo,na 30-45yrs old full neurology clinic now due to CVA(stroke) I'm guarding mine by getting myself a side chic |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Mac12(f): 12:18pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
CaptainAyub: Lmao... I'm literally crying from laughing so hard. Same with me o( any style hubby want sef, i dey game) but as the pressure from marriage set in, i gat to adjust. It's not been easy at all. Not like I enjoy it but it's the situation we found ourselves presently. We are gradually coming out of it. |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by CaptainAyub: 12:42pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
Mac12:God knows I tried. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by litaninja(m): 12:46pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
How is calling one's husband and telling him I'd like you to help out around the house "nagging"? Kobojunkie: |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Mac12(f): 1:01pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
CaptainAyub: Broooo! See enjoyment. Chai some people are really having it easy. Stayed awake till 3am because of the pains. I'm an ulcer patient, so i can't even take panadol extra. Your wife dey enjoy o, anyway na so marriage suppose be. We will get there soon |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Or11: 2:07pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
Klass99: Agreed and the STDs that come with swinging is not worth it. |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Hdanny(m): 2:17pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
Klass99:Don't get me wrong dear, I never said we don't have such issues in marriage, infact 60% of marriages we have today are going through all that shiit. My point is that, all these comes from those people that are pushed to marriage probably because of peer group or society drive and all, I personally can't date someone for more than 3 months without knowing she has bad hygiene not to talk of not being attractive to me. More reason why I don't like distance relationship. You geeeet my point now?? |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Exceed15: 2:49pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
CaptainAyub: You are also right bro |
Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by Kobojunkie: 3:36pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
Verysmart101:Marriage is the agreement between a man and a woman. The responsibilities you speak of are based on the agreement made by the man and woman in question.... these things aren't set in stone somewhere but dependent on the contract between the individuals in the marriage. In the OP'S case for instance, I think he and his wife reached an agreement that he would share in the house chores. However, he forgets that a marriage agreement requires consistency on the part of the man and woman to be a marriage. As I already explained to someone else, being a sole provider means nothing as far as marriage is concerned. There is, again, no rule set in stone somewhere that declared you exempt from chores or something. A man and his woman have to come together to decide that for it to be so - that's the marriage agreement. Women aren't useless. It is more the case that many out there are finally realizing and admitting to themselves that the equation their mothers as far as marriage is concerned worked against them and wil also not work for there children at all. |
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