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Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by johnsonpal: 11:54am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Social Media a place where people share their lives with people that don't even care. What is the rationale behind showing strangers on the internet that don't give a rat ass that you are happy, sad, rich? just because for likes and comments ? Why do we seek people validation so much in this generation ? The extreme rate people go to trend online these days is quite alarming. From fake concocted stories , to borrowing clothes and what not, to fake bs twitter bants, to the unnecessary rudeness just to claim savage. You can't even go on a lunch date in peace without someone busy updating snapchat with the food and location. Omo! this generation !! 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Martinez39s(m): 11:54am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Olaideolayemi:How do you know she has learnt from her mistakes? 2 Likes |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by MilkANDpepper: 11:54am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Your brother is exactly my kind. Even as a gf, we have a misunderstanding and you put it on social media... That's it. Your brother listens to possibly hear something to give him worthwhile reason not to go ahead but so far nothing and that's why. His type just like myself can forgive the worst but with a reasonable reason for doing whatever it was. Trust me he is wishing someone can convince him. Thing is if he remains with her, she won't find him the man she used to know. He knows it and that's why he is adamant. He is my kind. Genesiszero: 5 Likes |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Isokoboy(m): 11:55am On Jan 22, 2022 |
thorpido: Own kind of pple hardly listen to pastor .... Get who he loves and respect so much...lyk his mother to almost knee and beg him...that is the secret..if e nor work...forget about it 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by dodoatirice: 11:56am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Your brother gon sack his woman for bringing issues to social media, they you’re doing the same thing by bringing it here. How are you any different from your brother’s wife? See as people dey use mouth paint matter wey chai. Make i no talk 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by olabrad: 11:57am On Jan 22, 2022 |
thorpido: Do you know the actual offence? So, how do you know it is not too bad? 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Nobody: 11:57am On Jan 22, 2022 |
He will soon disown you too. Because you self don post the matter for social media. |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by SweetDipBenny(m): 11:58am On Jan 22, 2022 |
I dont even feel sorry for her her attitude reminds me of somebody 3 Likes |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by sorextee(m): 11:59am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Five gbosa for ur brother. I swear if na me, I will do same, without backing down (after warning her several times). The internet or rather social media is so fill of trolls. They tend to believe the first reporter, without hearing the other side. 4 Likes |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Afonasa(m): 11:59am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Ur bro reminds me of my uncle,he's a benevolent man and a philanthropist, the little thing I realise is,u need to study them as person,but if they get angry at you.....I bet my balls u will regret knowing him. Just try to beg enough,but then its a miracle if he changes his mind. Freelancing gets better with good gigs and great reviews, if not you ain't doing it right,and that's where I come in to help u get it right even as a newbie. Check my signature for more info |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by nike4love: 12:00pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Genesiszero: That woman will kill your brother, there are lots of things ur brother is passing through maybe he doesn't want anybody to know..... 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by MufasaLion: 12:01pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
This is exactly something I can do also. I wouldn't want you to be disturbed too much. Not everyone likes this social media frenzy. I personally, I'm a ghost on social media. 3 Likes |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Martinez39s(m): 12:01pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Genesiszero:Stop being a simp. You and others are advising your brother to persist despite red flags because you all have bought into the idea that marriage is too holy to break even when a woman is misbehaving big time. Can't you see you all are blue pill agents trying to keep your brother in the plantation? Agent Smiths. Lol. Her cries are touching you even though she is in the wrong. Stop letting a woman's tears move you. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by samdaisi: 12:01pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
My brother your brother should please forgive the woman since your mother has stepped in because our mothers are d semi God, Please your brother should go and learn from your Daddy because marriage has gone beyond physical it's like your brother is reigning today tomorrow might be the woman turn because immediately the issue is settled her friends will tell her what she needs to do to arrest and manipulate him, thank God you said he's not a person that believe in pastor 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Martinez39s(m): 12:02pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Tokskob2008:Thank you. |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by LaJoe2: 12:03pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
if he were a knowledgeable Christian, he should know he's not permitted to divorce, but to separate. Save himself lawyer fees and just separate. GOD hates divorce. Plus remain single while separated. If he feels the need for a woman in his life, then be reconciled to her. |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by safarigirl(f): 12:04pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Berryli: Shebi their issue has made it to Nairaland Front Page thanks to an in-law that will not mind his business Someone should do a thread on why in-laws will never mind their business and feel the need to bring family issues to social media. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by safarigirl(f): 12:06pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
nike4love: His brother will use his hand and kill himself You don't even know the couple personally, somebody is coming here to tell us how his brother is such a faultless saint and you're eating it up because your preferred gender is being painted as a saint. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Tadeus(m): 12:06pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Genesiszero: Please tell your brother to go ahead with his decision. Is better to remain single, healthy with rest of mind than being in a relationship that will shorten your life. I will never plead with anybody to remain in his/her relationship. People are going through alot. For him to insist on the divorce, his peace and life is at stake . If you want your brother alive, support his decision. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by TrumpDonald2: 12:09pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Genesiszero: Some ladies are easily so carried away. They want attention by all means and social media has given them a platform. Some people due to their nature are very private. And that is the nature of your brother. Just like me, I hate anything concerning me being posted on social media including my birthday. It's just of recent that I started letting go on that because it was causing problem with the people I care about. It's really a big sin to your brother. I hope he can be able to forgive her. Tell her to try making a solemn promise that it will never happen again. I hope that helps him change his mind. 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by CountVersailles(f): 12:10pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Genesiszero:Try learn better how to use your tenses, plurals especially "these" and "this". Your writing was barely readable. |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Ishilove: 12:11pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Na wetin she dey find she don see. I think her body don calm down. When something is broken, fix it. Don't throw it away. Give the man sometime for his bitterness to abate then let mum talk to him again. 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Ofadaman(m): 12:14pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
It's the teller dilemma, it hit me when I picked up my phone to call a radio station about some happenings and I had to add some spice to the gist to make it exciting, the truth with tellers dilemma is if you listen to too many stories and confession overtime you'd feel compelled to want to tell your story ,the major motive is to have a reason to be the victim and get sympathy ,to be the center of attention, even if it looks stupid, you'd marvel how powerful story telling, victim playing and sympathy seeking can be to women. A girl may pick up a quarrel with her bf just to experience sympathy of heart break by just seeing how a fellow girl received sympathy/attention, I've seen women sleep with people outside their husbands/fiance/bf just to experience some things said in those social groups/forums, I've seen women engage in all sort of vices and all just to feel amongst the coalition. The power of social affirmation, victim carding and sympathy seeking is more than you can imagine, it's a facade and often times people trapped in this get more validation from social pages than from real people, the moment you're stuck with a girl/guy who can't really wait to show the world what they are doing for every slightest fun they have in goes to social media, they take pictures before eating, everyone knows the corners of their rooms cause they make TikTok videos every minute. Pls avoid them. I'd leave you with this word, "People who are truly living their best lives, have little motivation to want to show the world that they are living their best lives, because best lives do not need social validation". 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Originalsly: 12:16pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Genesiszero: Doesn't one straw have verrrrry little weight?.... but if you keep loading straws on the back of a camel .... wouldn't the weight be increasing? ... and if you continue to load.... wouldn't the weight meet a point where it can break the back of the camel? ... and should it meet that point... and just one straw is added ... would it not break the back of the camel? ... wouldn't that straw be the last straw that broke the camel's back? Her posting their issue on SM is the last straw that broke the camel's back. The same way you wouldn't say it is only one straw and that shouldn't break the camel's back .... it is the same way you shouldn't say but it is just this one time she posted on SM he should forgive her. You can explain to his wife in SM terms .... she has been blocked and he is now scrolling to have her deleted .... she is finished. It's like football.... you violate the rules seriously ... yellow card ... warning.... you disregard the warning ... red card ... you're out. Your brother has issued red card . You too need to understand and learn from this situation .... there is a limit to what a man can tolerate... and a man with a cool head like your brother do not make rash decisions... it was long in the making... and he knew all of you would be pleading on her behalf... content yourself that you have tried... allow him to live his life. You can take the horse to the water but you can't make him drink. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by cayorday89(m): 12:19pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
bahdpersona:My thought while reading it, I can give warnings and also give you time to change or correct whatever it is I am not okay with and the moment I take my stand no one can change it. That man values his peace of mind at this moment and nothing can be traded for it. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by lomprico(m): 12:25pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Genesiszero: I love your bro! He is a MAN! |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Thatssobeyonce(f): 12:29pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
SmellySperm: So u support the divorce? Selfish being. Serves her right tho, buh he should forgive her this time |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Thatssobeyonce(f): 12:30pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
bahdpersona: Buh his decision is kinda harsh, i agree she messed up buh still a divorce is too much. If they have a kid, then they're punishing their kids as well 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Nobody: 12:30pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
What social media cannot do does not exist,ladies you see any small thing you will post ,most marriages that are breaking up is due to social media. 2 Likes |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by ogawisdom(m): 12:31pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Weak ground for divorce No court will grant it, more so when the wife doesn't want it. Divorce is not a simple thing |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by lagosrd: 12:31pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
The reason your brother is been obstinate is exactly what you're doing to him again. He doesn't like unnecessary publicity especially social media. Simple. Let him teach that lady common sense . most of them seems not to know what they are doing. |
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