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Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by yemi1504: 4:07pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Kollins11: You get times for those vagina people? 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by yemi1504: 4:09pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Bluewitch: Abi. Their gender never hears when it comes to warnings anyways! 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by yemi1504: 4:12pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Danjikanbauchi: Me too. But their gender never listens until you now take drastic actions and show them there are consequences for their actions, that is when they now calm down SMH. Talking from experience. 3 Likes |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by tyup(m): 4:20pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Genesiszero: You use "This" when you're referring to one person while you use "These" when referring to 2 or more people. take note 2 Likes |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by otokx(m): 4:25pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
I hope this does not turn to the case of the hunter and the bush meat. |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by LyfeJennings(m): 4:33pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
God bless ur brother some women needs to be taught ur brother knows what exactly he is facing that woman can ruin ur brother's life and that ur family abeg no beg ur bro again 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by yemi1504: 4:35pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
DroppingLiquid: You can say that again! This gender never learns until drastic actions are taken and they know there are consequences for their actions! 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Kmf0: 4:37pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Toxic ladies getting married lately 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by TOMMYS: 4:37pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
odinson1: I think the lady in question is a serial offender. After this issue is settled I wish she won't repeat that same thing and call for a divorce papers first |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by grandstar(m): 4:40pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Genesiszero His wife behaved badly by throwing family affairs on social media. That means his life is exposed to all on social media like Facebook and whatsapp. She definitely wasn't discreet and sort of wanted him to know. Frankly speaking, for some reasons, I think she was just subconsciously trying to test his limit. Unfortunately for your brother, divorce is something God frowns at seriously. Marriage is a lifetime commitment that can't be shoved aside when we want to. The only grounds for divorce and remarriage is adultery under the scriptures. If he truly is righteous, he needs to be righteous based on the terms penciled by his Creator and not himself. (Read Eccl 12:13-14). If he should divorce, he can't remarry as no adultery was involved. This would be hard for anyone as sex outside marriage is taboo. Also, remarrying does not mean successful marriage. 2nd marriages are more likely to crash than the first and 3rd marriages are even worse. Why? There is a Yoruba proverb that says "the broom that sweft the first wife away is waiting to sweep the new wife away. It reasons that what made the first marriage fail is going to make the new marriage fail as well. If we don't work on character faults that ruined the first marriage, it will invariably ruin the new marriage too. Your brother must salvage this marriage lest he rues the effect of his 'disciplined' rigidity later on in life. What's important now is that his wife must have learnt her lesson and he sticks with her for "God has hated a divorce." 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Nobody: 4:41pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
slawormiir: I don't view whatsapp status too. Minding my business is one of the best personal gifts I have. 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by grandstar(m): 4:44pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Genesiszero: I doubt the court will grant him a divorce if the wife is remorseful and determined that the marriage work. That may be the only saving grace. |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by OmoBryan(m): 4:48pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
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Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by kushme: 4:50pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Genesiszero: Let's answer this your question... But if I may ask the ladies, why always the social media, going out there to claim the victims card. This demonstrates how women are dependent creatures- If not on a man, then on a collective. With women, it is always a strategy about how to manipulate the other into taking care of women and women's interests. A woman hardly make personal decision for her self. So, social media is where they get the opinions/supports of other women. The herd mentality. Most women don’t identify as “feminist”; but most of them have adopted feminist attitudes, so toxic feminist ideology affects virtually most women. 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by smarttm: 5:04pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Genesiszero: You are like your brother...you come here to post this lengthy thing but can't tell us what she did that is leading to divorce...maybe the woman has been subdue to an ordinary house wife.... If he fails to forgive her he should go and create Mrs perfect...I am married and can't allow anyone not even my siblings to come and settle anything between us... 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Buffalo2(m): 5:08pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Itchy fingers. Always typing with 100mb bonus data. Now ur bonus data has landed you in trouble, my dear deal with it and learn ur lesson in a hard way. Sorry eh. 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Decryptor(m): 5:21pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Why are you people begging him? The man has seen fire that is about to consume him and has decided to quench the fire and you people are begging him to jump into the fire? Let his wife go and marry those her fellow women on Twitter. Your brother is a real man! Unlike that Noah9 who is behaving like a sissy! 2 Likes |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by pansophist(m): 5:22pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Lots of women in their usual infinite delusion, somehow believes they are the one marrying a man, not a man marrying them. When you warn them of things you don't like, they refuse to take heed and somehow believe they are irreplaceable. Your brother is my kind of guy. He should complete the divorce and get rid of her. But my question is, how did he ended up with such woman in the first place? He no look well? Anyways, if he is happy, good for him. Sadly, lots of women need to see your dark side before they take you serious. They must be convinced that the hand that protects them can also be the hammer that destroys them. If you've watched the 90's cartoon "beauty and the beast", it explains this female dynamic well. She needs to know you're a monster before she deem you worthy of submission. But for her it's too late, but its well deserved. Tell him he has a fan on nairaland. 13 Likes |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by pansophist(m): 5:29pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
IMASTEX: How can you describe me in one sentence ? Are you a babalawo? 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Decryptor(m): 5:29pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
marygreg: Nairaland is a faceless forum where people hardly use their real names and upload their personal pictures unlike Twitter where the woman definitely has her pictures which can make people who know them identify her and the poster's brother as her husband. There is a clear cut difference!! The woman deserves what she is about to get! 3 Likes |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by uthlaw: 5:35pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Kenturkey048:single $100 is better than all the heads on Nigeria currency.... If you admire the union,that one no b my concern! 3 Likes |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Mac2016(m): 6:12pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Genesiszero:Hmm. The wife erred no doubt but your brother shd be careful. People called the man of their words shd be careful o. God even hears plea. God forgives sins no matter how grave. Who is he? Once the woman has begged, he shd accept. I doubt, if she's reasonable, she would repeat such. Your brother just intentionally want to spoil his own good future plans.. Kids nko? The kind of woman outside nko? Sebi this one na only social media.. Next may be a witch, a nag, wicked but subtle plus CNN and social media. He should manage what God has blessed him with if it's not more than social media. Some men are seeing more fire and still managing without complaining. Which kind stronghead be that when the woman don beg... All in the name of the useless "am a man of my word", big level stupidity. |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by dontai(m): 6:23pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Designandlearni:how much bro? |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Hassanmaye(m): 6:39pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Equal2DeTask: |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Hassanmaye(m): 6:40pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
slawormiir:Haha damn niggar this your statement Made me laugh o |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Hassanmaye(m): 6:41pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
bahdpersona:Haha that's me o 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by decrownprince(m): 6:43pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Tokskob2008:And is not like the thing that her partner want is a bad thing oh. Everybody should know that social media is not always the answer when you can easily talk to your partner and if that don't work, there is always the family. 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Nobody: 6:56pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Jennyclay: The wife is so immature. Most women behave so stupid on social media. 2 Likes |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Tribalism123(m): 8:30pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
I am a pastor. Tell ur brother to contact me. I want to nullify the marriage. She cant eat her cake and have Champaign party. |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by jaxxy(m): 8:52pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Cyphar: because he is divorcing his wife got a flimsy reason?? The woman is wrong bt this isn’t an issue or grounds for divorce. Get angry bt sin not. Genesiszero: Op I hope ur bro will understand the place of forgiveness in marriage. Marriage is not a skol boys relationship where u jump in and out whenever ure offended or upset. |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Kenturkey048(m): 10:28pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
uthlaw: Is 100$ worth more than your head? |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by AgreatMan: 10:54pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
safarigirl: It doesn't matter if he was 100 percent on the wrong. Which kind of deranged human being go to post her family affairs on social media? Which year did they even started these social media sites wey everyone carry am for head? Don't people settle their ish before social media? People who know me reading shit about my private affairs on the world wide web. E go mad o |
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