[quote author=hotwax post=108871257] Bro there's one last thing you need to do , atleast for the sake of an innocent man that will one to marry your ex. You need to tell your family and her family the story of what happened. you should make it public.

When you start narrating this story to your family members, all of dem go open mouth dey look you

Jay5mie:





Thank God for nairaland o, woman no fit use my head again.

Everyday new wahala

But guys, stop taking women seriously, they are not worth it.

that is what I always say, women are also programmed to like multiple men,a woman is yours when she is on your bed,if she leaves your bed she is not yours anymore,have this mindset and know peace,if it is me I will not even bother to look too closely because my mind has already been conditioned to accept such behavior as normal

I don't want to believe this story is real, considering the last thread you created before this one

from this write up, you've known this girl for a long time,for her to have gained your fams trust

the thread before this was on December 14,and if I understood the story very well, this girl was not the one you're talking about in the previous thread?

what is happening op? how many girlfriends do you have?

you never told us anything about having another girl apart from her

is this all a hoax?

BLoomfrancs:


Marriage is almost like normal boyfriend and girlfriend relationships nowadays. No place safe for breda man. E be like say na baby mama sure pass.

I dey tell you o

Kriss216:
Post-Christmas breakfast.
Like I always say, only a foolish man will expect total loyalty from a Nigerian girlfriend.
Your beloved girlfriend is our community project. No reason am.

Young people and their wisdom......

So those getting married and starting families are fools, right?

In fact, everyone should remain single and just hookup like dogs.

slimjohn2k5:
You would HV listened to her side of the story.

Then process it for sometime before letting her go

Do you really think she have any "other side of the story" if not manipulation at that point?.
Why didn't she call back afterwards?.

Your menstruation is my Joy

WTF is that bullshit?

Sorry, na hook-up your babe dey do.

You are not alone though.
Over 60% of Nigerian girls are into hookup and it's increasing.

There is a video of a Nigerian lady speaking to her fiancee while being banged in a hotel in ikeja.

She was lying to him on the phone that she went to visit a female friend and she would soon get home..

Lalas247:
Ekiate ..... come and summarise this trash please
Orisirisi Super story....

Proof or you know the rest..
Don't quote me quote ur mama

lol wait a minute! How come you only show your aśś only during Xmas season?

Relationship doesn't freak me, I wonder what you guys see in it. Couple with the fact my day made relationship/marriage trumatic for me.

hotwax:
My lovely girlfriend is a sweet woman who always give me sense of assurance. She is very decent, caring and respectful. She is so firm that it took 4 months before we could talk about romance or trying it out.

She is well known in my family circle. I base in Lagos, she stays with her parents in ibadan, but she usually come around when my family members are having a gathering. She will cook for us, do the chores. Everyone grew found of her. My siblings do even ask of her. “Where is Anu? Take care of the lady ooo”. My mom who hardly get along with our girlfriends always ask about her. All these made me to be sure that’s the woman I was going to marry. After all, my people already knew her and they are getting along well. No complain from any angle

The Problem

Late October 2021, I informed her that I would be attending a ceremony in ibadan where stays. She was exited, she even told me she missed me, the kisses, sxx etc. She can’t wait to see me again. I was excited too.
I texted her the hotel address when I got to Ibadan.

She came, we hug, and she started kissing me, but we later calmed down afterall we are just seeing and we still have the whole night. So no rushing. She told me she saw domino pizza opposite the hotel that she is hungry for it. And this is where the devil came in.
She took some cash and prepared to go and buy the piza. She was walking out towards my hotel room door, so I stood to accompany her to the door, more importantly help her with the door. She opened the door before I got there, but I was behind her. A guy also came out from a room not directly opposite mine, (I actually knew when the guy checked in. He was dragging his trawl on the room walkway, so I guess he was a new guest).

As my babe came out, the guy was coming out of his room giving my babe seductive look. Immediately he saw there was a guy behind her, he quickly looked away. He went out of the hotel via the walkway, my babe also followed him because they were coincidentally going towards the same direction.

Truth be told, I never suspected anything. I was even mocking the guy in my mind, my girlfriend is the last person you want to mess with.
She came back with the pizza, sat on the bed, munch while she was busy pressing her phone. I suspected something must have crop up with the way she was busy chatting on whatsapp. She gave me no attention. So I joined her on the bed. With sad face she asked if I have tissue, I asked what happened, she said her period just came now. I said the bathroom has a tissue paper. She went in spent minutes in the bath, came out of the bath, to pick another pant in her bag. (She came with clothes, because she want to spend few days with me). She went back to the bathroom wash, did some other stuff.

She joined me on the bed, put my hand on her padded private. She used tissue paper as sanitary pad. She said sorry, I Bleep up. I said no she shouldn’t feel sorry. Her menstruation is my joy. Afterall you are not here because of sex. We have a lot to talk about tonite. So relax lets enjoy the night. She then told me she can’t spend the night. She has to go on the same day, before evening. She gave me reason that when her menstrual cramp starts she always boil water and other things. Hotel is not the right place for it. I agreed. 6pm, she packed and started going, I was busy on my laptop fixing my office assignments. I stood to see her off. She insisted that I should continue. No need. But I insisted, as I saw her off to the door, she insisted again, go and do your work na. I will take a bike just at the entrance, I don’t know what happened, I just agreed saw her walk out the walkway, I banged my door and continue my work on the laptop.

Then few seconds later, even if she wanted to get a bike, she will still be waiting outside for one, I remembered that the plate I used for lunch still has some leftover food and if not discarded will constitute foul stench in my room. So I picked up this plate to try and place it outside my door so housekeepers could pick it up.

I opened my room door, bend down to drop the plate at my door foot, I noticed someone standing at the door indirectly opposite mine. The person was knocking gently and calling on mobile too. I guess the person is trying to call the occupant of the room. But he/she was being careful not to knock the door loudly. I always mind my business, I said to myself, why do I care, this is a hotel. So I attempted to close my door. But then, something occurred to me, the person is a female and she wore white shirt, exactly like my babe. Out of curiosity, I looked back what I saw made me sick for days. The memory keep hitting my heart like dagger.

It was my woman, I didn’t know she saw me and became frozen looking at me praying I do not look back. But I looked back and saw her. She was shaking with her mouth widely opened. Then while the looking competition was on, the door opened and the guy opened the door waiting for her to come inside, when she didn’t go inside, the guy must have noticed she is looking at someone on the walkway, the guy also came out to see who she was looking at, he saw me and quickly closed and jammed his door.

Then I jammed my door too. She stood on the walkway for 10minutes. Then she started banging on my door. Calling my line. I didn’t answer. She sent text and also whatsapp.

“Its not what you think. I can explain. Something came up. Please open…I need to discuss something with you. I will not leave if you don’t open”. She did all that for like 20minutes. Then she left. That was the end of our 1+year relationship. She too did not bother to call or text after that day.

The whole thing felt like sharp scorpion sting to me. I never believe what I saw. Anything relationship started irritating me. I don’t think I can go into relationship again. These people are quick to call men dogs, but they are public toilet. I prefer to be dog than be where everyone dump their sper_m.

when I read the part you said it took you guys 4 months to talk about romance, I knew she was knacking the whole dic.ks in her street. Take hearth bro...... gals get mind Sha, just seeing someone in a hotel room is enough to move to the person's room and knack him.

Well for what it's worth I don't think this story is real but shit can happen and its happens.

My conclusion (not assumption) is based on ops previous thread.

Now back to the matter, are the babes on NL not going to come and defend themselves because the stereotyping is too much. If there is no justification or defense, can we conclusively infer that this is the new norm?

Holywizard:
Should I tell u what happened?
The guy was direct with ur ex. He quoted an amount of money for sex and ur ex couldn't hold herself. She might probably be into coded hookup as well. I know few working class ladies doing such.
I once had quickie, with another person's girlfriend at a hotel where I lodged few years ago. She was lodged with her so called man at the same hotel. We met at the hotel bar and our body chemistry matched. I was in my room when she chatted me up that I should open my door that she was coming. Na so we take run quickie and her man didn't know.
The truth is that ladies are always having one nonsense imaginary crushes on new faces most especially if they think that he has money or also good looking

How much you come pay am for the quickie?

salamudeen:
@ the mention of Ibadan I know where the story go end....

Why you talk so now?
These Yoruba hoes tho, they're just for the highest bidder most times.
Imagine spending 4months B4 giving your guy kpekus, then you deny am again to go and serve it for another total stranger.
My guy, whoever takes women serious is not serious.

slimjohn2k5:
You would HV listened to her side of the story.

Then process it for sometime before letting her go

Nah bro! She belongs to the street. The fact she didn't try to reach out after a days shows it

Holywizard:
she's into hookup. She didn't want to lose that money that she billed the new guy

the girl is not smart. if you want to hookup, hotels plenty. Not in the same hotel

Na wa oh....

Relationship matters tire me oh I swear...... I don't know why good guys keep meeting bad bitches..[/quote


Same as good girls keep meeting bad guys

Anobella:




Guys you see why I go against the female gender some of them are certified hoes or dogs masquerading in human flesh .. the best is to remain single .

She get mind ooo
For d same hotel ..
If I am in your shoes I will block her ducking ass everywhere nothing on earth can get I and her close again ..

I had a similar experience the girl still day beg me today she doesn't know that I no longer see her as a living soul .. I just don't funking care about her mother funking existence

what happened? shsre

Xantel:

Same as good girls keep meeting bad guys

your gender is a disgrace

Double0h7:
Great script... I like the part where you didn't recognize the woman who just left your room

directed by kunle afolayan

Holywizard:
oga she is into hookup, believe it or not!!!
If actually she wanted to have a one night stand just for the experience, she would have just exchanged contacts with the guy, book an appointment with him for next time. Believe me, the guy called a huge amount of money she couldn't let go of.
I know some big guys that would ask another person's girlfriends how much it would cost them to sleep with them if the ladies are proving stubborn

FACTS#. I keep telling guys that 99% of all women have a price tag. If you can match up that price tag in a subtle and gentle way,you will be amazed of how many so called cream ladies you will smash.. (TFXp)

lebete3000:


How much you come pay am for the quickie?

no money o. She was crushing on me. Girls love adventures

It's just too sad that we have to settle for all these girls in the name of marriage. Naturally, guys are emotional, even more emotional than ladies but women and their society has taught us to hide our emotions and summon our playboy character just so we'll be on their page. Women wants good bad boys, so we've adjusted to fit their fantasies and they jump around with other guys because other guys too have this trait.

Uptheante:

She pretended to be menstruating so that u will not demand sex from her at that moment because she is reserving the pussy for the guy in the opposite hotel room

commercial pussy. cash and carry

Emmajn1:
letting the harlot go is the best decision u took this 2021. Imagine marrying a runs girl. U are lucky bro...go look for a virgin girl,marry her and have peace. hotwax

where are the virgins

Good morning,
Thank you
And yes that's me
Have a nice day.[quote author=Heathrow44 post=108894915][/quote]

Bankalert:
This story get k-leg. Women are usually smarter than this. But this shii is all shades of dumb dumb. Either a fairy tale or.... It happened inside his head.

exactly my thoughts. When you can hookup in a separate hotel

inumidun2010:


Guys dey PARA oooooo... U never see GUYS wey dey chase PREGNANT WOMEN... Inside life, OJU TIRI.....

jesu

milann:
your gender is a disgrace

Whatever

akezn:
No be small matter.
Na so my own babe visit me this Xmas season. We were supposed to spend the whole holiday period together with a lot of plans on places to visit.
She was in the kitchen preparing what we will eat, while I was in the sitting room.
A message entered her phone. I picked up the phone as I called her to come take her phone. I checked and saw "I love you too". I was heartbroken, I still am. Babe said her neighbour mistakenly sent it to her instead of to somebody else.

I am weak.

I was the one that sent it after banging her in my crib

Estherqueen50:
Good morning,
Thank you
And yes that's me
Have a nice day.

Do u like the letter I wrote t u